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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 1:00:22 AM   
cromaH


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Really? Are you saying that on the street, at a bar or at the checkout while paying for groceries, you would bend over and bare your backside to any woman you happen to be interested in?

Or.....are you saying because this is a kink site and you're advertising for a dominant woman that this sort of behavior should/would be totally acceptable?



There is truth in both of your statements Ma’am but the bending and the bare backside on the streets, at the bar or the cashier's desk etc. did not lead to many results for me till now, because of this easy to give them up.   The   pictures of naked male bottom placed in the collarme are much more fruitful but it is not necessary to insist on it if the readers' single part considers this disgusting one  


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 2:32:46 AM   
cromaH


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All right - modesty thrown to the wind. What the hell.



You have truth vainly!  A German proverb  says it:  “the woman's respect precedes the church service”  (Frauendienst geht vor Gottesdienst)  A literary translator would be able to express the two English verbs with one of course, but my English is onto light years' distances from this.   The essence is the female dom is  right ALWAYS  the male inferior (the sub)  has to take notice of this  at all times! So the arguing with the Ladies prohibited for the inferiors (subs), the subs are allowed to argue then only, if the Ladies ask for their opinion or we were invited to give our views about how the thing should be done .   It is a mortal sin to argue about the morals (or modesty) and the fashion with women. They wore a crinoline once another time they wore mini skirt or hot pants.   Napoleon's minister of police (Fuché) knew already, the women decide everything because of this said it: “look for woman” (cherchez la femme).   That opinion is spreading: the women decide all little things, the men though the big ones. That's right theoretically, but a so big thing does not exist, never existed! It is the trouble.  


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 5:31:03 AM   
Scala


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Status: offline 		I often cannot believe why submissive men need to approach dominant women in this manner. My ex Mistress used to and still does get a lot of emails from submissive men. Most of the emails are, to put it nicely “simplistic and vulgar” in nature and completely lacking in even the most basic of social skills. Even those written by men who stated that they had a high position within their career lives wrote emails in a manner which in the “vanilla” world would never ever get a response, so why do they feel that it’s ok to do this within a BDSM context? 


Unrequested photos of body parts were sent, most of which were totally unappealing and a turn off for her. Imagine clicking on an attachment and instead of seeing a tasteful photo of a man showing himself in the best light, your screen fills with some guy’s hairy ass? 

Most were requests  for her to fulfill their sexual fantasies without a single thought being given to why would she want to do this? They rarely asked themselves before writing, what can I do for a potential mistress? How can I make her feel comfortable in having me as a slave or submissive? How can I serve Mistress? What wishes does she have? Even the ability to read seemed to be too much for them as they clearly had not read her profile first.

Of course there were exceptions to this and these were the men who made a serious effort to treat Mistress as a women and a person first and then looked to exploring the BDSM bits with her.

Often I felt embarrassed to be placed in the same category of men who termed themselves as a slave or a submissive man when the majority was only thinking of their own wishes.

So why men insist on sending these types of photos remains a mystery to both of us

Any way enough of the moaning I wish you all well Scala

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 6:10:53 AM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 3:29:38 PM   
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Now that I think about it, I don't have a problem with random ass shots when I'm looking for a pretty piece of meat. But if I'm just looking for someone attractive to hurt, I hope he doesn't expect me to cater to his fantasies that way I would a person that I respect.

The ones I don't understand are the ones that that post porn shots in their profiles. Not only is it not a picture of you, but it tells us that you can't communicate your desires in a way that isn't based on porn.


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 4:32:58 PM   
Iholdthestrings


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ORIGINAL: strangedesire

The ones I don't understand are the ones that that post porn shots in their profiles. Not only is it not a picture of you, but it tells us that you can't communicate your desires in a way that isn't based on porn.



I agree. I don't want to see pictures of someone else, anyway. I want to see the person I'm reading (if I'm lucky) about. Admittedly, I used to post porn shots on My profiles. Then again, they were still photos of Me.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 8:24:11 PM   
lickenforyou


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Status: offline 		I have a butt shot on my profile. Here are my reasons...

1) Ignorance. I knew about the dick pics, but this is the first Ive heard about butt shots.

2) A lot of 50 yr old men don't take care of themselves. I work out  and I don't want to be rejected because of my age.

3) I felt that I was showing how vulnerable I am willing to be, It was actually very hard for me to put that pic up.

