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Negative experience - 8/31/2010 5:22:04 PM

Jaran

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I find the girls here to be a huge turn off. They pretend to be subs, but then redefine "submissive" to be something complicated that ends up being them playing psychological games with men. As a real master, i find it extremely offensive. A submissive girl thrives to please men in general and that means on web cam as well. When you merely ask to cam with a submissive girl, she should be glad to open the cam and do what you ask of her, sexually. Thing is, NONE of these "fake subs" actually put out. You have to talk, talk, talk, talk and play their game and MAYBE eventually they might put out... but then... are they truly subs? Or just pretending, and deep down ruling a relationship that they personally defined? Gotta wonder about these so called "doms" that deal with girls that never put out. Heck, i was writing this in the video room and got BANNED for it... prolly by so-called "masters". The impotent kind, prolly.

Then i told the "fake subs" that yeah, i did want to cam for sex and that i was horny tonight. I was told to go visit porn cams. The whole point of having sub girls is to cam for free, just to please the man and obey him.

They even had the guts to tell me that this place was not for sex. I mean, duh? This IS for sex.

Or i thought.

Because in the end, it's a place to talk endlessly with a computer, to digital people, and to girls that don't put out and generally never intend to, unless you play their game of "romance" of whatever that is. What a TURN OFF.

And when i say cam, i also mean phone and all and not necessarily sex but at least contact with real people.

This is REALLY not a place for real masters. Whatever calls themselves "masters"... i'd rather not define.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 5:40:35 PM

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The problem here lies in the fact that you and the submissive girls define "submissive girls" differently. It seems to me that said submissive girls would know best of all what they are supposed to be, and for whom they are supposed to do what. In my experience, a submissive girl submits only to someone she finds worthy, whereas an indiscriminate slutty exhibitionist performs sexually for a stranger (not that there's anything wrong with being an indiscriminate slutty exhibitionist, if that's what you are). If you want a free camslut, then you should probably call it what it is instead of becoming all riled up over a definition you invented for an orientation you don't understand. That said, few women are willing to give you everything you want for free. There is often a price, be that money, romance, or common courtesy.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 5:46:13 PM

Jaran

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There's little difference in what you call "submissive women" and ordinary women. I'll give you a true definition of what a submissive woman is.

When i tell her to remove her bra and shove a dildo up her ass, she removes her bra and shoves a dildo up her ass. And she says "thank you master".

Now that's submissive. Mind games certainly are not.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 5:46:18 PM

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Jaran, do you know why I'm glad people like you exist?

Because they make me look so much sexier in comparison.

VC (who meets up with the girls you harass on cam)

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 5:57:54 PM

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*Reads OP's profile..... cracks up laughing*
Sorry sweetheart, you have to know who you are and what you want before anyone with a brain is going to think that you are a 'real master'.

That said, you have been reading too much porn. In the real world, submissive women do not tend to cam or perform sex acts for just anyone who stamps 'dom' or 'master' on his forehead. As your OP has shown, calling yourself a 'master' does not make it so.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 5:58:24 PM

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Yep, it ain't easy being a master.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:00:52 PM

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*swoon*

VC, you ARE looking awfully good...

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:02:44 PM

peppermint

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I am so happy you know what a real submissive is.

I know what a real Master is. He is someone who realizes he can not order any submissive around because she is not HIS submissive. A real Master would never ask for sexual favors from a submissive he does not own because he realizes it takes time to develop a relationship. A real Master would realize it also takes time and his being honorable to gain a submissive's trust.

Let's face it...you can say you are a Master, however this is the internet. No one is going to believe you for one minute until you act like a Master instead of a spoiled little horny net geek. Spoiled horny net geeks are NOT Masters. They are cam jerks.

Here is my copy and pasted message for horny net geek cam jerks:

Take a shower, use some deodorant...some day you might be close enough to a real woman to have an encounter that does not require the use of your poor sore hand and a cam

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:03:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: switch2please

VC, you ARE looking awfully good...

