PeonForHer
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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz What I read in CountrySongs post was obviously very different than the majority here! Many dominants in this lifestyle are rulers of their own household. They may even be rulers of their own business but nothing more. They are still slaves of the system. A submissive may well be a ruler of her own business too but within her household she makes an informed choice to be ruled by a surf of the system (her personal Dominant). I see a similarity here, to the bigger picture. The majority of any population that feel safe within the system will choose to be continually led. Put that same populations in a situation where they no longer feel safe and what we have is a possible revolution, or in a household situation, watch the submissive move on to new pastures. What has any of that got to do with fantasy? As far as jumping back with personal insults, that's just a form of bullying and speaks volumes about the person throwing stones. I agree with you on the personal insults regarding CS and his partner. We don't need that kind of comment. CS's mistakes, though, were to assume firstly, that relationship-subs and relationship-doms, respectively, act submissively or dominantly in society; secondly, to make simplistic assumptions about dominants' and submissives' motivations. As a BDSM sub my own motivations, for instance, have little to do with safety. Quite the opposite, in fact: they're much more to do with adventure. And as a social being, I'm not a submissive - unless by 'submissive' we mean basically any human at all.
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