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AquaticSub -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/6/2010 11:12:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Anyone done this? Experienced comment welcome.


Start slow. Val used to have issues with the idea of 'hurting' me. I think seeing the repeated orgasms from pain helped fix that... [:D]

Gentle taps are good and I find talking to be particularly helpful - but then I'm a word slut so hearing a man telling me he is going to slap me and why is just yummy. Keep the safety tips you got here in mind - you got some great tips and remember that it's supposed to be enjoyable. If it's not working, switch to something else for awhile and then give it another go.

quote:

ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh

Just curious, why the need to be "CRYSTAL" clear on wanting to slap/hit "ANY woman - whether she enjoys/agrees to it or not"?

I thought this thread was about you and your partner/slave. Could you clarify this a bit?



I don't want to speak for the OP but, on occasion, d-tops get pounced if they are seen as catering to the s-type in any way. That might be it. *shrugs*

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

Actually I fucking HATE it.... and will make sure the person slapping me is in a lot of physical pain after doing so...Its one of those do it do me and you no longer have your testicles attached to your body activities for me.



Thought we were talking about the OP's girl, not you. [;)]

Had to say it hon. How are you doing tonight?



SpiritedRadiance -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/6/2010 11:16:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Thought we were talking about the OP's girl, not you. [;)]

Had to say it hon. How are you doing tonight?



We are however, the second post is very Generic in his wording which as you know is a pet peeve of mine, she might love it to death and the world would end if she doesnt have it, but shes not every sub and its best to make sure (i know it sounds stupid) then to make the mistake that costs you your testicles....

Im wonderful enjoying a relaxing night at work Yourself?



AquaticSub -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/6/2010 11:24:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SpiritedRadiance

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Thought we were talking about the OP's girl, not you. [;)]

Had to say it hon. How are you doing tonight?



We are however, the second post is very Generic in his wording which as you know is a pet peeve of mine, she might love it to death and the world would end if she doesnt have it, but shes not every sub and its best to make sure (i know it sounds stupid) then to make the mistake that costs you your testicles....

Im wonderful enjoying a relaxing night at work Yourself?



Funny - I thought it was very specific to the OP and his girl. Certainly the OP thought it was and came in to clarify that he isn't doing it for her pleasure. [;)]

Personally, if I were a d-type, I'd probably find an s-type who wouldn't destroy my balls/boobs if I made a mistake. Safewording and talking works much better for me. [:D]

And nah, you are right - not every s-type is the same. I just really don't see how you got generic out of the post - otherwise I'd be in agreement with you. *gentle shrug and evil grin* Think the universe could handle us agreeing two nights in a row?

I'm all right myself - enjoying a pipe and trying to decide what I want for my dinner. I have Indian leftovers or Japanese leftovers... choices, choices!

Edited for silly banter



Jaybeee -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 1:39:22 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


This is also to help me break my conditioning not to hit ANY woman - whether she enjoys/agrees to it or not.

I WANT to hit her - it just so happens she wants it too, but that is just a happy coincidence. I want to be CRYSTAL clear on that.



Just curious, why the need to be "CRYSTAL" clear on wanting to slap/hit "ANY woman - whether she enjoys/agrees to it or not"?

I thought this thread was about you and your partner/slave. Could you clarify this a bit?



Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

This is something I've been mulling for a few years. A few months ago I got into a discussion with some girl at a club. I was being deliberately obnoxious about whatever topic she was talking about (she was a royal bitch for her part, so I knew she'd make a good candidate for the experiment) and waited until she boiled up to the point where she would slap my face, and I'd slap back.

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.



sunshinemiss -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 1:46:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

This is something I've been mulling for a few years. A few months ago I got into a discussion with some girl at a club. I was being deliberately obnoxious about whatever topic she was talking about (she was a royal bitch for her part, so I knew she'd make a good candidate for the experiment) and waited until she boiled up to the point where she would slap my face, and I'd slap back.

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.


Jaybee,
What you have just described is assault. It is not what other people on this thread are talking about.
sunshine



crazyml -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 1:50:50 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.


Then what happened, out of curiosity?



ownedbyPF -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:04:37 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

[Jaybee,
What you have just described is assault. It is not what other people on this thread are talking about.
sunshine


Did I just read this right? He lured a girl at a club, that he didn't know, into a verbal argument, in hopes that she would slap him, so he could expirement in the "face slapping arena" on her? Did I get that right? And then lost control, and slapped her? That's what you got from this, right?
~s



lovingpet -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:15:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

I want to hit women. ANY woman


Assault
quote:

regardless of whether she likes it or not.

Probably assault, but not necessarily since some women want to not like something done to them.
quote:

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

Assault


This post concerns me to no end.  I HOPE I am reading this wrong.

lovingpet



crazyml -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:16:48 AM)

I can't speak for Sunshine,

But that's pretty much the impression I'm getting.



ownedbyPF -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:22:06 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

I can't speak for Sunshine,

But that's pretty much the impression I'm getting.


Thank you Crazyml... I just had to double check that I was actually reading that correctly. Sometimes you think.. wow, I had to have missed something!
~s



ranja -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:28:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

This is something I've been mulling for a few years. A few months ago I got into a discussion with some girl at a club. I was being deliberately obnoxious about whatever topic she was talking about (she was a royal bitch for her part, so I knew she'd make a good candidate for the experiment) and waited until she boiled up to the point where she would slap my face, and I'd slap back.

