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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/21/2010 12:15:12 PM

wuzamarine

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You are actually correct and my issue is finding a solution to just that.
I know to let it go, and it has been.
I spent the past many years looking very deep inside myself. I knew that there were many things about myself that even I did not understand. It took a lot of time and I finally found it. Notice how easily I discuss the very touchy angles of the topic. I know the subject fairly well.
And that seems to be the delima now. I know the tickle spot. I know why it exist and exactly what is required to get there. I am quite comfortable with it.
But the mere mention of it on an open forum will generally have most women running for the hills. Even though, every single girl I have seen in or around this scenario would have it no other way. They love it.
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I just shake my head in 'I don't know WTF'.

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/21/2010 12:47:51 PM

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Cool story bro.

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/21/2010 12:53:11 PM

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Thank you my friend.
I thought posting it would help not only me, but others whom are curious and maybe don't understand.
There isn't much open discussion on the topic from what I have found but it is amazingly popular.
Interracial Gangbang porn is the #3 genre downloaded.
I run a few sites...

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/21/2010 4:38:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: wuzamarine

I think the answer to that one is a lot more complex that even I can answer.

Of course, which is why I asked it. "Why" is never easy.

On the headline, it would appear as 'looking for the same thing and zeroed in on it so hard that I pretty much gaff anything else off if it is not related'.
This goes back to my original question of how in the world to boys and girls meet on common ground the topic is kinky.

When it comes to men and women, it has been my experience that 'common ground' ain't so common. Men and women are wired differently

digging deeper the is an entanglement of children. I am a single dad of two teenager and her son was killed a very few month after we broke up, somewhat unexpectedly. We raised him together.

Sucks when you realize that there really is something to dig deeper into in order to understand you're current situation. This is more than a total fascination with MFM sex, in my opinion, as displayed by the rest of this thread and your other one about classification/what are you.

I'm sorry to hear about the unexpected passing of the young man you mentioned. I have a feeling that plays a somewhat large part in your current (6yr) search in some way, but I'm not qualified to diagnose. Have you and his mother sought grief counselling of some kind? It's amazing how much a death can affect a person...the fact that you brought it up on this forum tells me it has some bearing on your current state of mind.

I goes a lot deeper that that as well.

But it has taken me 6 years to even be able to vocalize what makes me happy. Very much like learning how to sing and then forgetting how to hear.

Of course. Again, it's obvious there's more to this and I strongly suggest you address the underlying issues so that you can move forward and find what you want/need.

The dating pool is a complete disappointment.

Is it really just the "dating pool" that disappoints you?

Good luck.

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/21/2010 5:58:55 PM

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It makes crossing that first hurdle, a complete mother f*$#&R

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/21/2010 6:18:19 PM

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Some time I really wonder if it is really worth it. I shower my daughters with so much attention and affection and they love it. They are now teenagers, starting to date themselves. I have one 14 yr old in college, so I must be doing something right. When Matt was killed, it was a complete shutout, shutdown, closure, the end. A lot more died that day than I thought.
My daughters have definitely seen an uptick. I spoil the hell out of them and I am now, no where near my targeted goal on 'i love yous'.
It is true, you never really know exactly how to love a child, till you loose one.
But it has been six years since I have made love to a woman. Geeze.....

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/22/2010 2:07:42 AM

ranja

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Hot experience in your first post
i have not read all of the thread
I think hot experiences are great material to wank off to for the rest of ones life... i have quite a few myself that i use for turn ons and get offs.

After the universe bestest experiences the trick is to come back down to earth and see the details and enjoy subtleties that are needed to build up to greatness again... and it always will be different, but might get you just as high...

Take up dancing, you get to hold a lot of ladies and there is no need to talk, just enjoy the music and the movement.

good luck

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RE: Looking for female input... - 11/22/2010 3:38:48 AM

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Hello,
First thank you for your service. I've heard there is no real past tense in being a Marine.

Second, you have some very serious issues you're dealing with - loss of a child, ending your career (why else would you have that name?), loss of an important relationship, being a single dad, fear of intimacy.

I would like to suggest that you find a men's group to deal with some of this stuff. It's clear there is much more here than meets the eye, and what little you've specified (or alluded to) is pretty heavy.

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