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RE: Dumped - 10/6/2010 7:53:19 PM

pyroaquatic

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The pursuit of something far greater than what they had clearly indicates he was a stupid moron that was living in a broken relationship with someone who was willing to build a bridge 100 percent of the way.

Woo. Verbose and Superfluous. Hopefully some truth.

Missy Kitty do not worry. He does not know what he lost because he was not sure what he had. Since this was not mutual thing he did not possess a single ounce of respect for how you felt for him. Or cared. You don't need that.

Eat some ice cream and chocolate. Go to sleep. If you wake up and are still depressed. Run.

Exercise counters depression and anxiety. Besides, you need to burn that icecream chocolate mix off.

Keep living and kicking and with enough ice cream and jogging each day is a reminder...
You'll survive and thrive.

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As your desire is, so is your will.
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RE: Dumped - 10/7/2010 7:50:54 PM

GoddessLisa2u

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It will be 3 months for me
I still cry momentarily everyday; even if its just while taking a restroom break at work.
My first submissive mate, I'm 41 yrs old & he truly touched my heart and soul.
Life took a real beating on him this summer, he detoured from me & entered anew.
I don't speak, hear or write to him at all.
The new love forbid him to make any contact with me whatsoever so it destroys me, no real closure.

I find myself just getting exhausted of crying each day that for one day I will just have "moved on" emotionally. I hope so anyways but there really isn't one sentence that works for everyone.

Friends/Family say "move on" but not so easy to do as it is for them all to say.
Everyone is different, everyone touches people emotionally in different ways.

If anyone here has a SURE FIRE PLAN I'm game to try it.

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RE: Dumped - 10/7/2010 7:53:16 PM

KatyLied

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Here's your plan. Do not depend on someone else for closure, you can provide your own closure. And try to think about the person you were before you met him. Certainly you had a life of importance - get it back.

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RE: Dumped - 10/7/2010 8:10:45 PM

GoddessLisa2u

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thank you much Katy for suggesting "the plan"
I am in a journey of trying to put closure as we speak.
I truly miss him so half my problem is I think back to the good times.
One sure thing I've learnt in my 41 yrs, I cannot make another feel something they don't but I know I care for him deeply. He entered & left my life for a reason
so I am lucky at that.

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RE: Dumped - 10/8/2010 8:06:08 PM

KatyLied

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Exactly. We are given people for a reason, sometimes painful, but we learn from it. And we go on.

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RE: Dumped - 10/8/2010 8:09:20 PM

sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Exactly. We are given people for a reason, sometimes painful, but we learn from it. And we go on.

Well...sometimes there is no reason. Sometimes it is god's cruel joke. I guess you learn either way.

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RE: Dumped - 10/9/2010 8:48:28 AM

aggie

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My Domme has dumped me for good reasons. Nevertheless I have and am agonizing over the situation. In my case I have the capability to address the issues and should do so. If you can address the issues take responsibility. If not I agree with the others who say to take a deep breath and move on.

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