CynthiaWVirginia
Posts: 1915
Joined: 2/28/2010 From: West Virginia, USA Status: offline
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Welcome to the Collarme message boards, taniafolder. It's good to hear from someone who lives in France, and to hear expressions translated into english. I'm not lesbian, but I've had friends who were. I live in a tiny town in West Virginia (if you have ever seen The Beverly Hillbillies...I think West Virginia is only one or two generations past that, lol)...and the only lesbian women I've known in my present area have been women who got so fed up with men they said they were going to turn gay. Right in front of my delicate ears. Over the years, I watched them only take other females as lovers. I have no clue about how they work out anything sexual though, I know what people could get up to but not about preferences of who gets to receive oral sex. When I lived in California it was different. I knew women who were gay because that's just the way they were, and they were "out" about it. That was a long time ago though, it's been over 20 years since I lived in California. It was like a different world from where I live now. I'll bet France is very different from West Virginia as well. So...you have been looking for a lesbian Domme who will lick you without allowing you to lick her, and they are scarce here at CM? When I've had boyfriends within a D/s relationship, yes, I would go down on them if they were tied up...but I don't allow anyone to do me. My clothing stays on and I prefer to keep time together separate from when I have my own orgasms. If we were both madly in love, that might change things. So...if I were lesbian, in France I'd might be referred to as a "stone butch"? What if I was just Domme and lesbian, and not butch? Is there another name for that? Years ago I used to have friends who were owned fem subs and they used to pass around this old joke about how to turn a Dom into a subbie...the punch line was that every male could be turned into a subbie for a little while if you just gave him a good, long blow job. It just stuck with me, and every time I think about having sex with a sub (oral, vaginal, or my own arse) I keep hearing those long ago voices and I keep my jeans zipped. I prefer to enjoy the physical arousal for as long as I can, sometimes it has been for over 8 hours, than to end it quickly with vanilla type sex. For me...flogging or ass play IS sex. Each of us are warped in our own way. I have several fem sub friends who would like me to top them, and I probably could. Asses and legs and...people...are a lot alike to me now. It's when she'd turn around and Id see breasts and pussy that I'd go AAAAAAAH! Besides, as I told one of these friends, how would I go to my 70 year old mother and introduce my boyfriend AND my girlfriend to her?
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