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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:01:02 AM   
rapture2778


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyrdRich

  Are there profiles you run across that simply violate everything you believe in?

yes, but to each his own right?  i am sure that there are things that i am "into" that others would see as "distrubing"...i just try to ignore them and find my more "like minded" people....ahh well!!

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:29:47 AM   
mistoferin


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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Here's one I're run across recently. It made me just gape with disbelief!  I saved it to her to my Favorites, just in case I think I've been hallucinating that someone actually wrote this:

"I need a SLAVE with a home to sell for relocation to NMex. This slave will have no children,live alone,have a pc AND camera, and be between 35 and 50.  he will be clean-shaven and look young for his age.  I am looking for a sexual domestic servant . no sissies, masochists or pain sluts."

Journal entry:  "Not interested in becoming friends first either.  You don't become friends first with the boss you are going to work under..."

She also lives with her father and is unemployed!  Un-freakin' believable. 


Wow...you think that's bad....check out this:

Seeking slave or slave couple, for extreme modifications, to be cell kept and dehumanized. Hellish conditions, total tranformation expected. This is a perminate position. We would perfer a white female to whore out and breed with several black men. This is complete tpe with no vinilla life. The abuse will be extreme and conditions will be the stuff nightmares are made of.

Somebody hold me back....this could be my last chance to go steady!!!!

The scary part is that I am sure he gets replies from subs/slaves that don't have a clue just how real this could be.



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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:33:18 AM   
alex311


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Status: offline 		If it's any consolation, I think it's a safe bet that most of the 'extreme' scary profiles are fakes.

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:43:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistoferin


Somebody hold me back....this could be my last chance to go steady!!!! 



What a comment mistoferin  ~mops up spilt tea and clean's computer screen ~ LMAO   

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:49:01 AM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		I ran accross one profile that creeped me out. The person wrote saying that s/he wanted to render his/her girl completely impossible of orgasm, ever again.

Because it creeped me out, I figured I'd write the author ask ask about the appeal. I did, and we had a really great back and forth dialog. While the idea of never being able to get off again still squicks me, the person who wrote the profile had thought through the consequences, and methods, and was willing and eager to inform potential partners that this would be a requirement.

While I know there are some profiles out there that ick us out, it was nice to have the dialog and realize that no matter how scary it sounded, the person wasn't just flying at this from a "damn that sounds hot" perspective.


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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:49:25 AM   
mistoferin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: alex311

If it's any consolation, I think it's a safe bet that most of the 'extreme' scary profiles are fakes.


Well, I'm not a betting kind of gal, but if I was....that is not a bet that I would take.


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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 11:56:19 AM   
Reasonable


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Status: offline 		There are a lot of things I don't understand.

Like what this guy had done. http://www.bmezine.com/service/samples/nullohigh/penec3.jpg

But I think  domme could rule him out with being pushy about orgasms-might well be ideal for some.  ;)


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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 12:02:36 PM   
BeachMystress


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None of them scare me, but some do anger me. I'm not talking about the newbies who run around proclaiming themselves to a role they've not enough experience to espouse. I feel they'll learn in time, the same as we all did. What angers me are the profiles of those who prey on those newbies. The abusers who pander to the idea of what D/s "should be" in the newbie fantasy view. I can not tell you how many newbie male sub friends I have who were taken in by some of the ( to me) stupidest things! Full grown rational men get bilked for hundreds, (in one case I know thousands) of dollars before wising up.

I also am shocked, saddened and angered by the profiles that make it very clear the person who hooks up with them is going to be willingly putting themselves into an abusive relationship. We actually had a poster on here about a year ago that came out and said in his profile that he could be both physically and mentally abusive. While I would not send hate mail to someone, I had no problems posting my opinion in the forums about something posted or someone who posts. The worst part to me is that upon checking that person's profile today, he says he has found a "younger partner." It no longer says anything about abuse. It breaks my heart that anyone cared so little about them self to willingly join a potentially abusive relationship

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 12:09:30 PM   
BeachMystress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: alex311

If it's any consolation, I think it's a safe bet that most of the 'extreme' scary profiles are fakes.

And you're just the fodder those people are looking for; the ones who don't believe it is real till too late. You don't believe people actually DO some of that "extreme shit?" I can put you in contact with a man who had his neck broken in a scene that went a bit wrong. It was a consensual breath play hanging. 

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 12:11:35 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

Oh yeah, WR, there are some seriously warped profiles out there....of course now I want to know exactly which one you are talking about ...how about giving us a keyword to search....huh?...huh?...c'mon, you know you wanna....




