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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 12:47:57 AM

FloridaISIS

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3:30 am here, I'm tired, so I won't quote, but I sure couldn't pass this up.

As one pointed out if it's a cuck, which I've only dealt with once, size doesn't really matter. The cuck I have now was 8 and thick, until his now deceased Domme shrunk him for bad behavior. Now he's a 3 at best, so much for his "Over 8" Membership. As his friend and former Domme he asked me to be his keyholder. He's the only one I'll ever take on as a cuck.

Personally, I love a man of size. My first sub was 10 inches, and I s*it you not, he is 3 finger widths across. Bottoming out, oh yes we did. Hitting the cervix is akin to a kick in the nads. I was doubled over. Ten inches is luscious to look at amongst other things, but for sex it's a little long.

7-9 is what I love and the thicker the better. Six may work if very thick. Girth helps a heck of a lot. I had one 5 incher, and he was ramming like mad, but I had very little feeling with him.

Why the fixation on size? I want the perfect submissive husband, and since I'm not into casual sex I have no need for a cuck.
Putting a big boy on a cock leash makes me all hot and bothered; Seeing 8 inches on a cock leash just makes me insane with pleasure. Seeing that bad boy straining in a pr of my panties or peeking out the top of them--omg!!

My son's father was 8 inches and thick, and he was My first ever, so he sent the precedence. My son was 8 1/2 lbs. Enough said.

Cut or uncut? I've only been with one uncut, but I had a heck of a time getting that foreskin to stay back during oral. It just wouldn't cooperate, and a one-handed bj isn't my style. This was long before I knew anything about cbt.

This IS one of My favorite topics so thank you, Contesaluv.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 1:13:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FloridaISIS
As one pointed out if it's a cuck, which I've only dealt with once, size doesn't really matter. The cuck I have now was 8 and thick, until his now deceased Domme shrunk him for bad behavior. Now he's a 3 at best, so much for his "Over 8" Membership. As his friend and former Domme he asked me to be his keyholder. He's the only one I'll ever take on as a cuck.

Personally, I love a man of size. My first sub was 10 inches, and I s*it you not, he is 3 finger widths across. Bottoming out, oh yes we did. Hitting the cervix is akin to a kick in the nads. I was doubled over. Ten inches is luscious to look at amongst other things, but for sex it's a little long.

7-9 is what I love and the thicker the better. Six may work if very thick. Girth helps a heck of a lot. I had one 5 incher, and he was ramming like mad, but I had very little feeling with him.

Why the fixation on size? I want the perfect submissive husband, and since I'm not into casual sex I have no need for a cuck.
Putting a big boy on a cock leash makes me all hot and bothered; Seeing 8 inches on a cock leash just makes me insane with pleasure. Seeing that bad boy straining in a pr of my panties or peeking out the top of them--omg!!
This IS one of My favorite topics so thank you, Contesaluv.

I loved this.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 2:44:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

quote:

ORIGINAL: FloridaISIS
As one pointed out if it's a cuck, which I've only dealt with once, size doesn't really matter. The cuck I have now was 8 and thick, until his now deceased Domme shrunk him for bad behavior. Now he's a 3 at best, so much for his "Over 8" Membership. As his friend and former Domme he asked me to be his keyholder. He's the only one I'll ever take on as a cuck.

Personally, I love a man of size. My first sub was 10 inches, and I s*it you not, he is 3 finger widths across. Bottoming out, oh yes we did. Hitting the cervix is akin to a kick in the nads. I was doubled over. Ten inches is luscious to look at amongst other things, but for sex it's a little long.

7-9 is what I love and the thicker the better. Six may work if very thick. Girth helps a heck of a lot. I had one 5 incher, and he was ramming like mad, but I had very little feeling with him.

Why the fixation on size? I want the perfect submissive husband, and since I'm not into casual sex I have no need for a cuck.
Putting a big boy on a cock leash makes me all hot and bothered; Seeing 8 inches on a cock leash just makes me insane with pleasure. Seeing that bad boy straining in a pr of my panties or peeking out the top of them--omg!!
This IS one of My favorite topics so thank you, Contesaluv.

I loved this.

Anytime, Anytime at all

I just had to see how this thread was going. Bet it will get laods of attention once everyone is wide awake, and with that this one poofs and is off to get some sleep.

