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WolfyMontgomery -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:00:32 PM)

I'm sorry, I didn't realize that that was the only sentence that I wrote. Shall I repeat my several paragraphs again?

And I was adding to the conversation to show why many women ARE sour. In case you hadn't noticed the multiple times that  I wrote that.Including my original post.

Edited to add the bottom portion.



Twoshoes -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:03:06 PM)

I'm postulating that women can be both as dangerous and as rude as men, in general. (Why wouldn't they, those are personality traits, not sex traits.)
So while I believe that there is no 'need to be rude', people are going to be rude anyway.



WolfyMontgomery -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:05:15 PM)

Oh most definitely, Twoshoes. I've known plenty (including a Domme on here who got pissed because I didn't cam for her) who are too full of themselves, have princess complexes, etc. Women can be just as bad as men, I think women just tend to show their nastiness in different ways sometimes.

Edited to add: In fact, they can be worse. Because once those princess-complex types are scorned, it's that whole saying "A woman scorned" business, but this time they have no qualms about hurting you.

Biggest difference I've noticed is that men tend to be more physical in their nastiness, and women tend to be much more emotional, mental, and manipulative. A nasty woman doesn't care if she has to lie to send you to jail - a nasty man doesn't care if he has to lie to stay OUT of jail. That sorta thing.



poise -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:05:58 PM)

Hmmmm....the hugs didnt work so good. I feel the need to be rude now!! Stand back everyone!
[image]http://smileys.emoticonsonly.com/emoticons/l/lots_of_mooning-2185.gif[/image]



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:06:44 PM)

Nope I got it the first time.



WolfyMontgomery -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:09:02 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

Nope I got it the first time.


Then I'm wondering why you only acknowledged that single sentence that didn't explain my whole opinion. Was it not worth your while? Did I say too much? Did you think it was a stupid argument and chose to ignore it? What?



lusciouslips19 -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:09:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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If other women laughed about the rude and condescending emails they got, maybe they wouldn't be so sour towards men.

People who aren't sour about men usually don't spend their time talking about them. Just saying.



What wrong with being sour about the way some men treat some women?

Are you not sour about something?



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:11:07 PM)

The last two but without the stupid...I tend to read and reply to stuff that's more concise.

Added something.



LadyRian -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:13:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: poise

Hmmmm....the hugs didnt work so good. I feel the need to be rude now!! Stand back everyone!
[image]http://smileys.emoticonsonly.com/emoticons/l/lots_of_mooning-2185.gif[/image]



YEEEEEEEK!

*Faints dead away, thouroughly shocked and offended.*



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:13:55 PM)

Because sour can turn into bitter.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:16:32 PM)

So why cant men stop being jerks? How about we stop being bitter, when we get treated with more respect?

Why does the female always have to make nice?



WolfyMontgomery -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:18:42 PM)

I thought I was quite concise in my meaning and explaining where I came from.

But if you like, I'll make it simpler:

I laugh because if I didn't laugh, I'd be crying, because I get hurt easily when someone says nasty and hurtful things to me.

Thus, while I feel that laughing at someone else's things is mean, I also find nothing wrong with it if it hurts no one.



LadyPact -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:19:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys
People who aren't sour about men usually don't spend their time talking about them. Just saying.


That one wasn't fair.  Since this project/experiment started, you and I have both spent some time discussing it.
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I think everyone on this thread knows or at least I hope they know that is the last thing I'm supporting. 

This one, I'll give you.  I don't think that you have advocated some of the behavior that has been displayed in some of the messages that have come in.



VMLoki -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:22:28 PM)

 
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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

So why cant men stop being jerks? How about we stop being bitter, when we get treated with more respect?

Why does the female always have to make nice?

I don't know but I'd consider making sexist comments like such pretty rude and jerk-ish.



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:25:40 PM)

Simpler isn't needed..smaller would be nice.

I guess it was the idea that you brought someone else into the mix and you guys had a laugh together that felt dirty to me.

The problem with fences is that they tend to keep you hidden..What's wrong with crying?

Your essentially trading one hurt for another one of a different kind instead of dealing with why some stranger can hurt your feelings.



LadyRian -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:27:14 PM)

The female doesn't always have to make nice, not at all.


I find that I get treated with respect by many men, no respect by many others, and both at different times by many as well. But then,  many women treat me the same way, and in the same proportions.  I concur that the way it's expressed is different.  I think that the basic emotions underlying  the way people treat others is the same. Social conditioning affects the manner in which those messages are both delivered and received.  But case by case evaluation is essential for accuracy in discerning whatever the situation might be that somebody's dealing with. 



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:28:40 PM)

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That one wasn't fair. Since this project/experiment started, you and I have both spent some time discussing it.

I don't mean discussing..I mean talking about them.

quote:

This one, I'll give you. I don't think that you have advocated some of the behavior that has been displayed in some of the messages that have come in.

Thank you.



LaTigresse -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:30:23 PM)

Using fast reply....

I look at the whole thing kind of like this.

I cannot control the fucked up mental cases with severe personality disorders that run rampant all over the internet. Considering that, I absolutely will NOT hand over control of my emotions, to those fucked up mental cases with severe personality disorders.

Anyone that does, gets exactly what they deserve. If your gonna be a dumbass, you're going to pay the dumbass price.



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:36:42 PM)

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I cannot control the fucked up mental cases with severe personality disorders that run rampant all over the internet. Considering that, I absolutely will NOT hand over control of my emotions, to those fucked up mental cases with severe personality disorders.

I think that's essentially what some are doing by closing down profiles or refusing to answer emails.

Thinking of it from a standpoint of trying to find a mate..This site would suck sincerely if this caught on as the proper way to handle the situation. Hell it's hard enough finding compatible mates as it is for most people. At least that's what i hear all the time.



Icarys -> RE: The need to be rude?!? (10/11/2010 2:37:43 PM)

I think Rian has answered that in the spirit of how I feel.



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