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RE: Negative experience - 8/31/2010 11:23:02 PM   
LadyPact


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The solution here is really simple.  If the OP is a Master, he's got a slave of his own to order about.  There's nothing stopping him from commanding his own property to shove anything desired up the old kazoo.  Someone with such vast experience must certainly know this.

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 4:36:55 AM   
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As a real master, i find it extremely offensive. A submissive girl thrives to please men in general and that means on web cam as well. When you merely ask to cam with a submissive girl, she should be glad to open the cam and do what you ask of her, sexually. Thing is, NONE of these "fake subs" actually put out. You have to talk, talk, talk, talk and play their game and MAYBE eventually they might put out... but then... are they truly subs?
S'matter Jaran...you are pissed off because you got a cam, slapped a "Master" label on your silly ass, and expected the submissive women to do whatever you wanted?

Oh grow the fuck up.

Do you actually think a submissive woman submits to everyone? News flash...she does not. A submissive, one who is true to herself, carefully chooses the one that dominates her, in the same way a Dominant carefully chooses his sub.

A REAL Master, which you might strive to become one day, would never expect instant submission from a total stranger, as he knows D/s is not a game to be played on a video cam. He knows that a submissive will give her submission to whomever she chooses, based on trust. Anything else is just a joke.

The females you encountered in the chat room are not...got that?.. ..NOT your submissives and you are not their Master. They do not owe you a damn thing. You would be wise to treat them as human beings.


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 6:10:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly
A submissive, one who is true to herself, carefully chooses the one that dominates her, in the same way a Dominant carefully chooses his sub.



holly, while I agree with the rest of your post, keep in mind that Jaran's careful choosing process involves telling girls to go topless and cram a dildo up their ass.  I tend to doubt that it's as thoughtful as you might expect.


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 7:25:27 AM   
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~Fast Reply~

Jaran, your thinking is right out of whack. Once you realize that submissives aren't trained monkeys to obey on your so-called "I'm Master, do as I say" command, then maybe, though I doubt it, you'll do somewhat better. Calling yourself Master and being one are two toooooootally different things. Something you have yet to come to terms with.

May I suggest you go to the circus to see the monkey act, you'll also get to see clowns and jugglers, and lions and tigers and bears OH MY!! Might as well take Myles with you, then you can complain to each other and leave the rest of us out of it.

'Nuff said.

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 8:14:22 AM   
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~FR to the OP~  wah, wah, fucking wah

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 8:44:27 AM   
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The thought that someone might legitimately believe in the porn crap view of bdsm is just too much to contemplate. I don't want to think anyone is that clueless.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

When I read the post I saw it as fake.  No one could be that clueless.  To me it seemed like someone .. more than likely someone with an agenda to spur on an attack senario, did so because they wished to point out how wrong that is.

*sigh*
I am becoming cynical.


Really?  I took is as someone who was unable to distinguish porn from real life, and was complaining that this site reflected real life more than he liked.



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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 9:13:54 AM   
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It's funny, Jaran! When I ask girls to get naked on cam, they do it. Maybe if'n you take your head outta your ass for a bit and grow up a little, you'll get to see naked girls, too!

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 9:22:00 AM   
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Jaran's approach is just a variation of,
"If you love me, you will do it.."
"If you were truly submissive, you'd do it..."
"On your knees, bitch,"
"Prove you are a female, get naked on cam."

People use these tactics to manipulate people, because (unfortunately) it works. Obviously not all the time, but you throw out enough lines, eventually you'll get a bite. There are some very confused, unsure, unstable, unaware individuals out there. This one just seems to be so over the top, as to appear unbelievable.


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:07:53 AM   
Rule


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact
There's nothing stopping him from commanding his own property to shove anything desired up the old kazoo.

She would undoubtedly obey, but I rather expect that she will wonder why he commands her to shove anything desired up his old kazoo.

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:17:01 AM   
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It's unbelieveable the things I've been made to do in chat. It's just sad.

Can someone please tell me it's all right to put my clothes back on? Please?

Jeff

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:34:58 AM   
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You might want to take the baseball bat out of your butt first.

Otherwise you'll tear your pants.


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:36:52 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear

May I suggest you go to the circus to see the monkey act, you'll also get to see clowns and jugglers, and lions and tigers and bears OH MY!!


I bet the monkeys throw crap at him. 


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:38:57 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: myotherself

You might want to take the baseball bat out of your butt first.

Otherwise you'll tear your pants.


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I feel so abused!

Jeff

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:39:21 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx
It's unbelieveable the things I've been made to do in chat. It's just sad.
Can someone please tell me it's all right to put my clothes back on? Please?
Jeff

Can you send pictures first?  You know...there is this one thread in Ask A Master.......just saying.

< Message edited by poise -- 9/1/2010 11:41:40 AM >


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:43:50 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
quote:

ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear
May I suggest you go to the circus to see the monkey act, you'll also get to see clowns and jugglers, and lions and tigers and bears OH MY!!

I bet the monkeys throw crap at him. 


Not just plain ole crap, but flamin neon purple crap. The kind that doesn't wash off for months and then leaves a permanent stain in the shape of a lil shrivelled dick to go with the attitude.

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 11:46:43 AM   
myotherself


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx



I feel so abused!

Jeff


...and doesn't it feel goooooooood?!

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 12:39:45 PM   
Myles


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holy gucomole dip folks sure are quick to judge others here

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 12:47:05 PM   
myotherself


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What Jeff and I are doing is called 'having a bit of fun with each other'.

Reread the exchange with your 'life is sure funny!' hat on, and you will see that.

Please don't jump to erroneous judgements or conclusions.

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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 5:12:39 PM   
LadyPact


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rule
She would undoubtedly obey, but I rather expect that she will wonder why he commands her to shove anything desired up his old kazoo.


Wha?  You don't think he's got sensitive nerve endings and a prostrate up there?  I mean, once he pops his own head out as some people have suggested, it could be one hell of a good time. 


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RE: Negative experience - 9/1/2010 5:32:33 PM   
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Rule, I thought the saying was it's not easy  being green? When did it change?
quote:

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Yep, it ain't easy being a master.


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