Lockit -> RE: I am not buying it (11/5/2010 11:36:23 PM)
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Let me go further. This is my personal experience I saw repeated in some form with hundreds of people. My childrens father abandoned them and I got no child support for fourteen years. I was remarried, but when I married I was the bigger wage earner. When I got sick, I lost my career and everything at that point. My husband made ten to twelve thousand a year and shouldn't be responsible for another man's children. His income was half mine, therefore half could be income used to support my children (3). By his yearly wages we would qualify for medicaid, yet because he got payments in lump sums, that would kick us off medicaid and we couldn't apply for another three months. So we might have medicaid, because of the children... which my husband didn't get because he wasn't allowed to, as they were not his children, maybe three or four months a year. My medical bills ruined us both, mounted so high we lost everything and then what support I did have was lost because he couldn't take anymore. I needed total bed rest, by doctors orders, no one knew what the hell was wrong with me for many, many years and my work hour credits couldn't be used after two years and meant that I couldn't get SSD, but had to go for the welfare system of social security (I call it that), if I applied. Because the medical community couldn't figure things out, I was in limbo for over fifteen years. (I wasn't out of work all that time, but could never work steadily for two years to get work hour credits needed for SSD. I got some private income (not tax dollars and owed to me) and have forgone applying and don't have a medical team that will first accept me, secondly know what the hell to do with me other than kill me with their lack of understanding and I cannot get help if I wanted it. Which in a few years I may need because I keep getting sicker from genetic diseases I had no role in and will lose my income from any moment to the next four years. My story is a bit different than others, but there are many that come very close to my own.
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