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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 11:36:29 PM

SpiritedRadiance

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22
4) lets face it... the demographics will be against me. outside of couples, the single members will be overwhelmingly male. the women will be subs who have disavowed any notion of self respect, and among the few single and dominant women in attendance, probably 100% will be 75 lbs or more overweight. there is no single, dominant, relatively attractive, 20 something girl who is attending stuff like this. its not happening.

In the last 2 months (wow thats all its been) Ive attended over 20 events, In all but 3 of the events there were about 4 women to every 1 male. See us women are smart, when told repeatedly (thanks Lady Pact) Over and over in threads the best way to meet ANYONE is real life, I took the plunge poped my cherry, and Poof... Like magic have made wonderful amazing friends.

All the munches have been held at various locations, from hooters, to an upscale restaurant like the Mid-Atlantic tap room. We plan in our TNG group to have happy hours at our local and only (thats depressing) Leather Bar.

The point is, theres something in your area thats for you, of the events ive attended some arent for me, Many the TNG group hosts as well as the wonderfully run Gate munch are for me ^_^;;

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 11:45:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

In the last 2 months (wow thats all its been) Ive attended over 20 events, In all but 3 of the events there were about 4 women to every 1 male. See us women are smart, when told repeatedly (thanks Lady Pact) Over and over in threads the best way to meet ANYONE is real life, I took the plunge poped my cherry, and Poof... Like magic have made wonderful amazing friends.

All the munches have been held at various locations, from hooters, to an upscale restaurant like the Mid-Atlantic tap room. We plan in our TNG group to have happy hours at our local and only (thats depressing) Leather Bar.

The point is, theres something in your area thats for you, of the events ive attended some arent for me, Many the TNG group hosts as well as the wonderfully run Gate munch are for me ^_^;;

wow, 20 events in 2 months takes some hustle. i appreciate your sharing your experience.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 11:49:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22
wow, 20 events in 2 months takes some hustle. i appreciate your sharing your experience.

I did a quick search on fet for your city, there are over 32 groups, with 200 plus members on the first 15 of them, Many have bi monthly munches and events. there is also a TNG group Id suggest joining.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 11:51:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22
wow, 20 events in 2 months takes some hustle. i appreciate your sharing your experience.

I did a quick search on fet for your city, there are over 32 groups, with 200 plus members on the first 15 of them, Many have bi monthly munches and events. there is also a TNG group Id suggest joining.

thanks. i will check it out.... also, what is TNG?

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/9/2010 11:53:41 PM

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TNG means the next generation its a group of people who are in the lifestyle between the ages of 18 and 35. Also if you are finding no one in your age range I would suggest you spread it a bit the more qualifications a partner must have the harder it will be to find.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 12:33:37 AM

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Hello everyone

I just happen on to the many answer and question that have been posted and wrote by s22! tThis why i came here,here to the collarme forum! I used to go to the chat rooms of aol, it was a nightmare! Everyday someone like s22 and there were so many who hated everyone, and then they would make fun of anyone and everyone! I was so sick of it i left the rooms never to go back , cruel and mean to new people who came in the room to ask questions! They would laugh and make fun of them, when i came here i thought at last and still know this, wow a place with people who have the same thoughts and kindness and respect for others ! You can ask a question from anyone of the groups here and get a wonderful asnwer back, no cheat shots no bull, just intellgent adults who want to learn, I come to know that this, and i could ask a question and get an answer! It was something that was crazy why hurt and insult others and just go on and on for not reason in the world ss22 this is not about you it about anyone who comes and just wrecks the peace of mind of others it made me see wow i am so glad i left that "room" and came to the world i know . Confidence is a given if you know who you are and what you about ! It will come fast and strong no i am shy too but i am not perfect i am one hot good hearted person it does not call for abuse in the ways i seen written here ! I hope you find that someone , and someone hurt you so badly do not take it out on others ! She was not meant for you and if she wanted money it says it on the email SEND NO MONEY TO ANYONE I adore the geek of the males! Brains are so much better then anything. i wsh you the best take care!!!

