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RE: Slave Registry - 3/30/2004 1:28:28 PM   
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headupyourownassagain,

Thanks for the banana. Why don't you keep your word and go back under your rock. I promise no submissives will bother you when you are wrong again when you can’t see them.

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RE: Slave Registry - 4/9/2004 12:55:04 PM   
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Just read your info.Here in Pt.Charlotte,FL.Trying to find a TRUE MISTRESS,not a pro.Please tell me about your registry.
Sincerely,
Bar

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RE: Slave Registry - 4/9/2004 2:19:54 PM   
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Just read your info.Here in Pt.Charlotte,FL.Trying to find a TRUE MISTRESS,not a pro.Please tell me about your registry.
Sincerely,
Bar


Bartos,
The registry they are talking about does not help you to find a partner. Its merely a place you go if you have a partner and want to share it with the world. You can put in your name and your partners name and print up a cute little certificate.

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RE: Slave Registry - 4/17/2004 6:30:01 PM   
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A couple of thoughts . . . .

Gloria, you wrote: "The registry they are talking about does not help you to find a partner. Its merely a place you go if you have a partner and want to share it with the world. You can put in your name and your partners name and print up a cute little certificate." As I said in my recent post on this topic in the Masters forum, the registry actually did begin life as a "personals" site where you could look for a partner. Thanos, the site's owner, disabled that capability about a year ago, feeling that it was being seriously abused.

shai^tana wrote: ". . . a Master may choose that a slave be registered in order to be logged into a central repository of slaves. This could facilitate any number of situations, such as sale of the slave, loaning/renting of the slave for specific functions . . . ."

You are, of course, quite correct, although I am surprised (pleasantly) that your comments weren't greeted with criticism. There really aren't that many who accept that a slave can be authentically owned and that authentic ownership means that she, as owned property, may be, by the choice of her Master/Owner, sold, loaned, rented, traded, or simply given away to another. Those who understand that this deepens rather than trivializes what it means to be Master and slave, Owner and property, are even fewer in number. The "Slave Registry", though, is not such a repository, and the simple fact is that there are about as many players and internet trolls there as there are on any other site.

shai^tana went on to write: ". . . the bar code may be utilized as a tattoo or other body marking on the slave and link to the registration information in order that there is some registration of the owned status and state of the slave. This aligns very well with what the rest of the world does in fact as in when a child is born, one registers the child with the state."

This Master suspects that shai^tana might prefer to live in a world in which the reality of her enslavement could be socially validated and accepted. Regratably, even the so-called BDSM community takes a dim view of M/s situations that some define as absolutist and others as authentic in which a slave genuinely is considered to be property, in which that is how she is defined existentially and is, therefore, far more than a role, and in which she might well be sold if that is her Owner's choice.

shai^tana continued: "simply by externally declaring that the slave is owned property, has a solidifying effect in much the same way as when you say something aloud repeatedly, (like a mantra) it becomes more real. The slave can access the site and view her registration thereby reinforcing her enslaved state. It is often hard in this world to be able to view such a thing in our lifestyle."

I agree. But I think being acknowledged and understood and accepted as slave property by even just one person other than her Master/Owner, one other person, even (and perhaps especially) a vanilla person, who is a regular presence in their lives, would be much more meaningful to the slave as an affirmation of what and what she is than some HTML certificate out on some web site.

shai^tana said: ". . . admittedly a Master may choose to register His slave at any point." A choice I wouldn't make. I would much prefer to cultivate a relationship or relationships with a special few from whom a slave would not have to disguise the fact that she is slave.

shai^tana wrote "Many are registered there as is clear from the numbers posted on the site and without interviewing them all as to their motivation, we can only broadly speculate." Actually, as one who has been aware of that site for a long time, I think you can speculate with reasonable accuracy that many of those registered did so when it was still a "personals" site.

Michael

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RE: Slave Registry - 4/17/2004 6:32:49 PM   
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I'm posting this correction here and to the same topic in the Masters forum as well. The owner of the "Slave Registry" site's name is Tanos, not Thanos, as I'd spelled it in my posts. One of my favorite poems is "Thanatopsis", and the "h" just sort of finds its way in.

Michael

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RE: Slave Registry - 4/19/2004 9:17:12 PM   
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If being registered there is something you and your master desire, then thats what you should do. To each his own.

As for me, my Master (and i) have no need nor desire to have me 'registered' there. I need no validation from cyberland to know who and what i am.

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/12/2007 9:06:49 PM   
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agree

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/12/2007 9:18:53 PM   
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Its a great way of showing the world how stupid you are.

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/14/2007 6:06:22 AM   
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this slave has been on the registry since the week it was up and running, at that time she was without a Master but that didn't change who she was so she didn't give it a second thought of not putting her name up there... without a Master she will still be a slave and so she is on the registry and recommends it to every slave she knows... she is very careful to remind them to ask their Master's FIRST and not try to surprise them with what they already did because some Master's for whatever personal reason do take offense at finding out their slave is registered after the fact. If one is owned she needs to get permission which is understandable... if you are sitting uncollared at the time you hear about it and feel that you will always be a slave and never change your mind then this one suggests you party on all the way to the registar LOL

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/14/2007 10:28:28 PM   
hardworking


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i would feel very proud if my Mistress wants to show the world that She owns me, by registering me as Her slave property.
Right now, i'm only starting in a new relationship, but if at some point registration is well thought out, it would mean a great deal to me.

