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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/25/2010 8:06:48 PM

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Kicking a dude in the nuts and scoring a direct hit on them with someone who knows you're gunning for him is harder than movies make it look. If he has even a thin exposure to self defense, he should be fine.

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/25/2010 9:55:38 PM

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I have only done a take down scene when my sub actually needed to be taken down. Essentially it is a humbling, and it is very much the Dom's show. The Dom has to provoke rebellion from the sub, and then crush it.

I have never requested a take down scene from a sub, although I do, on occasion, greatly enjoy them. If I need one I will push, until she rebels and can be taken down. I assume your Dom knows how to push your buttons and get you riled up.

Yes; a humbling - and very much the Dom's show.

But it's a reactive thing to me, to put her in her place as I'm not one to intentionally provoke rebellion. Which also makes it an act of humiliation, and another reason why I would never do it to her public, including not at a kinky party.

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/25/2010 10:08:45 PM

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Then that would mean you were advocating public play where any unknowing stranger could stumble upon proceedings.

once again you show you don't understand the context of the OP or what was being stated.... but it's your world and I am sure it works for you .

Ahhh, but not nearly so interesting as your world, esp when you're in aggressive mode.

This passive indignance is as boring as your logic is dizzy and a distant last.

You've got nuthin' = I'm done with you...

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/25/2010 10:23:43 PM

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Kicking a dude in the nuts and scoring a direct hit on them with someone who knows you're gunning for him is harder than movies make it look. If he has even a thin exposure to self defense, he should be fine.

Nah, the real target to take someone down is the knees.

Those are hard to defend and in any sort of play rape scene should really be avoided by both parties.

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/25/2010 11:05:00 PM

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Resistance play is mutually agreed upon wrestling ( in my case M M ) tearing off his clothes - panting sweating. Not my thing but sounds horny.

I like a hardwired slave bottom who would do as he is told and be grateful for it.

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/26/2010 7:47:28 PM

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Yeah, that's actually kind of the point I was making with my second post. A resistance or rape play scene is different than a take down, for me at least. It may include physical resistance, but it is about the mental and emotional struggle.

I've struggled emotionally at times - feeling panicky, or vulnerable, or overwhelmed, or claustrophobic. In a few cases I've experienced enough pain to shut down and go numb, but I didn't feel my will was broken, just that it was too much for me to take.

KoM, I personally think of "play rape" as involving verbal roleplay as well as physical struggle, and think of rough sex more as how physically forceful he is being, but as long as both/all people involved are on the same page, I think either way of putting it is fine. :)

Focus, I've never felt rebellious toward someone who I felt submissive toward, and so far, I haven't felt humiliated or humbled by a man being stronger than I am. I generally assume that's true of most men - I'm rather petite, though strong for my size. Struggling is fun for me no matter who "wins."

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/27/2010 2:02:42 AM

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Kicking a dude in the nuts and scoring a direct hit on them with someone who knows you're gunning for him is harder than movies make it look. If he has even a thin exposure to self defense, he should be fine.

Nah, the real target to take someone down is the knees.

Those are hard to defend and in any sort of play rape scene should really be avoided by both parties.

THIS.

Oh my fucking god, THIS. Getting your caps busted HUUUURRRRTSSS.

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RE: Take down scenes??? - 10/27/2010 8:29:42 PM

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Now if you want to see a really really pissed off sub that likes takedown scenes... get them hogtied and gagged then use them for a footstool while you start reading a book.

And evil sense of humor can lead to the need for a true takedown.

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