As a new sub on this site (I signed up for the acct years ago, but just now am taking it seriously) I am learning as I go. I have a couple of emails out to Dommes right now. If I don't hear back from them in a few days (is that long enough to wait?) I will change the pic. I would take it down now, but I don't change horse's in midstream. And, I can't say that the opinion of a few people is a consensus. But (no pun intended) thanks for your opinions. That is why I checked the message boards. I am researching the best way to meet someone.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 9:02:16 PM   
Iholdthestrings


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ORIGINAL: lickenforyou

That is why I checked the message boards. I am researching the best way to meet someone.


*applause*

I love that you went looking, vs posting something appropriately trollworthy. Kudos.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/9/2010 11:10:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lickenforyou

I have a butt shot on my profile. Here are my reasons...

1) Ignorance. I knew about the dick pics, but this is the first Ive heard about butt shots.

2) A lot of 50 yr old men don't take care of themselves. I work out  and I don't want to be rejected because of my age.

3) I felt that I was showing how vulnerable I am willing to be, It was actually very hard for me to put that pic up.

As a new sub on this site (I signed up for the acct years ago, but just now am taking it seriously) I am learning as I go. I have a couple of emails out to Dommes right now. If I don't hear back from them in a few days (is that long enough to wait?) I will change the pic. I would take it down now, but I don't change horse's in midstream. And, I can't say that the opinion of a few people is a consensus. But (no pun intended) thanks for your opinions. That is why I checked the message boards. I am researching the best way to meet someone.


Actually, I don't find your picture offensive. It isn't all in your face... here's my ass, you know what to do with it. I love symbolism and I see a lot in your picture that says something. It isn't that I don't like a butt shot, it is what the picture says. You have a fine body and should be proud of it and you display it with class and artistry. Some might disagree with me, but I like your picture.

You are also showing that you have some common sense and intelligence... you should do well.


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 7:25:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: lickenforyou
That is why I checked the message boards. I am researching the best way to meet someone.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057123/tm.htm
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057095/tm.htm

Good luck.


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 8:10:19 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: lickenforyou

I have a butt shot on my profile.


Well if you're talking about the photo that's still there, then no you don't. You have a shot that happens to contain some butt, not a butt shot.

We're talking about close-ups. Visible sphincters. Enough zoom to make out individual hairs.

I'm with Lockit-your picture is a good one.


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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 8:54:02 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I like it, too. The issue is also that there is no PRIMARY body-part-only shot. If I wanted to be a proctologist I would have gone to medical school!

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 9:34:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious
Visible sphincters. Enough zoom to make out individual hairs.


I know you're a scientist, but do you have to be quite so scientific?  I was just about to eat a baked potato, ffs.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 11:24:29 AM   
lickenforyou


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Status: offline 		Wow, ladies thanks so much for the kind words. i was bracing for ridicule (which i do enjoy, in the right situation).

You have given me some needed confidence in my exploration.

Can't thank You all enough!

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 3:15:12 PM   
LadyRian


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Status: offline 		I agree with some of the other women here. I like your photo too. I don't consider it to be a "butt shot" either.  And you definitely keep yourself in good shape. 

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 3:43:14 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Licken,

I reckon that's a good pic, too.  However, and though the ladies here might disagree, and so might VaguelyCurious, I'm thinking it might be better to cut off that avatar pic maybe an inch below your hands and darken it a little.  On the principle that it's mood and suggestion rather than detail that counts.  But feel free to disagree.  I'm neither a woman nor any judge of photography.

I am, though, a fair judge of muscles.  You have a damned good set on those shoulders. 

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 3:45:01 PM   
lickenforyou


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LadyRian


LadyRian, thank You so much! It means a lot coming from a beautiful classy woman such as yourself. As with all the ladies who took time on here to comment. Why wouldn't i want to do Everything i could to make a woman like You all happy?

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 4:20:19 PM   
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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 5:35:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		lickenforyou. I did a pic like yours once on here but it was a frontal shot with my hands in front of me. Everyone gave be grief for not moving my hands. Standing at ease like that has me thinking you were in the millitary.

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RE: Pictures of "mooning" subs - 10/10/2010 9:28:21 PM   
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I'll show a beaver shot. Right here, guys, check it out.

http://www.beaversww.org/bev1.gif


I used to have some beaver necropsy shots that were pretty graphic and disturbing.  The animal's carcass was completely opened up and all the internals spilling out or being sliced into various configurations for sampling.  I habitually sent them to jerkwads who asked me for explicit pictures, telling them that if they wanted to look at a split beaver, they should full-screen these. 

If any of them were jacking it in anticipation, I bet it totally wilted.  *snicker*

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