Did it almost make you wet yourself, MsMacComb, cos if it did My job here is done.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 2:45:18 AM

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As in "this thread" I meant the OPs original thread getting loads of attention.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 5:53:27 AM

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Since I only have one sub at a time (in theory, not always in fact), he would be serving Me sexually as well. I'm very petite (5'1", 125lb) so My comfort range is between 6" - 8". If its smaller than 6" he had better have ALOT of additional skills and more than 8" is, shall we say, uncomfortable. Of course no matter the length, if he doesn't know what he's doing and lacks self control or if unfortunately he has the length but not the girth then he won't last long.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 9:22:30 AM

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I hear you, Florida, on the "bottoming out" issue. That's a pain that's almost indescribable, and I've actually blacked out from it before.

Since I've already got a well-endowed man in my life, and I'm not planning on f***ing any slave I might own on a regular basis, size isn't really all that important. However...

It must be cut. No offense to you guys who aren't cut, but I can't stand the sight and feel of an uncut penis. Second, it has to be big enough for bondage. Two or three inches just isn't gonna be enough.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 9:33:14 AM

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My first was uncut, and every one after him has been cut. I have to say I enjoy cut much more. I like handling them more, and they are much easier to deal with for sex. I havent had a slave yet, as I am new to the scene, and Im not sure I'd take a slave, I'm a switch with a heavy lean to the dominant end, so a switch partner is more my style, but I have tuned down one or two potential slaves because they were small (5-6) and uncut.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 11:07:57 AM

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a little tangent here...

ok....so what if a Woman says 'its a good size' with a little chuckle in her breath....
what does that mean????

what if she says it with her eyes bugged out & her jaw dropped...what does it mean then???

some people get hung up on the littlest things.......lol

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 11:16:48 AM

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OUCH !! Extensive extention surgery...ooohh the 'healing' period has got to hurt...oh that's right we are talking male subs..alright...alright then.

Now 'play' list...you mean we have players here ? Learn something everyday I guess. I thought n o b o d y wanted 'players.'

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/25/2006 11:30:35 AM

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In my NSHO (not so humble opinion) size really doesn't matter as long as it works. Sex with a man of little girth and length is very unsatisfying but there are other ways to have fun with him. Sex with a man of enormous endowment 10+ inches is way to painful to even deal with but again there are other ways to have fun with him. I am a lover of tease and denial which is something I have practiced in the past. Seeing a man almost in tears or in tears due to sexual frustration is something that really gets my motor running.

Ms Loren

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/26/2006 4:58:33 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Evanesce

I hear you, Florida, on the "bottoming out" issue. That's a pain that's almost indescribable, and I've actually blacked out from it before.

Since I've already got a well-endowed man in my life, and I'm not planning on f***ing any slave I might own on a regular basis, size isn't really all that important. However...

It must be cut. No offense to you guys who aren't cut, but I can't stand the sight and feel of an uncut penis. Second, it has to be big enough for bondage. Two or three inches just isn't gonna be enough.

I read this and thought, oh wow!
I've never passed out/blacked out yet, but almost come darn naear close everytime I hit the big O, and well, I worry cos that's like 30-50 times an hour. Hope to heck I never totally black out.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/26/2006 1:57:38 PM

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I want/demand fully functionable sub/slave...Yes to me size does matter not seeking to be torn asunder.....Plundered deeply yes at times....but also want to enjoy taking the plunder....

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/26/2006 3:21:42 PM

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Yes, it matters to a certain extent to me. It particularly matters in regards to someone I take on as my personal slave/partner. Let's be honest for a moment. I'm a woman and I myself enjoy sex of all varieties, so long as it's passionate. Do I want to be serviced by a pindick? No, not so much.

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/26/2006 7:56:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FloridaISIS

3:30 am here, I'm tired, so I won't quote, but I sure couldn't pass this up.

As one pointed out if it's a cuck, which I've only dealt with once, size doesn't really matter. The cuck I have now was 8 and thick, until his now deceased Domme shrunk him for bad behavior. Now he's a 3 at best, so much for his "Over 8" Membership. As his friend and former Domme he asked me to be his keyholder. He's the only one I'll ever take on as a cuck.

Personally, I love a man of size. My first sub was 10 inches, and I s*it you not, he is 3 finger widths across. Bottoming out, oh yes we did. Hitting the cervix is akin to a kick in the nads. I was doubled over. Ten inches is luscious to look at amongst other things, but for sex it's a little long.

7-9 is what I love and the thicker the better. Six may work if very thick. Girth helps a heck of a lot. I had one 5 incher, and he was ramming like mad, but I had very little feeling with him.