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 12:48:10 AM

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i really feel like of all the people i have encountered in my life (be it in person or virtually), you are the person most likely to wish death upon me.

I don't wish death on anyone apart from maybe the odd war criminal. You really think you're that important?

Dude, you're an internet irritant. Saying 'fuck you' doesn't mean I want you dead, it means I want you to 'fuck off'...

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for real though, apart from me chiding you when you sent me those unsolicited personal messages a while back, i cant fathom what you have against me.

Pronouns. You have them confused. *You* regularly sent *me* unsolicited personal messages after I repeatedly asked you to stop, for a little while back there. The only reason I haven't blocked you is that I'm reluctant to block forum regulars, but I will if you start up again, so let's not go back there, hey? And let's not start rewriting history...

For real, you can't fathom what I have against you? You take any opportunity to call male doms (people you haven't come into any real life contact with, or at least you hadn't at the time) creepy. Some of my favourite kinksters are male doms. You've repeatedly implied that anyone into sadism or masochism is somehow wrong in the head (on a BDSM board). You said some really unpleasant things to Ishtarr when you first got here, which doesn't speak well for your attitude to women-and neither does this thread, casting us all as shallow and money-grabbing. You sent me several private messages asking me to censor myself on the forums because you don't like what I say, and judging by what you've said to LNT you'd be doing that to her too right now if you could.

Those are the first four things off the top of my head. Trust me, I could go on...

ETA: I just had a look at the Gorean thread. Let's add your complete abuse of the English language when you're trying to be formal to the list. I didn't realise it was possible to be quite so pompous and quite so inaccurate and inarticulate simultaneously...

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 1:01:14 AM

submissivemale22

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

ETA: I just had a look at the Gorean thread. Let's add your complete abuse of the English language when you're trying to be formal to the list. I didn't realise it was possible to be quite so pompous and quite so inaccurate and inarticulate simultaneously...

ok, wait... i agree with everything you have said (with one minor quibble) in your post, and it does make me reflect negatively on some of the things ive done... but this last critique is completely over the top. there are many things which you can criticize me for, but diction is not among them.

anyways, i do have remorse for the way some things have transpired.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 1:13:14 AM

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1) Have money- i have never met a woman who doesnt love a dollar, and this particularly applies to dominant women.

2) Be Attractive- this is relative to her own appearance of course. the expectation is that you have to basically be unattainable in a non d/s capacity to warrant consideration. that... or have lots and lots of money.

And thats pretty much it... im not going to deny that there aren't other factors involved, but they are of such minimal influence relative to the top two that the are largely inconsequential.

Hello again! By now I'm convinced that you're here solely to burn bridges, but I'm going to reply anyway in the hopes that someone else losing faith in finding what they want will read this and hopefully walk away that much less jaded.

It's not about selfishness or shallowness; it's about having standards. "Having money" means that your partner isn't supporting you, and "being attractive" is half of being in a relationship. Who wants to be with someone they're not attracted to?

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 1:17:31 AM

VaguelyCurious

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22

ok, wait... i agree with everything you have said (with one minor quibble) in your post, and it does make me reflect negatively on some of the things ive done... but this last critique is completely over the top. there are many things which you can criticize me for, but diction is not among them.

That's the first genuinely funny thing you've said, the whole time you've been here. Let's run through some quotes:

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now, prior to proceeding with some philosophical questions, is there one among us who would disagree with what is entailed in this synopsis?

The verb 'to entail' does not mean what you think it does. A situation entails consequences-you meant contained, or something. The verb also takes the preposition 'by', not 'in', when you use it in the passive like that. Which generally you don't, because it sounds unbearably pompous.

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prey tell

The word is 'pray'. It's 'pray tell'.

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can not one among you be troubled to articulate where i am going wrong?

This? This is technically acceptable but painfully mangled. You would *never* say this sentence out loud. If I was editing a story set in mediaeval England with this line in it I would ring up the author and laugh at them for using such contrived syntax, and you don't even have that excuse...

