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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/4/2010 11:29:53 AM   
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The OP asked why guys do this.  I think I know.  It's a crappy dating strategy, of course, but it's so pervasive, it's not just happening by accident.  Also -- the same OKCupid data shows that if you're a woman over the age of 35, you get many more emails if you post a photo that shows cleavage.  The effect from 18-35 is a slight uptick, but once you're older, the relative improvement is dramatic.  And we both know a lot of guys don't "get" women at all, and think women must be kinda-sorta like men with curvy parts.  So hey, if I like seeing some skin, the women will like it too.
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But that's exactly the part I don't get. I mean it's a well-known fact that men are a lot more sexually overt, outspoken and explicit. Fine. But if their target is a woman, moreover a FemDom, most likely a Lady, should they not make allowances for the fact that Ladies don't usually like to have naked facts jumped at them (let alone with such an impolite connotation as "mooning")? I always think a sub should be somewhat more polite, more considerate than your average lout.

I found some of the first explanations interesting that said something along the lines of "displaying the goods on offer", but again, I simply don't get it. I am looking for a sub or slave, not for a spankable or fuckable ass with some sorry body attached to it.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/4/2010 11:35:38 AM   
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.....................And sadly, it's usually the older dudes who seem to desire to exhibit themselves in this way. The gravity of the situation is obvious......................
 



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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/4/2010 11:43:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Even if they ARE eye candy kinds of guys.. I am not likely to respond to them positively if ALLL they have to offer pic wise is their ass. Yeah, I will entertain myself with the potential of that "blank canvas", but that entertainment will just be in my mind.

Can it TRULY be that so many men have no social skills whatsoever? REALLY?

I have utterly run out of compassion for the socially inept who will do NOTHING to help themselves, and expect that simply being on the internet and waving their photos will get the attention of a woman who will actually meet their incredibly exacting standards. HIDE HIDE HIDE.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/4/2010 2:20:45 PM   
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When people feel sexually unrecognized, they are often desperate for the world to notice them in that way, too.  Imagine a guy who has been hearing from women for years, "Oh you are so nice, I want you as a friend, but I don't think of you in that way."  A lot of male subs are in this boat, because women in this society tend to get more turned on by guys who are assertive.  I see such photos as a plea to be noticed in a sexual way, even if that way is, "Yeah, you're sexual.  Ick."

The flip side of this coin is that years of rejection of one's desires can leave a sub man with passive aggressive resentment toward women.  That then leads to more rejection -- vicious cycle.

Part of the issue, also, with guys who post ass pics, is they probably don't have female friends who they know well enough to ask to view their profiles.  So they're profoundly clueless about how to approach women who have owned an alternative sexuality.



If I may play the Devil's Advocate for moment: these men are having lots of women tell them that "you are so nice, I want you as a friend," but they have no female friends to tell them that their profiles suck? What, are their female friends dying off at staggering speeds?


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/4/2010 3:07:46 PM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/4/2010 6:25:37 PM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 10:50:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well this a rather interesting thought I say sincerely it has struck me never, that a  naked  male sub’ ass would be a discourtesy.  You are right Ma’am   this habit is at least bizarre ridiculous one, but I have to admit my profile picture is  only  a circle because of I did not find a suitable  naked ass picture just. I think the male subs want to express their inclination to femdom with pictures like this. They some believe the slavery's essence  is possible to express with so full naked photograph the most perfectly only.  

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 10:52:10 AM   
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Well this a rather interesting thought I say sincerely it has struck me never, that a  naked  male sub’ ass would be a discourtesy.  You are right Ma’am   this habit is at least bizarre ridiculous one, but I have to admit my profile picture is  only  a circle because of I did not find a suitable  naked ass picture just. I think the male subs want to express their inclination to femdom with pictures like this. They some believe the slavery's essence  is possible to express with so full naked photograph the most perfectly only.  

Really?  When's the last time you bent over and showed your naked ass to some random person on the street?


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 10:56:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		I also find it equally disgusting when a guy posts a profile with his sub/slave or some random photo he found of some woman showing shots suitable for a gynecological discussion.

I mean, what possible interest would I or other women have in a man with no photo of his own, or not even in said photos, who shows beaver shots? Ugh.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 11:11:06 AM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 11:17:37 AM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 11:21:10 AM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 11:32:05 AM   
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e most perfectly only.


Really? When's the last time you bent over and showed your naked ass to some random person on the street?


 Yes Ma’am,   But I was not aware of it yet then, that this is a disgusting behavior. I will not make things like this I promise it then.


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 12:31:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well this a rather interesting thought I say sincerely it has struck me never, that a  naked  male sub’ ass would be a discourtesy.  You are right Ma’am   this habit is at least bizarre ridiculous one, but I have to admit my profile picture is  only  a circle because of I did not find a suitable  naked ass picture just. I think the male subs want to express their inclination to femdom with pictures like this. They some believe the slavery's essence  is possible to express with so full naked photograph the most perfectly only.  

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 12:49:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		(Shivers at the memory)I saw one recently... and ewwwwwwww gross! That sucker was held wide open so you could almost see his head stuck right up in there. You know what he wasn't thinking about and that was being a wonderful slave to a great domina! You know exactly what he was wanting and it had nothing to do with service or respectfully presenting himself. He was wanting a bit of butt action... but I don't see how we could do much for him with his head stuck up there so far.


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 12:52:49 PM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 1:01:07 PM   
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e most perfectly only.


Really? When's the last time you bent over and showed your naked ass to some random person on the street?


 Yes Ma’am,   But I was not aware of it yet then, that this is a disgusting behavior. I will not make things like this I promise it then.



Really? Are you saying that on the street, at a bar or at the checkout while paying for groceries, you would bend over and bare your backside to any woman you happen to be interested in?

Or.....are you saying because this is a kink site and you're advertising for a dominant woman that this sort of behavior should/would be totally acceptable?


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 2:25:47 PM   
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Well this a rather interesting thought I say sincerely it has struck me never, that a  naked  male sub’ ass would be a discourtesy.  You are right Ma’am   this habit is at least bizarre ridiculous one, but I have to admit my profile picture is  only  a circle because of I did not find a suitable  naked ass picture just. I think the male subs want to express their inclination to femdom with pictures like this. They some believe the slavery's essence  is possible to express with so full naked photograph the most perfectly only.  


All right - modesty thrown to the wind.  What the hell.  I did have a butt-and-back shot as my avatar and it's still in my profile.  You're right - part of the reason I used it was to hint at submission.  I hoped that it would have the effect on a woman of making her think, 'Yes, I want to bite/scratch/whip that'. 

My pic was generally received well.  Pictures of naked male flesh can 'work' in the way a man wants them to work - but they have to be done in a restrained way - and kind of 'artistically'.  Hints, not 'in your face'.  The point is not to show detail so much as suggest a mood. 

And then . . . the next, and probably more important, task is to show that you have a personality to go with the picture.  Women don't seem to want, or are easily able, to 'invent' a personality to go with the image of a man, the way men (including me) can with pictures of women.  

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/8/2010 11:42:48 PM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 12:24:46 AM   
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