Why thankyou kindly, Gorgeous!

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:04:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Jaran, do you know why I'm glad people like you exist?

Because they make me look so much sexier in comparison.

VC (who meets up with the girls you harass on cam)

Oh, the beauty of contrast!

This contrast theme has been recurring in my comments. I have to come up with something related to write in my forum signature.

Sadly, I'm in a bit of a haze right now. Everything I've tried to write today ends up messy and incongruent.

Edit: Damn, I even mispelled "right".

< Message edited by Twoshoes -- 8/31/2010 6:15:39 PM >

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:04:21 PM

Lucylastic

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giving a blow job isnt particularly kinky or submissive, demanding one is not very masterful either, in fact it can be lazy and selfish and very vanilla
as a weal master you should understand this
Men like blow jobs, thats the way it isto say women arent submissive because they dont wanna put your dick in their mouth is dumb and just makes them smart
Yes I got my mucking fords in a wuddle
sue me:)

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:06:30 PM

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I think I love you Jaran! You are the first real master that knows that sticking a dildo up my ass for a stranger
would be more enjoyable for me if I also removed my bra. Thank you for restoring my faith in Domlymankind.
As a token of my gratitude and everlasting submission to you, please enjoy this video I prepared just for you.
I hope once you view it that you will find me worthy of further exchange.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOmZf_oLb_A

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:12:16 PM

Twoshoes

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

I think I love you Jaran! You are the first real master that knows that sticking a dildo up my ass for a stranger
would be more enjoyable for me if I also removed my bra. Thank you for restoring my faith in Domlymankind.
As a token of my gratitude and everlasting submission to you, please enjoy this video I prepared just for you.
I hope once you view it that you will find me worthy of further exchange.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOmZf_oLb_A

Your video has left me disappointed. I figured there would atleast be a picture of a troll. I'm visual like that.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 6:27:00 PM

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Hehehe - i thought the OP wanted face to face meetings - not cam sex. Gosh, i guess that last comment, being a value judgment makes me a "not-true sub"? Damn, and i thought the last five years with my Sir gave me my stripes! Shows how little i know and how much the OP has to "learn" me.
*sigh*, its hard learning all this stuff.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 7:13:44 PM

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Just so i get this straight....

To you, a submissive is someone who does as told, when told, how told, period. Oddly enough, i thought a submissive is someone who retains the right to say no.

silly me!

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 7:18:21 PM

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Oooooh, someone else correcting all you non twue subs! About damn time someone put you right about this lifestyle. Bunch of fake subs! Shame on you! Now get to work, the lot of you, and bring me cookies!

Or don't... you know... whatever...

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 7:19:24 PM

VaguelyCurious

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Hey BK, how's about you take off that bra and shove a dildo up your arse and then thank me? Show 'em how it's done!

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 7:22:17 PM

poise

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
Your video has left me disappointed. I figured there would atleast be a picture of a troll. I'm visual like that.

Im so sorry TwoShoes. I hope this picture reflects what was missing in the video.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 7:22:36 PM

CalifChick

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaran

A submissive girl thrives to please men in general and that means on web cam as well. When you merely ask to cam with a submissive girl, she should be glad to open the cam and do what you ask of her, sexually.

Then i told the "fake subs" that yeah, i did want to cam for sex and that i was horny tonight. I was told to go visit porn cams. The whole point of having sub girls is to cam for free, just to please the man and obey him.

So you got thrown out of vidchat huh? And you think this is a free interactive porn site? Well bless your little heart.

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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 7:27:18 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
Your video has left me disappointed. I figured there would atleast be a picture of a troll. I'm visual like that.

Im so sorry TwoShoes. I hope this picture reflects what was missing in the video.

Excellent, now I can picture this.

Wait a second... he's curled up into a ball, his feet are wrapped together and his toes seem to be curling. Is this some sort of submissive troll?

Or maybe he's just scared! (It wasn't me.)

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