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Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:32:42 AM   
NotAnAveragesub


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Status: offline 		This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with. For example; Using your used gym socks as gags, Taking your underwear you wore all day and filtered water through it into your submissive's mouth, etc...  
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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:39:54 AM   
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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:40:36 AM   
SubPet715


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Making them turn off the computer?


I see what you did there <_<

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:41:26 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
Making them turn off the computer?

That's just cruel punishment...

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:41:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		Attempt to get humiliation ideas by creating a thread because they lack their own creativity in their dynamic or need wank material for some reason?

Just a shot in the dark, but that would seem fairly humiliating to Me.


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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:42:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Attempt to get humiliation ideas by creating a thread because they lack their own creativity in their dynamic or need wank material for some reason?

Just a shot in the dark, but that would seem fairly humiliating to Me.



You're so great, that really made me laugh and I needed it.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:45:16 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

That's just cruel punishment...

Why thankyou!

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 10:45:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: NotAnAveragesub

This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with. For example; Using your used gym socks as gags, Taking your underwear you wore all day and filtered water through it into your submissive's mouth, etc...  


Now why the hell would I want to humiliate my boy? He is not into humiliation and thus I have to respect what we both know is not good for his growth nor would it be productive to our dynamic.


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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 12:30:02 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		I would make him type a message using an unfeasibly small font, Then make him Randomly capitalise Some words...

He'd feel SO stoopid!

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 12:30:13 PM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		master has to do none of these things his collar is round my mind and heart so to speak i gave him my submission and he took it. its who we are master and sub with huge connections and deep love

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 12:43:00 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
Making them turn off the computer?




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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 12:50:10 PM   
DesFIP


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Insists all ice cream be chocolate?
Real rough stuff. lol

OP domination means leading the way. It doesn't automatically mean humiliation or sadism or any of those other things.


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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 12:51:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SubPet715


quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Making them turn off the computer?


I see what you did there <_<

You know you liked it.

OP: You're getting shit because this looks like another attempt at a wank fodder thread, no matter the actual intent. That said, I'll try to be serious for a moment.

quote:

ORIGINAL: NotAnAveragesub

This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with. For example; Using your used gym socks as gags, Taking your underwear you wore all day and filtered water through it into your submissive's mouth, etc... 


It's almost like you're asking for two things here.
  • Creative ways to dominate my submissive
  • Creative ways to humiliate my submissive
The first isn't necessarily as simple as it may seem, as every submissive is different. I'm a big fan of taking simple words that have nothing to do with kink, putting an image in her head, and using her own brain against her.

Humiliation is something I have very little interest in myself. If I need to humiliate a submissive to dominate her then I'm with the wrong sub. Though I supposed I could have her prep some of that zucchini ala Lance, telling her only one step at a time.


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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 1:29:24 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: Shadow-tiger

The first isn't necessarily as simple as it may seem, as every submissive is different. I'm a big fan of taking simple words that have nothing to do with kink, putting an image in her head, and using her own brain against her.


Im not sure the OP will find this little tidbit as wankfodderable as the one about dirty socks,
but I certainly thank you for sharing it.
Im not touching the zucchini comment though...

< Message edited by poise -- 9/2/2010 1:30:06 PM >

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 1:45:13 PM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		Creative things I've done in the past, is stuff like painting clothes pin with either Glow in the Dark paint or paint that glows under black lights. Making stuff you can tie or chain somebody up to. Endless list of creative things, including making home made bed of nails. Stuff I've been doing on/off for years now.

Love being creative with body paint, hell even stickers on the body. Also being creative generally happens at the spur of the moment. I've actually used Cereal Boxs to spank ass with. Whatever hits my imagination at the time.

Doing a little light skin etching into the skin with designs, that's something creative with a tip of a knife. Sounds a hell of a lot worse than it actually is.

Having somebody stand on their tips of their toes while fracking with them, that's kind of fun. Playing a kinky version of Simon Says, that's also kind of fun and creative and well...

Being creative with different colors of wax on the body, some people's wax work just is not very asthetic in nature. The body is an awesome canvas in my book.

Leaving marks, in certain patterns... that's creative. Hell Rope Bondage can be very creative and leaves behind wonderful patterns on the skin.

Things suck as cum soaked panties shoved in the mouth or socks, well... that really does not strike me as very creative.



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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 1:46:50 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		The last thing I want is to develop different ways to Dominate a submissive. The connection is the important thing, and consistency counts.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 1:49:37 PM   
crazyml


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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 9:08:13 PM   
SubPet715


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Status: offline 		I wonder if OP belongs to Mistress Lexi =/

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/2/2010 11:01:36 PM   
dove967


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Status: offline 		It may not be the most creative way to dominate,but, it is a simple, consistant , and effective way my Sir impresses His dominance on me.  I am not allow to light my own ciggerettes except when He completely unavailable to me.  Sounds simple, but, imagine having to go and hand Sir a lighter and request He light my ciggi while He's in the shower, on the phone, driving the car, but, He is faithful to stop what He is doing, look me in the eye, and decide if He wants to light it or not!  Now for me, that's a great deal of power He holds and I feel His dominance every time.

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RE: Creative Ways to Dominate - 9/3/2010 5:22:29 AM   
angelikaJ


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quote:

ORIGINAL: NotAnAveragesub

This is for everyone to post a creative way you Dominate/humiliate your submissive or that a submissive has been Dominated with. For example; Using your used gym socks as gags, Taking your underwear you wore all day and filtered water through it into your submissive's mouth, etc...  


Here is a radical thought:

While it does please my Master for me to share fantasies and desires with him, I also know that he is more than capable of dominating me; mastering me... that is (in all it's facets) His job.

I would not undermine His authority by asking other people for ideas [to use as wank fodder].

I just have to remember an email, a look, a touch...his fingertips on my skin or any number or real life happenings to be taken there in an instant.

It is the man that has mastered me... it isn't a bunch of things told to me by strangers on the internet.
It is the relationship with this specific person: this man, and not the wrappings in and of themselves.

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