I could go on, but I won't.

Also, I suspect that diction doesn't mean what you think it means either. I'm not criticising your diction, because I've never heard you speak.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 5:25:16 AM

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ORIGINAL: submissivemale22

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

FR

Just to point out that:

a) I have no idea what a single one of my play-partners earns, apart from the student who I know earns nothing because she's a *student*.
b) As far as I'm concerned, nobody is 'unattainable in a non-d/s capacity'. People are people-even the hot ones. Unattainability is an illusion.
c) I'm a young available domme who goes to plenty of munches and has no issues in the weight or looks department. And trust me, I am *not* alone in that. So:
d) fuck you, sm22...

i really feel like of all the people i have encountered in my life (be it in person or virtually), you are the person most likely to wish death upon me.

.

Trust me dude, there's a lot more than that.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 5:36:09 AM

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance
In the last 2 months (wow thats all its been) Ive attended over 20 events, In all but 3 of the events there were about 4 women to every 1 male. See us women are smart, when told repeatedly (thanks Lady Pact) Over and over in threads the best way to meet ANYONE is real life, I took the plunge poped my cherry, and Poof... Like magic have made wonderful amazing friends.

Thank you for this. I really appreciated it.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 6:29:29 AM

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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

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i really feel like of all the people i have encountered in my life (be it in person or virtually), you are the person most likely to wish death upon me..

Trust me dude, there's a lot more than that.

Heyyyyyy, don't say that like I'm included in the list-I'm a very peaceful person! I wish he'd unplug his computer, for sure, but that doesn't mean I'd wish for anyone to unplug his life support!

<ed cause the [tags] hate me today. Tomorrow I will have my revenge on them somehow.>

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 6:39:48 AM

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I'm with VC on that one. I'd have to actually give a shit to wish he was dead.

My only regret is that we didn't start making those bets that Des suggested earlier in this thread. From the impression that I got from reading that Gorean thread, we could have had a nice little game about how long it would continue.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 9:28:30 AM

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oh trainer... i fear you know not what you have done.

You mean, other than get your lying, trolling ass thrown off the site?

I am a spectacularly bad choice of collaborator to recruit if your intent is to play deceptive trolling games. Not agreeing with someone does not mean I am willing to lie to them, or to collude or cooperate in any way including remaining silent while you lie to them. Femdom ethics do not automatically involve "Let's go bash the male dominants." I am glad that's been made amply clear, and now we can return to our regularly scheduled BDSM programming minus the troll.

Srsly, if you want to attract and impress a dominant woman, being malicious and hateful to people isn't a good tactic at all, even if most dommes are likely to disagree with the views those people hold. All we're going to see is the malicious and hateful part, and it's not cool.

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RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (upd... - 11/10/2010 9:48:21 AM

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Oh, I forgot about your obsession with Ishy! Who is a SLAVE, btw. A Gorean type slave, which means that you are not fit to arrange her shoe closet.

Grow up. Go on, try.

Euhm, just to set something straight here...

I'm not a Gorean slave anymore.
Haven't been since the beginning of the summer, when I broke up with Bull.

I'll also very definitely will never be a slave again (though that's got nothing to do with Bull or the Gorean aspect).
And submissivemale22 never knew me while I was still a Gorean's slave.

No offense taken or anything like that... I just wanted to put the correct info out there.

Ishtar - who also no longer goes by the name of Ishy

Edited to add: At the moment, I actually wouldn't mind having some sort of relationship with a male submissive, and seeing that he didn't annoy me on the board as much as he does you all, I actually talked to him offline and over IM a lot.
Sadly, I came to the conclusion that even though he never managed to piss me off on the board, it seemed he went out of his way to achieve just that over the phone....
Therefore, plans to meet him were called off, and at the end, I'd have to agree you're right: he's not fit to arrange my shoe closet.

So if I'm really what he quotes as being the Domme he's looking for, I hope he realizes that he blew all the chances he could have ever gotten with me....

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