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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/26/2006 9:10:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: Contesaluv

First let me state that this is not meant to offend or to catapult any male subbie into a plastic surgeon's table for some extensive extender surgery.

I was having a conversation with a vanilla friend who is aware of my lifestyle choice and she asked me if the size of the package of any prospective subs mattered to me or not just as they do to some women in vanilla. Of course, they mattered to her. I responded that it depended upon what my intentions were for each one.

I was wondering, does this matter to you? Are you looking for them to be well endowed? If they're not well endowed do you sort them to the only for play list?

Just curious if there's a greater majority that think this makes a difference and in what ways.

I like big balls and a large cock... I can fit more clothes pins on them

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/26/2006 9:33:16 AM

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in a sub/slave his penis size doesn't matter at all as 99.9% of the time i've zero interest in ever using him sexually.

that .1% of the time otherwise and with those males who are my sexual partners, after sleeping with around 30 of them i've found penis size to not make a difference. it always has come down to their bedroom skill and willingness to learn and please.

correction: there are two times i can think of that size does matter. 1) when larger than average there is a tendency to be a poor lover as they think the penis gives them some magic pleasing power, and 2) larger than average needs to be used with special care not to hurt me and my cervix.

but other than those two bits, no size has little to do with how much fun a penis is.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/26/2006 10:37:51 AM

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I was wondering, does this matter to you? Are you looking for them to be well endowed? If they're not well endowed do you sort them to the only for play list?

If a guy is too big it can limit the number of activities I can use his member for.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/26/2006 10:53:05 AM

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lol..I make cbt devices in different sizes. I don't have sex with subs so size really doesn't matter to me. I do prefer a certain "attractiveness" to it tho".
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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/26/2006 5:30:48 PM

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Like with the foreskin thing on the other board I keep telling myself it does not matter though really it does, I like a well hung slave they are much more fun to play with. The only advantage slaves with mini genitals have is the fact that they are mildly amusing to humiliate.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/26/2006 10:50:54 PM

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I aggree with RumpusParable....

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there are two times i can think of that size does matter. 1) when larger than average there is a tendency to be a poor lover as they think the penis gives them some magic pleasing power, and 2) larger than average needs to be used with special care not to hurt me and my cervix

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...frankly a truly rock hard cock and sensually sensitive balls please me and those delights are not anything to do with size..

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 12:07:18 AM

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In a weird twist of fate, just as I was typing my previous reply... someone messaged me and randomly decided to tell me their manhood measured up to a hysterical 4.5 inches.

Okay. Yes... that IS irrationally small. : (

What is up with just randomly telling me that type of unsolicited information?!

He must be into humiliation... and was likely hoping to get his jollies off with an insult to his tiny manhood.... which he got.

oooh... probably not unless he happened to check it out in here.. My reply to him was a simple, "Erect or flaccid?"...

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 7:41:42 AM

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Hell, yes! Size matters if your sub will be used sexually.Too long and it becomes a harpoon, too tiny and you are not sure when it's in!The tiny ones are amusing though and the thick and not too tall ones-if they know how to do their thing- can be indescribably delicious. Howver if a sub met all my criteria,his penis size is secondary to everything else.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 12:54:44 PM

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My first--lover, not sub--was in porn. We'll just leave it at that. I am well-attuned and used to larger men. I like larger men. But smaller is acceptable... I guess. The sex isn't as good, but if the relationship isn't all about sex I'm perfectly willing to work around it. I'm satisfied even by a non-sexual scene far better than I am by even the best sex, so a power-exchange relationship works, and in any case if the penis is the most important piece this is not the man for me.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 3:25:38 PM

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Nikolette,

Maybe it was a challenge! Telling you that he had one that size might mean that he's challenging you to a duel of sorts...against any of your 7-8 inch fellas. I want front row, center in the bleachers to see that duel!...lol

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 3:35:12 PM

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I pretty penis is a thing of beauty. I once knew and screwed a man who had a beautifully kept penis and he was uncircumsized. However, this seemed to help it stay soft and smooth as a baby's bottom and you could tell that this helped. He was always pampering it, cleaning it and well....I can only say I adored that penis. So, there's something to be said about a nice sized pretty penis indeed. If nothing else, if I can adorn it with a nice CBT implement then woo hoo!

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 4:57:35 PM

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Just a general reply, not to anybody specific. It's threads like this that keep me convinced some of ya'll Dommes are getting kickbacks from the Pros ( "Scare 'em good, girls and I'll tip you $25 for every newbie sub who books a session")

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 4/27/2006 5:51:15 PM

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I don't care much for a man's penis. I've been with very few men but the ones I have, yes size does matter. I'm just not into a man "doing me" but when I am in the mood for fucking I want something BIG. Now I have straped large dildos to a slaves face before.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/2/2006 2:52:55 AM

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Yes and no. I prefer the larger side of average, 6" to 8" at max. And just give me some girth and I am a happy woman, go figure. I like grade A penis, but it's the entire package, the man himself that matters.

Now for shits and giggles, go measure up gentlemen. Somewhere on this site is a chart which will tell what your "grade" is.

http://www.sizesurvey.com

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/2/2006 3:01:57 AM

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Oops wrong link, but still interesting...

Correct link: http://www.penissizedebate.com/page40_ideal-penis-size.htm

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/2/2006 3:17:39 AM

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Usually this method of measuring ie: pressing the measuring device into your pubic bone, is not a common practice in most surveys of this type.Not using this method, i am 3.75 inches fully erect.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/2/2006 4:11:22 AM

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Dear Contesaluv,

From my male point of view, my penis size matters, to me, far less than when I was younger and could still present at 6.75 inches. That is because I can no longer get it up anymore now anyway.

So I take it to my dommes, just as it is, and (somewhat in the spirit of TammyJo's philosophy) let THEM decide what they want to do about it, if anything. Invariably, they choose to mock it for remaining small (and let me beat off for comic relief) and everybody, myself included, goes away having had a good time. As some here have said, it is not the size, but what you do with it, that matters.

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ORIGINAL: Contesaluv

First let me state that this is not meant to offend or to catapult any male subbie into a plastic surgeon's table for some extensive extender surgery.

I was having a conversation with a vanilla friend who is aware of my lifestyle choice and she asked me if the size of the package of any prospective subs mattered to me or not just as they do to some women in vanilla. Of course, they mattered to her. I responded that it depended upon what my intentions were for each one.

I was wondering, does this matter to you? Are you looking for them to be well endowed? If they're not well endowed do you sort them to the only for play list?

Just curious if there's a greater majority that think this makes a difference and in what ways.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/24/2006 11:17:21 PM

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woot. even if overall, size doesnt matter to women, I am 7.5/4.7 when fully happy...so I am happy

. And to all the fantastic sexually healthY women out there, thank you for liking penisi...really thank you, because sex it great, enjoy it. END RANT

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/24/2006 11:33:45 PM

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At a perfectly average 6.000 inches (okay so I didn't measure QUITE that accurately) I don't have a problem with myself, and my little girl (5'2" or so, I think, and a virgin until I got my hands on her) wouldn't be happy if I had to stop mid thrust to avoid wrecking her cervix during sex. In several positions, she's whining from depth of penetration as it is.

To those in here who say they won't touch a guy unless he's got an 8 inch cock, I think you should take another look at a ruler or tape measure. The cocks you see in porn are probably 7 and above, and they're not normal. The average vagaina is something like 5 inches deep, a bit more when aroused. Not sure about throats... ;)

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 12:15:35 AM

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