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JstAnotherSub -> RE: What it's not about. (12/18/2010 10:42:29 AM)
Ed, lighten up buttercup. Don't take shit so seriously!

lally2 -> RE: What it's not about. (12/18/2010 3:33:47 PM)
allthatjazz, he must have read youre post, he's deleted his writing - i went there 'specially just to get creeped out. anyhoo - anyone who defines a woman who does not submit to him or his opinions as 'not a sub' is lost entirely to the shades and variations of this wonderful style of being. confusing BDSM as the pivotal litmus test to all submission is a rooky attitude at best. the guy will never find himself a woman to abuse with that attitude, least ways, he wont keep her for long - manipulating anyone into submission by threatening to strip them of their own, proud identity is a doomed approach and clearly it isnt working for him. some people just fail to see that they are the common denominator and you just cant help those folk.

LaTigresse -> RE: What it's not about. (12/18/2010 4:10:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gungadin09 The OP seems clinically depressed. i think we should give Him a break. pam I don't. We are all responsible for our own behaviour. If the OP at age 52, hasn't figured out how to be responsible for his own mental well being, he deserves no breaks from me. Especially since he presents himself here, as a dominant, a man searching for a woman to submit herself to him. He is the fraud he postulates about.

DesFIP -> RE: What it's not about. (12/18/2010 6:09:56 PM)
I agree. This isn't the '60s when there was no treatment for depression. There's all kinds of meds and therapies out there that can help. But if he wants help with that, it is incumbent on him to ask for it. It is especially true of a man who wishes to take the lead in his relationships that he can demonstrate his ability to take the lead in getting help for medical problems.

hausboy -> RE: What it's not about. (12/18/2010 9:35:10 PM)
this thread is giving me an Ed-ache.

GreedyTop -> RE: What it's not about. (12/18/2010 10:51:50 PM)
giggles at Chia groans at HB

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 4:14:36 AM)
OMG, I've only read the first page of this thread... This is truly an awful one wayism that I myself don't even fit into. I'm just a kinky pervert that Loves sex, fucking, grabbing a girl by the back of her hair while she sucking my cock, and I get the fuck off on calling her dirty names. I love the feel of a flogger clenched in my hand while whirl it around and work it over the hot naked form of a womens body. I love telling somebody exactly what to do during sex for whatever wicked desire or thought that hits my mind at the time. I love the sensation of being drawn upon with pens and markers. I love the sensation of hot wax on the skin and love the sight of pouring hot wax over the naked body of a women. I love buying sexy hooker clothing for a women and seeing her dressed up as my little slut. I love and get off on having her squirm around while I have her panties pulled down to her ankles and I rub and slap her ass with my bare fucking hand and trace my fingers all over her body.. Yes, I'm dirty dirty pervert. I Love it, I enjoy it. I get off at times making somebody beg, I get off on inflicting pain, or prolonging orgasms. I love dropping the chain leashed up to a collar around the neck, between the legs and tugging on it while she's down on her knees. So many many wonderful dirty pervert amazing things. Some of it rough and sadistic, some of it sensual, like textures and coloring in a painting. At times, I much rather be the one that makes the move instead of waiting for some strange sign of first submission. Will she or won't she yield, if she does... then perhaps a little more. I like having some form of structure and sanity in life, a set of rules and day to day rituals and expectations. Sanity for day to day living. I like certain things done a certain way and I enjoy certain things that please me. In many ways, I like some things a certain way, there are some things that I'm indifferent about. Then again, I am just me being myself. I'm not afraid to duct tape, or spank or make somebody stand in a corner... and yeah.. I will chew them up and spit them out if need be. I will also engage in conversation and talk about stuff. Also, what I really enjoy is the warm and fuzzy feelings of somebody who is there for me, knowing they are doing their best to please or pleasure me. Not because it's forced but because they want to do it. Those extra little touches that somebody puts into WTF they are doing because they care about WTF they are doing. There's also the added sense of purpose they fill my own life with, because they are mine. (sort of a mutual thing). When you own somebody that you know would do nearly anything in the world for you, it means a lot... and it's just not all sexual either, nor about power or control. I'm gonna stop here...cause I've expressed a hell of a lot.

GreedyTop -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 5:12:45 AM)
WHIPPY!! hugs

kalikshama -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 5:57:41 AM)
quote: I'm just a kinky pervert that Loves sex, fucking, grabbing a girl by the back of her hair while she sucking my cock, and I get the fuck off on calling her dirty names. I love the feel of a flogger clenched in my hand while whirl it around and work it over the hot naked form of a womens body. I love telling somebody exactly what to do during sex for whatever wicked desire or thought that hits my mind at the time. Now THIS is the kind of manifesto I can get behind! The OP, not so much. KK

naughtysubK -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 6:15:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP The op is 52 and still hasn't learned any communication skills. And that's why he is mistakenly attracted to a power exchange relationship because he figures he won't have to learn how to listen or fight fairly or discuss without attacking, instead he can make pronouncements from on high and the s type will be happy to be barked at on rare occasions. What's really sad is that he'll be in the exact same place in another six years because he still won't have learned how to communicate. good point. He reminds me of someone I used to know. This guy is about the same age and I always thought he only called himself a dominant because he thought it was an easy way to get sex without having to put any work into a relationship. Whenever he got a non submissive woman interested in him somehow, he was perfectly happy with vanilla sex

Capndependable -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 9:15:03 AM)
Wow, what a depressing thought I just had. Up until now I thought my girl and I had something quite special between us. We are both here knowing full well that we don't fit into the "normal". Now I find that the "Gospel According to ED" Says that we do not fit in here either?? I own some beautiful motorcycles.. They are my pride. I take great care of them and they bring me joy. If I simply beat them and then threw them in the garage when I was done riding them with no maintenance. Before very long they would not be able to respond in the way that I desire and I would no longer enjoy the ride. I take care of my bikes.. And she means so much more to me.. I feel sorry for Ed.. He's got such a narrow focus, he can't see what he is looking for.

