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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 3:06:25 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Icarys
..especially when I see bullshit like she said.
But it's not bullshit. It's the number one reason why most women who come here have burnout...or choose to hide their profile.
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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer
You do want to make friends in your new town, so you start talking with people about stuff you're interested in. Sports, hiking, news and politics, your favorite hobby, etc. Whatever actually does interest you. But almost every single time you try to start a conversation, the guy talking to you totally ignores everything you actually said and propositions you. Generally he does it in a way that makes it clear that he was not listening to a word you said. You might have even been talking about how much you love your wife, but the first thing out of his mouth after you finish talking is, "Hi, are you single? I'm single, and I'm interested." Or you might have been talking about your experiences in Alcoholics Anonymous, but when you get done talking, he asks if you guys can go to a bar for a drink and to get to know each other better.
It is nearly impossible to have a normal human conversation with any of these people you try to relate to. They ignore everything you say and any overtures of friendship, but they keep trying to talk to you solely for the purpose of getting sex or kinky play. Nobody wants to talk to you as a person or cares what you have to say. They ignore everything you actually say, but they ask if you want to date them or have sex with them. Many of them are not all that explicit in their propositions, but some of them are, and a few get really aggressive and angry when you say no.
Years of this go by, and this is the standard treatment you get from almost everyone in this town you try to communicate with socially. After awhile, how do you think this would impact you?
This is so true. And yes, it impacts me; I burn out on an average of every 2-3 months. Being treated as a non person by hundreds for every one person who sees me as a human being gets very old. It's a bone weariness that kicks into effect after a while.
It's like...going to a ballroom expecting to dance...but each smiling male who approaches asks for a quick f*** and beating in the back room instead of a dance. Complete with dick pix and butthole shots with dildos stuck inside to entice me. [:'(]
Ah...here comes my next dance partner. [;)]
"Ma'am, wanna f*** my hot tight virgin arse??? The closet is over here...btw, my name is tom, dick, or harry."
Then comes the evil attitude, or cold silence when I say no.
Sometimes I wish...when woman are told to just suck it up they would disappear for a month. Preferably en masse. Oh wait, that's what many have already done.
I keep bringing more r/t submissive female friends here and they keep leaving because they refuse to suck it up.
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