Why the fixation on size? I want the perfect submissive husband, and since I'm not into casual sex I have no need for a cuck.
Putting a big boy on a cock leash makes me all hot and bothered; Seeing 8 inches on a cock leash just makes me insane with pleasure. Seeing that bad boy straining in a pr of my panties or peeking out the top of them--omg!!

My son's father was 8 inches and thick, and he was My first ever, so he sent the precedence. My son was 8 1/2 lbs. Enough said.

Cut or uncut? I've only been with one uncut, but I had a heck of a time getting that foreskin to stay back during oral. It just wouldn't cooperate, and a one-handed bj isn't my style. This was long before I knew anything about cbt.

This IS one of My favorite topics so thank you, Contesaluv.

Live, Love, Laugh, and "play" hard

how does a domme shrink a sub??

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/26/2006 8:58:33 PM

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Dear Contesaluv, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Male endowment matters little to me. I prefer a slave heart over the size of their phallus. More than a handful is wasted, unless I have it in use, with clothespins, rope, leather and or rubber binding. I'll find enough to do CBT on and their little nips too!

Respectfully submitted,
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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/30/2006 3:01:49 PM

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Overall, I am with you on the size issue. My situation is such that my personal sub is one with whom I'm in a relationship. So his skills (and yes partly his size) do matter to me. He is the whole package (pun intended). As an aside, I have had occasion to be with a person who was well endowed but did not know what to do with what the good Lord gave him. I do not put a lot of stock in size alone. On the other hand, I have had a lover who was of average endowment and very skilled. I was very satisfied with him.

Any other sub male is 'play only' and I do not care about the size of his endowment. The only thing I may do with appendages is subject them to ball busting and other forms of cbt.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv

First let me state that this is not meant to offend or to catapult any male subbie into a plastic surgeon's table for some extensive extender surgery.

I was having a conversation with a vanilla friend who is aware of my lifestyle choice and she asked me if the size of the package of any prospective subs mattered to me or not just as they do to some women in vanilla. Of course, they mattered to her. I responded that it depended upon what my intentions were for each one.

I was wondering, does this matter to you? Are you looking for them to be well endowed? If they're not well endowed do you sort them to the only for play list?

Just curious if there's a greater majority that think this makes a difference and in what ways.

< Message edited by Mlicious -- 5/30/2006 3:13:11 PM >

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 5/30/2006 3:22:03 PM

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In some ways size does matter, but not in the way most of you are probley thinking. his manhood i could care less about, but his height yes, i feel more secure, and little bit more intimitate when he is taller then me, ( which by way does not take much i olny stand five one) but to have tower over me, to feel his streight abound oh yea. height is like rank it has many advantages

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 7/12/2008 9:57:59 PM

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Being told that "It hurts when you go in too deep" is NOT thrilling, and did NOT make me feel proud. I was in love, and wanted us BOTH to enjoy intercourse...

Nowadays, I merely long to serve a LESBIAN MISTRESS, as Her chaste cuckold!

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 7/13/2008 1:18:26 AM

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I don't mind smaller packages, if they have solid oral skills. I used to say size didn't matter, but then met someone who was small and inept at oral.

I'm small internally, so I have to take time if someone is well endowed. Not that I mind that too much

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RE: Does the size matter to you? - 7/13/2008 6:15:12 AM

LadyLou

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I noticed there seems to be a theme in this thread that preferred penis size is 7” plus, lol. 7 inches is pretty unusual and not the norm at all. I’m guessing that many of those 7 inchers are not being measured the scientific way, lol. The average length varies from country to country, but an accurate 7” is in the porn star range.

Anything too big hurts. I was recently reading that the average female vagina is only about 4 to 6 inches in depth. Penetration by someone fairly well endowed was painful at times for me, particularly when it hit my cervix. And anyway, besides the ‘G’ spot, which not all women have, it’s pretty numb for the most part in there. So, in theory, anything over 6” is just ornamental - pretty to look at, but impractical.

Honestly, I’m more interested in a mans tongue ;) I like penetration, but I don’t orgasm from it, therefore penetration has a lower priority to me. But in terms of penetration alone, as long as it is not *too small*, I’m not *that* bothered by length, and girth is more important than length to me.

All in all, penis size doesn’t matter to me too much, because if he has no skills in the bedroom, or doesn’t take instructions well, and is not a quick learner - it could be any size, I ain’t interested. Whereas, if he is a quick learner, takes instruction well, and is willing to please and make my pleasure his priority, his penis size is fairly irrelevant to me.

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