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 2:51:04 PM)
the problem with your "facts" are that they are "fact" only in your mind. A fact would be more along the lines of rain is wet, snow is cold, not an opinion that bdsm is or isn't and subs do or do not, and doms don't give a shit what subs think. Had you said, for me and speaking of me alone...... THEN it would of been a fact! quote: ORIGINAL: cejohnsonsr Final thoughts on the subject: I didn't attack anyone personally. I simply stated facts that are obvious to the casual observer. Do I have a harem? No. (sarcasm fail) Am I a little bitter & unfulfilled? Oh yeah. How can I be alone so long? There is simply nothing available to me. Also, I would rather do without than settle for less. Bear in mind that on a planet 2/3 covered in water, there are still those who die of thirst occasionally. It's my bad fortune to exist in a desert. I bear no ill will or malice toward anyone. I wish you all the very best in all you do. Merry Christmas & Good Bye. Ed

Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 3:17:26 PM)
Can those who's tone and comments about living in trailers stop making it sound like you gotta be trashy to live in a trailer. There's nothing wrong with it and sometimes, it's the only option out there, or the best option at the time.

Buzzzz -> RE: What it's not about. (12/19/2010 3:53:08 PM)
OMG, I've only read the first page of this thread... This is truly an awful one wayism that I myself don't even fit into. I'm just a kinky pervert that Loves sex, fucking, grabbing a girl by the back of her hair while she sucking my cock, and I get the fuck off on calling her dirty names. I love the feel of a flogger clenched in my hand while whirl it around and work it over the hot naked form of a womens body. I love telling somebody exactly what to do during sex for whatever wicked desire or thought that hits my mind at the time. I love the sensation of being drawn upon with pens and markers. I love the sensation of hot wax on the skin and love the sight of pouring hot wax over the naked body of a women. I love buying sexy hooker clothing for a women and seeing her dressed up as my little slut. I love and get off on having her squirm around while I have her panties pulled down to her ankles and I rub and slap her ass with my bare fucking hand and trace my fingers all over her body.. Yes, I'm dirty dirty pervert. I Love it, I enjoy it. I get off at times making somebody beg, I get off on inflicting pain, or prolonging orgasms. I love dropping the chain leashed up to a collar around the neck, between the legs and tugging on it while she's down on her knees. So many many wonderful dirty pervert amazing things. Some of it rough and sadistic, some of it sensual, like textures and coloring in a painting. At times, I much rather be the one that makes the move instead of waiting for some strange sign of first submission. Will she or won't she yield, if she does... then perhaps a little more. I like having some form of structure and sanity in life, a set of rules and day to day rituals and expectations. Sanity for day to day living. I like certain things done a certain way and I enjoy certain things that please me. In many ways, I like some things a certain way, there are some things that I'm indifferent about. Then again, I am just me being myself. I'm not afraid to duct tape, or spank or make somebody stand in a corner... and yeah.. I will chew them up and spit them out if need be. I will also engage in conversation and talk about stuff. Also, what I really enjoy is the warm and fuzzy feelings of somebody who is there for me, knowing they are doing their best to please or pleasure me. Not because it's forced but because they want to do it. Those extra little touches that somebody puts into WTF they are doing because they care about WTF they are doing. There's also the added sense of purpose they fill my own life with, because they are mine. (sort of a mutual thing). When you own somebody that you know would do nearly anything in the world for you, it means a lot... and it's just not all sexual either, nor about power or control. EXACTLY

FETtotheLIFE -> RE: What it's not about. (12/20/2010 5:05:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: stef quote: ORIGINAL: FETtotheLIFE finally a man that speaks the truth, come let us bully him [:)] Just so we know which troll we're dealing with, what's your FetLife username? ~stef 'Tis is the season of blockage, me thinks... are you all one single entity or..

FETtotheLIFE -> RE: What it's not about. (12/20/2010 5:08:35 PM)
Ed you dont share the common beliefs of the gang, expect to be attacked for expressing differing opinion, its frustrating at first but im sure if you stick around someone will guide you to the better way.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What it's not about. (12/20/2010 5:14:54 PM)
THe BETTER way? Which would be what?

LadyPact -> RE: What it's not about. (12/20/2010 5:16:00 PM)
Ha! Wasn't it just you yesterday who was razzing Me for feeding the trolls, Hib? Gotcha!

LadyHibiscus -> RE: What it's not about. (12/20/2010 5:16:36 PM)
HAHAHHAA~~~ GOTTEN!! [:D]

FETtotheLIFE -> RE: What it's not about. (12/20/2010 5:19:58 PM)
i am only a humble pupil on the long road, i too seek only to find out what the correct beliefs of this lifestyle are.

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