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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/8/2010 4:01:25 PM   
sunshinemiss


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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova

Your assertions are unsettling. I am the Dominant, and I enjoy it. I am interested in clever ways to get my slaves buy-in in such a way that she need not necessarily feel humiliated by the act of anal play...



Why not just get with a gal who enjoys anal sex/play because it feels good? 

Seriously, this seems like a tempest in a teacup.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/9/2010 3:14:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TerrorNova
I have long believed that a slaves ass should be trained to "perform" on command, for the shear entertainment value, to their humiliation.



What does this mean? Perform how?


A sub who can't fart the National Anthem is not a true sub.




How can he hit the high notes if you've fucked him so much that he isnt that tight any more?


Then he's still not a twu sub! A twu sub will do it anyway.

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/9/2010 5:41:31 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		Topping? Not in my world or relationship... so, as usual, it depends... and no of course that's not what dominance is all about.. but for me, it is a dominant thing in some circumstances.

Its always about context.. as a Femme Leather Dyke.. I can tell you its an art, as I like to be fucked.. its important to find a boi who can keep the right head space.. luckily my boi can do that.. she's a wonder.. but when I fist her or I use her anally... its about my dominance.

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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

Hmmm... I have the feeling that you haven't found the right partner.. or it just isn't for you.. but I personally benefit from that sort of activity... what a marvelous way to exert dominance...

among several other billion things it can do...



Really? That's really what dominance is all about? Wouldn't that be better defined as TOPPING?

FTR, I'm honestly not opposed to anal play at all. I just have a problem with somehow tying it to dominance/submission, period...the implication being the penetrated always =submissive, the penetrator always =dominant. It still reinforces a patriarchal theme, and I for one am not a fan of perpetuating that myth.

Fuck. If this were true, then I could never enjoy PIV sex again, because the act itself would somehow be reducing my dominance by default.



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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/12/2010 9:31:00 PM   
OralCuckGurl


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Why not just get with a gal who enjoys anal sex/play because it feels good?

Seriously, this seems like a tempest in a teacup.


I know...seems like a big pain in the ass, doesn't it?

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RE: Goals for anal training... - 11/13/2010 9:22:22 PM   
curiouscuriouser


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Status: offline 		I always took anal training to mean that the recipient was working to get over the ickiness of butts in general. Lots of practice and familiarity with putting stuff up there will turn an anxious booty into a happy winker.

Just my two cents. :3


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