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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 4:51:34 PM

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If you're asking where the exhibitionists are, it's always us quiet ones.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 4:55:16 PM

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LOL! Mr. Fuzzy paws!
Thanks for making me smile today!

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 4:55:55 PM

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Hey there, Monsieur Kalon... Running amok in the fora, are you?

If I could

for you in person, Mr. Sexy RS... I would. It may look a little like
this though ----->

because I roll like that sometimes, LOL. Not that you're interested in that sort of thing. I know that you truly admire me for my brains and correct usage of adverbs and such.

I read your reply to that other thread and I wanted to jump on my desk and give you a "woot-woot" earlier, but alas, my co-workers frown on that sort of thing. (It wouldn't surprise me if they also don't like sex, dirty pictures, or heavy breathing.)

I completely agree with you re: bitching about crap that one receives on the flip side is a waste of time because the offenders aren't the sort of people who venture to click the "Message Boards" button on the top left. We may not like getting unsolicited crotch/ass shots from persons unknown to us, but spewing about it ad infinitum on the boards seems like a rant from the reader's perspective, as if someone needs an emotional enema or perhaps a really good lay. (As for me, I'll take the lay.) I know, huge shock.

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< Message edited by Daddysredhead -- 11/8/2010 5:10:13 PM >

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:00:01 PM

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We should have an entire forum dedicated to oral sex, in my opinion. I could probably spend just as many hours writing about cock worship as I spend actually taking part. I guarantee my member feedback rating would soar.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:03:12 PM

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I have to say that I love the way certain slogans are phrased. The term "sex positive" is showing up more and more. Great coining of a term. Very much like "pro life". Of course, the reverse in which automatically makes the other side viewed in a negative light. The opposition must be either anti life or pro death. What's the reverse of the coin here? Sex negative?

No room for latitude in-between, eh? Why not throw out the idea that some people are only interested in their own partners? I don't see this as any different (casual sex) than those who only engage in S/m or D/s with their significant other. Some people have been into this for just as long and prefer things that way. It's like people who are poly rallying against people who are monogamous because there are different viewpoints.

If the fact that I'm not interested in fucking everyone who happens to be involved in BDSM makes Me a prude, so be it. I'll be the same cat loving, leather wearing, cock shot reporting, objection raising, poly fidelity believing, and all of the rest of the things of a person that I am.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:07:27 PM

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I heart RS. Though I admit I have missed out on much of the sexual prudery, mainly due to not paying attention.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:10:46 PM

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quote:

If the fact that I'm not interested in fucking everyone who happens to be involved in BDSM makes Me a prude, so be it.

Thank you, Lady Pact.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:11:01 PM

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TBH it fucks with my groove when someone here calls me a prude. Not that it should, seeing as though it's just the opinion of a few cunt-hungry jerks, but still. It makes me, a very sexual, very loving person, feel like none of these things just because unless I find somebody worth being with here, I'm going to enjoy my sexless, platonic BDSM relationships with friends.

BDSM for me doesn't go hand-in-hand with sex. It's its own entity. Other people feel the opposite, and that's okay too. Either way, shouldn't we support the other kinky folk and give each other understanding rather than sniping over the particulars?

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:20:06 PM

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Another thing. Sadists tend to enjoy other people's frustration. "It fucks with my groove" is unlikely to deter them greatly unless you're counting on respect.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:21:53 PM

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I don't think it's necessarily the Prudes vs. the Whores, because many of us have been on one side or the other, perhaps changed sides during time, or go somewhere in the middle. But the thing that irked some of us on another thread was the perceived pissing and moaning about getting nekkid pictures in one's inbox when the recipient's profile photos are less than "G" rated. I'm not saying that people deserve to be inundated with yucky pictures from others, but it shouldn't be shock-and-awe inducing if it happens. If you don't like the unsolicited goody pictures, click on the report button for vulgar content.

Badda-bing. Done. And it doesn't take 45 minutes of writing a venomous rant on a thread to deal with it.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:22:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

Another pubic hair incident or just a bad day?

Neither. I was just reading through the forums and noticed it was particularly full of drivel lately. Thought I'd share my perspective on the creepy anti-sex attitude I see so much of. We even got girls pulling out cyber chopping blocks to cut men's cocks off with. WTF?

I didn't even think about the pubic hair thread until you mentioned it. But, it is a good example of what I mean. When people use morals to justify personal preference instead of standing accountable for their own choices or desires. Allow me to explain:

I thought the pubic hair thread was hilarious. . . . I seriously live in pube free world and never imagined that my fellow forum members had hair? I don’t see hair at BDSM events or parties, who would have dreamed our BDSM forums were overgrown with it?

Nor did I foresee that the hairy ones would get insulted, defensive or competitive about their fashionable pussy coifs, landing strips and other variations of Hitler’s mustache because my story was about a hairy monkey pussy, not Hitler’s mustache. By the time the thread got rolling, it was a comedy. Excuses like hairless pussy being akin to child molestation. Fucking prudes with excuses not to shave, that’s all that is.

I truly wish just one person would have explained their preference for a hairy pussy with heart and passion so I could see it through their eyes . . . not moral excuses. Prudes don’t understand you can’t sell a hairy pussy as being morally correct even if they pull of other moralistic fashion influences . . . like clothing in public. Or, not so long ago, “cover your shame with ankle length dresses?” So what is this modern forum saying? “Cover your shameful pussy with hair so you aren’t a child molester?” Fucking prudes.

I can see it now, “buy Prada, it’s the morally correct thing to do ya’ fucking prude.”

