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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

Just a quick interjection here.  I am reading Aakasha's post to indicate that you seem to be only interested in your fetishes.  In vanilla language: 
"But enough about me...Tell me, what do you think about my idea for blah, blah, blah...." indicating initially that you are now ready to move the conversation to focus on the other party, but you still make it about you.  Got it?
She made a comment about including a photo of yourself in hockey gear, to which you replied you no longer play but added that your photo was a really cool "mummification" photo.
Frankly, to Me, your profile reads like a "will travel for kink".  I don't see anything regarding a relationship or any dedicated submission that doesn't scratch your own fetishy itch.
That is fine, if that is what you seek, but you are unlikley to find a lifestyle Domina who is open to that sort of "when I am town, let's play" mentality.  If this is what you are after, you may still wish to invest some time in a friendship of sorts, so that the Lady is open to occasional casual play.
I am not sure a mummification pic is going to be approved.  You might want to consider a nice, candid G-rated photo.  Save the mummification shot for a Lady who is interested and willing to accept such as an attachment to an email. 

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ORIGINAL: WeeIttyBitty

I was looking for constructive critism to make the profile more likely to meet someone. What happens durring or after that meeting, I'll take my chances. But I'd like that chance.

If you dont have contructive critism, dont offer sarcasm and stupidity.

Thanks.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

Just a quick interjection here.  I am reading Aakasha's post to indicate that you seem to be only interested in your fetishes.  In vanilla language: 
"But enough about me...Tell me, what do you think about my idea for blah, blah, blah...." indicating initially that you are now ready to move the conversation to focus on the other party, but you still make it about you.  Got it?
She made a comment about including a photo of yourself in hockey gear, to which you replied you no longer play but added that your photo was a really cool "mummification" photo.
Frankly, to Me, your profile reads like a "will travel for kink".  I don't see anything regarding a relationship or any dedicated submission that doesn't scratch your own fetishy itch.
That is fine, if that is what you seek, but you are unlikley to find a lifestyle Domina who is open to that sort of "when I am town, let's play" mentality.  If this is what you are after, you may still wish to invest some time in a friendship of sorts, so that the Lady is open to occasional casual play.
I am not sure a mummification pic is going to be approved.  You might want to consider a nice, candid G-rated photo.  Save the mummification shot for a Lady who is interested and willing to accept such as an attachment to an email. 

GoddessDustyGold is right...and it was actually inappropriate "flirting" on my part anyway. I rarely do that on the forums but I couldn't resist since I have so much hockey on the brain right now.  But when I made my comment and saw the response it reminded me of a common frustration I had in my single days when flirting with subs.

It was basically that -- If I let on that I had a fetish about something, or let in on some little dark secret, or hinted at "my" kink -- unless it was his kink, the hint was ignored or completely blown off.  Really, when it came down to it, many subs only saw kinks as they related to their own.  Instead of thinking, "hmm...ok, so she has this weird kind of hockey fetish. Alright, I don't *get* that, but I can work with it, let's see if I can get her going..."

I'll be the first to admit it's probably no fun for a sub to try to figure out how to push a femdom's buttnos if her kink really is of no interest to him. But, if he wants to start to win her over, or successfully flirt, he should perhaps suck it up a bit and go with it. Unless the kink is a hard limit.

Again, this was not my intent -- to flirt -- I just kind of blurted it out. And when he ignored the bait it reminded me of an old frustation that thankfully I don't have to deal with any more since I'm not single.

Akasha