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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 3:31:35 PM   
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a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women? NO
b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women? YES
c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"? NO
d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"? YES
e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances? Yes



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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 3:36:33 PM   
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b. no. It takes two to fuck.
c. Not in my case. I've always preferred blue collar.
d. Not in my case. I looked for my best match from men that I found attractive.
e. No. Women can be just as lying a deceiptful.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 3:50:37 PM   
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a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women?

* You know, I don't really know the answer to this, but lately I feel as though the girls I know have a lot more sexual partners than the guys I know.

b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women?

* It's actually a close call, but yes, I do.

c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"?

* Absolutely. Status and income is the age old thing we're supposed to want in a man, and it hasn't quite stopped mattering. The other thing is that a solid income is a sign of stability, and most people want that, regardless of gender.

d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?

* Yes, yes, a thousand times yes. And it's the strangest phenomenon in the world.

e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances?

* Yes, I absolutely do.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 3:56:32 PM   
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Keep em coming folks. I have a detailed write up I'll post on my own web site (just to avoid posting a novel here) and I'll provide the short answers (according to my research anyway) here. Maybe tomorrow morning when a few more have had a chance to comment.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 4:00:34 PM   
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a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women?
Yes, men are shameless whores

b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women?
No

c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"?
No

d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?
No

e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances?
No

Thanks

That will be twenty bucks please.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 4:16:57 PM   
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[a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women?

No

b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women?

No
c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"?

Yes

d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?

No


e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances?

No


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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 4:53:25 PM   
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a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women? not necessarily, although many would if they could

b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women?  Obviously not in every case, but based on the stories I've heard, yes.

c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"? To some women, and if they're intending to breed with said male, rightly so. Me, I just require that he have a job.

d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"? Sadly, yes, although women have aesthetic standards too.

e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances? I think both genders lie.


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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 4:56:09 PM   
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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 4:56:45 PM   
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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:12:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

OK, I've been doing research recently and I have a few questions to see what people here generally believe. Note, all of these questions are only relevant to the straight community... this is about males and females mating. I have no idea what, if any, differences in the data would show up for the gay & lesbian communities. I'd also ask that you not go google answers here... I'm looking for what you accept as truth.

a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women?
b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women?
c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"?
d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?
e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances?

Thanks


a)   For generation Y and forward?  no.  previous generations? yes.

b)  Yes.

c)  Yes, as he becomes older.  Young rich boys are not attractive.

d)  Completely and totally yes.

e)  Not really.  They are just deceitful about different things.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:22:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

Thanks


a) No
b) No
c) No
d) No
e) No

Edited 'cause I mixed up the quote box thingy.


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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:29:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women? No.

b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women? Yes.

c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"? No

d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"? Yes.

e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances? No


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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:41:10 PM   
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a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women?
No. I believe it's about the same. It should be, if they're straight, because the men and women are pairing up with each other, one to one.
b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women?
no
c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"?Not for me. For the "average" woman? Hard to say. i guess, "yes"
d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?
i believe men in general select for beauty. i think the average woman selects for attractiveness, money, and status. Anyone who isn't shallow (man or woman) also selects for personality.
e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances?
no


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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:47:02 PM   
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d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?



Whoever takes the initiative might as well pick people they find beautiful to attempt to get to know better. Why wouldn't they?

It's impossible to know someone's personality at first glance... Nor is it possible to predict who finds what attractive.

The times I've been approached by women I've forgotten about the whole beauty thing.

It doesn't completely explain the difference, I'll admit.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:49:04 PM   
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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:50:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women? Yes
b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women? No
c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"? Yes
d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"? No
e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances? No

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 5:58:29 PM   
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Hey RS and I are in total agreement! :)


Me too! :) Yes to all, especially #3.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 6:20:13 PM   
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d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"?


Whoever takes the initiative might as well pick people they find beautiful to attempt to get to know better. Why wouldn't they?


Lots of reasons. Past experience with egotistical beautiful people, for instance. A vague distaste for perfection. Liking to be the prettier one in the relationship... There are seriously a lot of reasons that people (women, for the most part) don't go for beautiful people. I'm wary of any flawless guy, for instance, because they tend to be jackasses, whereas men who look like human beings have had to develop other skills, like a great sense of humor and winning personality.

Obviously that's a sweeping generalization, and I have known lots of incredibly good-looking guys who were also decent people, but there's something about guys who have been insecure at one point or another that makes for a much more interesting human being.

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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 6:27:46 PM   
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Hey RS and I are in total agreement! :)

'cause I'm old school and brutally honest, like you.




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RE: Of men and women... the dating game - 9/14/2010 6:31:50 PM   
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a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women? b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women? c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"? d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"? e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances?


a) Do you believe men, on the average, have more sexual partners over a lifetime than women? YES
b) Do you believe that men are more likely to be unfaithful than women? NO
c) Do you think a male's status/income is a significant driver in "attractiveness"? YES
d) Do you believe (in broad brush strokes) that women select for "personality" while men select for "beauty"? YES
e) Do you believe men are more likely than women to deceive in order to increase their chances? NO

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