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lizi -> RE: What is with all the money dommes?? (10/11/2010 3:01:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Kynetic
OOOOK, firstly I had no intention when writing this post, to grind other peoples gears! Some seem to think that I wrote this post with that aim expressly in mind, that was not the case.
While it is completely my fault for undersestimating the frequency of this topic of post, I don't recall forcing anyone to read it.
Contrary to a some opinions,I didn't write this post as a result of having poor control of my temper, if I let something as small as annoying profiles bother me that much, then this site would probably give me a mental breakdown!
I wrote this mostly as an observation and as a conversation starter, what ever level of seriousness people wish to take from it is purely up to them.
As long as people don't construe this as a deliberate attempt to annoy people! I guess what I'm trying to say is..it's only a post, don't take it so seriously..I didn't!
@Lizi:
Firstly thank you for your welcome, it was much appreciated :)
I completely agree with your point, just because someone dooesn't like a certain kink, they have no right to take it from those that do. Don't get me wrong, I was trying to refer to those who choose to use a false profile and extract money from others, through exploiting their kink for financial domination, while they themselves have absolutely no interest it. This I believe is wrong, I wasn't trying to have a go at financial domination as a fetish or those that find pleasure in it.
It's not frustration at finding it difficult to find a domme that has me slightly peeved, it's the frustration that these fake people just see this lifestyle as way to make a quick buck off others. But in the end it's they're just like any other minor annoyance..easily dismissed.
PS.
I love your phrase "What flips your switch". I'll be borrowing that one, me thinks!
:)
You are definitely a cutie and regardless of how this is turning out I do hope you stick around.
I understand you were trying for a conversation starter, and not knowing what a sore topic this can be, you didn't anticipate the type of responses. Good on you for sticking around and explaining things in the face of adversity.
I did understand that you weren't having a go at disparaging people whose thing is having their money taken, but rather you were pointing out that financial domination clogs the system and perhaps cheapens the experience for everyone. My own previous comments were more directed at pointing out how hard it would actually be to put any kind of restrictions in place. It's just not an issue that has an easy answer. So perhaps you were correct in pointing out that there is a problem...the tricky part is what, if anything, can be done or should be done.
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