Like most things that tell about the status of a M/s relationship, few regognize it so it's mostly a symbolic display of your status.
Still it does show that your Owner is proud to have you, otherwise He or She wouldn't tell the world this way.

hardworking

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/16/2007 7:09:38 PM   
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I sent this page to my pet today and within minutes she made me very proud of her, she registered herself as owned.  thank you for posting the information

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 2:54:20 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: topcat
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Topcat,
Well said Sir, this is a feeling than many share, regardless of their orientation.

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Just to redirect: what process, or what led up to the M/s's deciding to get registered? And, does that slave also wear their Master's collar? What does it mean to those individuals in terms of their level of commitment, was there any type of ceremony attached to being registered?

Thanks to all for the info provided thus far.

Cheers,
~rain~


~rain~,
Greetings to your Master and you.
i have a friend who has recently had her bar-code tattooed on the back of her neck.  her hair can cover it most of the time, but it is noticeable. she also wears a collar appropriate for the location.

Personally i see the registry as a place with little middle ground. Either you take it seriously, use it as it was intended, or people find it silly and stupid.





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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 6:52:23 AM   
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Daddy and i are going to look at the site together later tonight

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 7:18:28 AM   
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I indeed am a real time face to face community girl.
I am not a slave to any one at the moment.
In my path I figured out I pick up my sword far to much to have earned the title of sub let alone slave in my own eyes now.

In my first M/s relationship I indeed went to the slave register site, registered and got my bar code, and gave the man I claimed was my Master the certificate to validate I was his slave with a number as a gift after I was given his training collar & owned.
Once the relationship ended that number will be forever my identifier, my number, my barcode. 
As I'm not able to be a real time slave yet, and may not be able to be that selfless I say I'm only a self owned person in that site now.

I have no body encryptions of this number, but lol, would like a tee shirt with it on it.
I have indeed in public seen people with this bar code tattooed on the back of their neck, a forearm, and the back of a thigh in the two years I've been going to the public dungeons.
It indeed is a r/t tool and mark used.
suzanne

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 7:21:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: silksoul4u

If being registered there is something you and your master desire, then thats what you should do. To each his own.

As for me, my Master (and i) have no need nor desire to have me 'registered' there. I need no validation from cyberland to know who and what i am.

So I venture to guess your High School Diploma or your Marriage Certificate if you have one would mean nothing too ans it's also just a piece of paper to you.
The cyber site, and certificate have value for many just like other certificates of merit like diplomas do to some of us.
suzanne

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 7:24:38 AM   
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Apologies to the op for going off tangent. But I don't see any green dots next to anyone's name.

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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 7:51:10 AM   
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I've been registered there since 2003.  Although I don't 'use' it much, it was fun to register.  A couple of years ago I got my number (one of the 6 digit one's since it's an older number) tatoo'd on my ankle, but I've seen people with their barcodes tatoo'd, too.  The man who did mine said he wouldn't recommend getting the barcode done because over time, tatoos tend to stretch/bleed slightly (look at the lines of an old tattoo--they're thicker than newer ones), and the thinner lines of the code might be lost.

As a side note:  the register isn't just for slaves.  Submissives and servants can also register.  I don't know about now, but it used to be one didn't need to have an owner to get a number.  It simply stated that the individual was unowned and free.

The number is specific to the slave/submissive/servant, not the owner.  In the event ownership should change, the number goes with the slave/submissive/servant, making registering a one time deal--your number is specific to you, not the relationship or situation.

I wouldn't call it validation from cyberland, really, as I've known people offline who have numbers.  If it's something you/Yours want to incorporate into your relationship, go for it.  I see my number as a tanglible 'reminder' of my commitment to Master...much like touching His collar gives me the warm and fuzzies.  I don't 'need' my wedding ring to remind me of my vows to Him (or for validation from others that I'm married), but I wear it proudly nonetheless.




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RE: Slave Registry - 1/17/2007 8:23:28 AM   
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I asked my Master about it and he said why do it we both know who you belong to.  He thinks its no necessary.  If i was regestered i would never get a tatto with numbers Master hates body art.  I agree with Master that it is not necessary, however if it makes others happy i say go for it.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Slave Registry - 5/8/2007 8:16:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Its a great way of showing the world how stupid you are.


Ouch - didn't anyone ever teach you the golden rule?  Especially in BDSM where the name of the game is 'to each their own'?

I have a feeling you could have expressed your opinion of not finding the slave register to be valid in a more healthy, polite, and productive way.  And I'm sure it wouldn't kill you either.


On another note, I read someone earlier hoping that their Mistress would register them.  The s/s/b is the one who registers, according to the site instructions - so maybe you and your D/O/M could go on together.  Good luck to you all.

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RE: Slave Registry - 5/8/2007 8:29:18 AM   
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Seems big brotherish to me, a scarlet "s".

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