Drifa
Posts: 547
Joined: 7/27/2007 From: Rural Texas Status: offline
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Honestly, as a lesbian, one of the key things is that I do not have to accept ANY heteronormative roles. As it happens, I'm submissive. I also fix cars, fight with medieval sword and shield, and worked my way up to a brown belt in Tae Kwon Do. Oh, and I do love shoes and wear makeup. My Lady is a Tai Chi black belt, very definitely dominant. She tends to dress more "butch" than I do, but then, I have an office job and she works in a materials science lab. I'm not so much into being licked, because I like penetration a lot. Licking is more foreplay for me, I am that weird girl out who doesn't orgasm from just oral sex.. My Lady doesn't care for penetration, but loves to be licked and lucky for me that's something I really love to do to please her. We're not "pillow lesbians". We're not "lipstick lesbians" even when wearing makeup. Neither of is a "stone butch" or a "femme". We're full-featured females! I'm not knocking people who are "into" butch and femme roles, but it ain't MY cup o'tea.
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