        Sorry,   I wanna but I won't.  If someone was really bored tho' she's looking for sub/sub couples and in CA..... 

      And MadamShy, aside from some difficult to read color combinations, you don't scare me at all (well, maybe in a good way).

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 12:19:03 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I have not seen any that scare me, not much does scare me. BUT, I have seen many that concern or worry me. Usually young women that say they have no limits etc.....Combine those with some of the creedy dudes you all have described and the mother in my cringes.

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 12:27:24 PM   
TCTopper


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Status: offline 		I just put what I have done in the past here. Doesnt mean I do all that is here. Trying to show versatility. But I guess thats scarry. Just being open. Is that wrong??

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 12:53:36 PM   
sweetnsensual200


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Status: offline 		i don't think i've gotten scared by a profile on here yet and i hope not to be.  if a person is offering something on their profile that doesn't interest me, i might read on to find more about it (i like to read a whole profile and then make a decision).  i also don't write hate mail because i don't see the point.  what's it really going to do?  so someone gets a mail from someone they don't know saying they don't like their practices?  does that mean they're going to stop?  most likely not.  that person is probably one of those people who get off on doing what others don't like.  like "Look at me, i'm doing the thing you said i shouldn't do, na na na na!"  some people are really like that. 

i have, however, been scared by some people in yahoo chat in the D/s rooms.  can't remember why or what, but it happened.

i do feel bad for some people who don't value themselves.  that's one of the things that worries me most about the lifestyle: how so many people are just opening themselves up to being used and abused and then discarded like they were nothing.  look, i realize that not everyone is looking to take advantage and there are some people who are true to their word and some subs/slaves would never allow anyone to mistreat them (i'm one of them) but it still worries me.   i seriously cannot stand it when people are being mistreated.  strikes a chord with me every time. 

sorry for getting a little off topic. 

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 1:38:41 PM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		I am too new to this site to have run across any such profiles yet...most of the time that I have spent here has been in perusing the message boards so far.

I have seen profiles on other sites though that DID scare me...and I am a guy who lived through 15 yrs of parents staying together for "the kid's sake" (which is why I didn't make the same mistake when the time came), 4 years in the Airborne including a "show of force" in Panama, 2 marriages, building a practice, etc., etc.




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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 2:05:55 PM   
MstrFury


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Status: offline 		guess I've been around so long...I've become jaded ..or maybe to indifferent....let's just say..if a profile interests me..it does...if not...I simply move on...after all...it's only my opinion on any profile I see...


pulling my cloak around me and stepping back into the shadows to lurk...

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 3:22:36 PM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		There is one with a pic which tends to put me off my food so I simply have the profile blocked ... end of story.

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 4:10:25 PM   
mariba


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Status: offline 		Scary profiles are not a problem.... serial scary emails... well I start to get concerned.

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 4:19:28 PM   
Phoenixandnika


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

I still twitch when I happen along the Domme who wants her slave to pick the crabs from her pubes. 

 
 
eewwww....
 
I am not glad I rarely look through profiles!
 
Though I am curious and this may sound silly because I have been here along time, but how do you hide someones profile so you do not have to see it again?
 
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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 4:28:44 PM   
losttreasure


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ORIGINAL: mariba

Scary profiles are not a problem.... serial scary emails... well I start to get concerned.


I think the decent emails that lead to scary profiles are the worst. 

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RE: Scary Profiles - 4/27/2006 4:59:26 PM   
Invictus754


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Status: offline 		Americans have long been afforded a false sense of security because of the two oceans to keep away others who hate us, and we only have two neighbors who have been relatively friendly (if you gloss over that whole war with Mexico thing).  For all of man's existance there have been human predators, using the less fortunate and less cautious as they wished.  It has only been in the last 50 years that the ability to hide their handywork has been harder and harder.  However, I still think that the world will always be a dangerous place and one should never let ones guard down unless you have trusted friends at your back (or in this case - your scene).  For another couple of centuries (should we make it that long) it will still be the strongest surviving and controlling the weak.  These 'scary' profiles are only glimpses of the dangers that have always been there, but Americans are less aware of than most people in the world.
 
Although it is sad to hear of anyone's misfortune, doing a hanging scene and getting your neck broken is just assessing the risks incorrectly - or, knowing the danger, ignoring it.  Why would anyone willingly put their head in a noose?  He had to have at least a moment of misgiving that should have been the path he chose.  I have a friend who didn't buckle his seatbelt and was thrown from his pickup in an accident, paralyzing him from the chest down.  He used to be a boxer, but now he is only a good example for everyone to buckle up.

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