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What do you find is a great motivator that a Dominant c... - 11/12/2010 10:25:52 PM   
SAMHAIN09


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Status: offline 		I personally think it can range from taking the sub shopping to sex to favorite food.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/12/2010 10:43:36 PM   
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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/12/2010 10:46:26 PM   
Twoshoes


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Status: offline 		Well, I can cook. I can write things. Let's see... a trip someplace quiet and secluded?

Shopping would probably work, too.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/12/2010 10:53:19 PM   
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A trip to the tack barn.  (I love the smell of leather there.)
Help him pick out boots there.  Kneel and assist in him trying them on, knowing that later the boots will be used to "punt the puss".

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/12/2010 10:54:40 PM   
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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 1:56:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

I personally think it can range from taking the sub shopping to sex to favorite food.



a motivator for who? ( sub or Dom)

If she is not motivated to serve..I sure not gonna shop with her for that reason....there are propably other problems..not solvable with shopping

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 2:04:37 AM   
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In both directions.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 4:05:32 AM   
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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 5:43:33 AM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

"Good girl."

This. Any kind of positive attention or comment from him.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 5:45:20 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

"Good girl."


Agreed. It's all that's necessary for me.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 6:31:23 AM   
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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 6:50:46 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

"Good girl."


*melts*

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 8:13:11 AM   
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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 8:15:51 AM   
catize


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Status: offline 		OK, here;s the thing; if someone does not have the internal drive to submit, there is not much (if anything) the dominant can do to make it happen.
On the other hand, if one is internally driven to submit, it would depend on the individual and whatever he/she likes as far as positive feedback.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 8:24:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SAMHAIN09

I personally think it can range from taking the sub shopping to sex to favorite food.

Cars, lots of money, maybe diamond rings, all you can eat buffet at Golden Corral. Any old bribe will do I suppose.

I prefer a slap across the face and a boot pressing their head to the floor with love in my heart.


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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 8:32:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

"Good girl."


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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 8:42:21 AM   
dory007


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love and respect.

In both directions.


agreed. no punishment, treat, gift will equal the motivation of love and being loved.

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 11:06:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

"Good girl."


*melts*


That's the one  

Amazing what those 2 simple words do to you

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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 12:09:56 PM   
Icarys


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Amazing what those 2 simple words do to you

I know, right? To date I've seen them part the Red Sea, end world hunger, send men to the Moon and cure cancer. Yes all with two words.


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RE: What do you find is a great motivator that a Domina... - 11/13/2010 12:53:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Being someone worth following. He inspires me to please him by being who he is. I personally have a great dislike of being treated as a trained seal. Learn this trick and get a piece of fish translates to "do this for me and you can go to the movies", No thanks, the sheer fact that you think people can be reduced to this simplistic a transaction says to me you aren't ready to have any kind of a relationship, especially not one where you must take on most of the responsibility for doing things right, for identifying problems and solving them.

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