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.


Jaybeee... you are 41?... you lost the argument... you lost your self control... and you felt really alive cos you slapped a girl... in public? 
You obviously don't see how you look from the outside...
me thinks you have sum growin up to do cave man... ug ug



SaintIntensity -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:36:27 AM)

"asserting my authority" - only valid part of that is "ass"
losing your temper during a VERBAL confrontation with a WOMAN (which you deliberately engineered) is NOT "control" or "dominance"

its called COWARDLY VIOLENCE - but its good you have shown what you really are to all reading this

"caveman"? no, they didn't know better - "asshole"? oh hell yes!



phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:45:55 AM)

dont do it if you dont like it master hates it so do i he is perfectly happy with slaps and more in all other places but not the face.



crazyml -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:47:23 AM)

Yup, I know that feeling.



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:52:03 AM)

Jaybeee, there is a reason why we call this consensual.  What you did was not.
 
Safe.  Sane.  Consensual. 
 
<puts duct tape on her mouth to avoid a mod spank, and walks away>



crazyml -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 2:56:47 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

This is something I've been mulling for a few years. A few months ago I got into a discussion with some girl at a club. I was being deliberately obnoxious about whatever topic she was talking about (she was a royal bitch for her part, so I knew she'd make a good candidate for the experiment) and waited until she boiled up to the point where she would slap my face, and I'd slap back.

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.



Here's the thing, I'm about 99% sure that this is just a troll-windup.

But for the sake of that 1% (and for some entertainment)...

I'm wondering what would have happened next if you had really done this?

In most clubs in the UK you'd have been bundled to the floor by a bouncer - or by other club-goers. You'd have probably been in receipt of a bit of kicking and the police would almost certainly have been called.

So you'd be here just killing time before your court date I guess?

I'm also enjoying the likely outcome if you randomly slapped one of the females who post regularly here... I can think of half a dozen of the regulars here who would have left you in a bloody mess, crying for your mummy.

But, sticking with the hypothetical - If I knew someone who genuinely presented with the desires you claim to have my thoughts would be -

1) What a pathetic sad little person. How little self-esteem can a man have to want to have these urges
2) Was this person bullied at school?
3) This person needs help dealing with the fuckedupness in his head
4) If this person doesn't get help he's either going to end up in jail or going to be in receipt of some almighty arse-kickings.

So - if this really is you, good luck and get help.

Since it really has to be a troll, I'm also bound to ask..

What do you get out of making this shit up?



BonesFromAsh -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:04:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


quote:

ORIGINAL: BonesFromAsh


quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


This is also to help me break my conditioning not to hit ANY woman - whether she enjoys/agrees to it or not.

I WANT to hit her - it just so happens she wants it too, but that is just a happy coincidence. I want to be CRYSTAL clear on that.



Just curious, why the need to be "CRYSTAL" clear on wanting to slap/hit "ANY woman - whether she enjoys/agrees to it or not"?

I thought this thread was about you and your partner/slave. Could you clarify this a bit?



Oh I think you know, but I'll spell it out nonetheless. I want to hit women. ANY woman, regardless of whether she likes it or not.
But the primary drive for all of this is to begin the long journey of shaking off the conditioning, asserting my authority, and unlocking my inner caveman. Not to satisfy my girlfriend's desire to be physically dominated.

This is something I've been mulling for a few years. A few months ago I got into a discussion with some girl at a club. I was being deliberately obnoxious about whatever topic she was talking about (she was a royal bitch for her part, so I knew she'd make a good candidate for the experiment) and waited until she boiled up to the point where she would slap my face, and I'd slap back.

Then, something in me just snapped. I don't remember what she said to set me off, but my hand flew up, and span her face to one side. The feel of her soft flesh, if only for a fleeting second, was electric. The sound of the slap was like the satisfaction you get when you hear shattering glass. The guys here will know what I'm talking about.

I felt alive...really alive.


Yes, you're right...we both know where you're heading with this but thanks for making yourself "CRYSTAL clear".







BonesFromAsh -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:08:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml


Since it really has to be a troll, I'm also bound to ask..

What do you get out of making this shit up?


Internet trolls



sunshinemiss -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:19:51 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml


quote:

ORIGINAL: I felt alive...really alive.



Here's the thing, I'm about 99% sure that this is just a troll-windup.

I'm also enjoying the likely outcome if you randomly slapped one of the females who post regularly here... I can think of half a dozen of the regulars here who would have left you in a bloody mess, crying for your mummy.




*begins the line...



ownedbyPF -> RE: Slapping a slave (12/7/2010 3:20:01 AM)

I admit, I was wondering the same thing... This can not be for real. This has to be meant to entice! I have been in many a club and had many men do things that were waaaay less off the charts than suddenly slapping me in the face, and I had either bouncers, or other men in the club, jump in before I could even thiiiink of responding myself. So if he did actually do this I can not imagine his exit from the club was A) by choice and B) without taking a few bruises on his way out.

Second thought is/was surely he has read here enough to know that he wasn't going to get a single, "Hey kudos to you!" from anyone, so that can only leave... stirring shit up.

People find the oddest ways to waste their time away.
~s



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