So there is an excellent example of prudes in action. Thanks for reminding me of it.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:27:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

Another thing. Sadists tend to enjoy other people's frustration. "It fucks with my groove" is unlikely to deter them greatly unless you're counting on respect.

Just my

here, but having met RS in person, talked to him and his gal on the phone many, many times, etc., I can say that this thread or his words were not meant to induce frustration on the part of anyone. He's pretty smart if you read his posts correctly, and you know when an implied wink is buried in the words. This is not a case of someone talking out of his ass about his brand new paddle. He knows his shit. Some people may not appreciate that in him. Personally, I do.

And for you, RS... this "Sir" is for you. (and you know those don't come easily from me)

Hugs,
Red

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:29:26 PM

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In your honor RS, from this day forward, I solemnly swear to no longer block and delete
any poster who sacrifices his integrity…his very moral fiber, by offering me a glaring view
of his most prized possession. I will accept such an offering as though it were a gift from the
gods. I will go out of my way to make conversation with it, to make it feel welcomed and safe
from all the prudish cock haters that have dampened his spirit. I will take pride in knowing that
by my gracious acceptance, he will again stand tall and prominent, beaming with the pride he
once knew oh so very long ago. I will show it a love that it only dreamt of, and I will cherish
the day he appeared so meekly in my mailbox. Viva La Cock Pics!!

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:35:27 PM

Daddysredhead

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*ROFL at poise*

*giggles wildly*

(I love ze cock, yes?)

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:36:34 PM

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Who said I was talking about him, specifically?

But, yes, I do understand what he was not directly communicating in this post.

Don't worry. My post was meant to be humorous, as well.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:39:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia

If the oral sex thread is what set this off, then I need to so some reading...

<edited for typo>

Yes the anti oral sex thread was one of many like the cock chopping, noob crushing and male bashing threads. Then I log in on the other side to see my radar display a doggy dick up a girls ass in a new profile and the next thing is a complaint about dicks in the mail.

I get mail with pussy shots, tits nailed, legs spread with feet nailed to a wood floor, fuck my wife, cage me for life etc. I don't give a shit and only mention it in humor when people talk about strange mail. If you have sadist in your screen name, people mail you the damnedest shit like you are gonna’ come over their house fuck them, their daughter and then do mock surgery just ‘cause they are horny. . . I don’t come crying to the forums because someone mailed me a pic. That was fucking hilarious.

To see an older lifestyle Domme that has prolly been to parties and rammed a strapon up some guys ass while he ate someone elses shit and drank their piss . . . to see her complain about a dick pic in the mail is as funny as seeing me complain about people who complain.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:40:22 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

Don't worry. My post was meant to be humorous, as well.

Good enough for me.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:41:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: poise

In your honor RS, from this day forward, I solemnly swear to no longer block and delete
any poster who sacrifices his integrity…his very moral fiber, by offering me a glaring view
of his most prized possession. I will accept such an offering as though it were a gift from the
gods. I will go out of my way to make conversation with it, to make it feel welcomed and safe
from all the prudish cock haters that have dampened his spirit. I will take pride in knowing that
by my gracious acceptance, he will again stand tall and prominent, beaming with the pride he
once knew oh so very long ago. I will show it a love that it only dreamt of, and I will cherish
the day he appeared so meekly in my mailbox. Viva La Cock Pics!!

So that means you got the 47 pics I just sent you? They guy on the left is me. Just ignore the donkey and the nun.

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:55:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

I get his point: there are a lot of people who complain about the different variants of sex and this is a BDSM site.
However, the S in BDSM does not stand for sex.

It does seem silly to have the endless arguments > ahem< I, mean very civilised discussions, rather, about this is BDSM, but that does not automatically include kink and/or fetish.
That spanking is really vanilla.
Too much vs too little pussy/body hair.
YKINMK

And as for the whole body parts bits, maybe it does seem prudish, RS.
But this is a discussion forum and not a porn free for all.
Most (not all) of the women appreciate a say so on the exchange of the interface parts pics.

So what is the big difference between getting a random cock shot and hanging out at a party with gentiles flying everywhere?

Dear sweet, more attractive naked than clothed lady, I don’t jerk of to pics I get in the mail whether they are random or intentional. And I agree, that you don’t have to want to get random naked pics. But I beg to differ . . . just like the rules at a real life party, if you are a fucking prude and can’t stand nudity and want to complain about it, you shouldn’t have come in the first place.

This is first and foremost, an adult sex site with porn movies, dating profiles, two kinds of video chat rooms, porn movie sponsors and BDSM gear for sale. Your defense of the prudes would hold up better in a church than at collarme. If you don’t like sex, what are you doing at an adult sex site?

Tease me about that pubic hair thread while you can . . . you will have much on your own hands with that vanilla spanking comment!

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RE: -=Fucking anti sex prudes=- - 11/8/2010 5:55:49 PM

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Hmm...I post here, even though I'm not fucking, sucking, being beat or beating anyone, and haven't in quite a while - umm, does that make a prude?

I have seen a LOT of pictures in several profiles that totally squick me. Oh shit, I think I might be a prude.

I don't care to get cock pics. Mostly because I tend to think men who think their cock is the most attractive thing about them are probably not going to turn me on. (cries) no no no, I don't WANT to be a prude. HELP!

And finally, I'm a reclusive shut-in and I'm STILL not a SOMEBODY....

I guess I'm going to have to go get busy doing something kinky to earn my posting paddles.

WinD

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