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Need payback - 12/18/2010 4:05:09 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Last night he couldn't sleep. Finally came to bed about 3:00AM and started playing with me. Now I can see if he wanted an orgasm to relax, instead he falls asleep playing with me. I was up for almost 2 hours before I could relax and go back to sleep.

Is it legit to wake him up tonight, assuming he falls asleep before me?

And how the hell can he sleep with his hand between my legs?


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 4:49:22 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		It wouldn't be legit in MY relationship. It may be in yours.

If I couldn't go back to sleep then that's my problem to deal with, not his. If he fell asleep on me then so be it. It happens. I would assume that what he did to me helped him to relax enough to fall asleep and being that I like helping him whatever way I can, I'd be happy that he was able to finally sleep.

It's all in your perspective I suppose.


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 4:58:29 PM   
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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 5:28:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

It wouldn't be legit in MY relationship. It may be in yours.

If I couldn't go back to sleep then that's my problem to deal with, not his. If he fell asleep on me then so be it. It happens. I would assume that what he did to me helped him to relax enough to fall asleep and being that I like helping him whatever way I can, I'd be happy that he was able to finally sleep.

It's all in your perspective I suppose.




Same here.  There is no "payback" with us, no matter how unpleasant something he inflicts might be for me.  He does whatever he likes, and so do I.

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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 5:34:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Last night he couldn't sleep. Finally came to bed about 3:00AM and started playing with me. Now I can see if he wanted an orgasm to relax, instead he falls asleep playing with me. I was up for almost 2 hours before I could relax and go back to sleep.

Is it legit to wake him up tonight, assuming he falls asleep before me?

And how the hell can he sleep with his hand between my legs?




Wake him up by "accident". You know, naked breasts against his back, breathing on his neck, spooning him and kind of wriggling around a little. That way he can't be mad and you get laid. . When he does wake up, feign sleep. It works..I hear..

Oh and falling asleep with the hand thing? Yes it has happened to us too, but usually after sex, and he's just using me as a warm blankie til he zzz's off. lol.


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 6:29:17 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I'm not planning retribution. It just amazes me that he can fall asleep like that. But I thought it was a funny story and wanted to share it. Apparently the title should have been followed by j/k.

Although I think I have had my revenge. I ate the last biscotti.


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 6:34:13 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		Such sweet revenge. Even i wouldnt have had the guts to do that!

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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 7:04:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm not planning retribution. It just amazes me that he can fall asleep like that. But I thought it was a funny story and wanted to share it. Apparently the title should have been followed by j/k.

Although I think I have had my revenge. I ate the last biscotti.



what kind? lol...


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 7:33:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I like Aynnes plan .. I think that could be a winner 

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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 8:44:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm not planning retribution. It just amazes me that he can fall asleep like that. But I thought it was a funny story and wanted to share it. Apparently the title should have been followed by j/k.

Although I think I have had my revenge. I ate the last biscotti.


Bad girl!!! lol

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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 8:47:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: delicatelydirty

I like Aynnes plan .. I think that could be a winner 


I aim to please. .


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 10:49:00 PM   
Kana


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He does whatever he likes, and so do I.


Laughs. Well, ya got it 1/2 right.


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RE: Need payback - 12/18/2010 10:53:47 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aynne88

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Last night he couldn't sleep. Finally came to bed about 3:00AM and started playing with me. Now I can see if he wanted an orgasm to relax, instead he falls asleep playing with me. I was up for almost 2 hours before I could relax and go back to sleep.

Is it legit to wake him up tonight, assuming he falls asleep before me?

And how the hell can he sleep with his hand between my legs?




Wake him up by "accident". You know, naked breasts against his back, breathing on his neck, spooning him and kind of wriggling around a little. That way he can't be mad and you get laid. . When he does wake up, feign sleep. It works..I hear..

Oh and falling asleep with the hand thing? Yes it has happened to us too, but usually after sex, and he's just using me as a warm blankie til he zzz's off. lol.



This. Although I wouldn't actually wake him up. Sleeping is fairly sacred in our house and I really don't think I would care if he fell asleep while playing with me since sexual frustration is simply the story of my life. Though I get so moan-y and whimper-y that I doubt he could sleep till I'd gotten off.

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RE: Need payback - 12/19/2010 3:36:54 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


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Status: offline 		LOL, I've fallen asleep with my hand between the legs before. Hell.. fallen asleep in positions that were like two people in the middle of playing twister. :-P It ain't that hard to do...

Anything is Legit to do... just be prepared to faced the consequences. Lord, he might wake up and be in some frisky mood to play all night long after taking a nice nap. You might get less sleep than you had the night before.

I myself, tend to be the one waking up in the middle of the night with a 3-4 am hard on wanting to play or get off...

All depends upon how truly tired he is... It's obvious there's no set in stone rules regarding this else you wouldn't be asking this question here. So yeah, it might be legit then again it might not. Though I imagine the thrill of not knowing and thinking about it sort of spark your devilish little mind. :-P




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RE: Need payback - 12/19/2010 9:17:41 AM   
MaxsGirl


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ORIGINAL: Kana

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ORIGINAL: MaxsGirl
He does whatever he likes, and so do I.


Laughs. Well, ya got it 1/2 right.



Slight misunderstanding.  He does whatever he likes, and so do I (do whatever he likes).

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RE: Need payback - 12/19/2010 7:47:35 PM   
tyrasia


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Wake him up by "accident". You know, naked breasts against his back, breathing on his neck, spooning him and kind of wriggling around a little. That way he can't be mad and you get laid. . When he does wake up, feign sleep. It works..I hear..


Sooo we have to top from the bottom and lie to get laid now?


Be well,
tyrasia


For the record tho, i am with Little Wonder on this, and the other thread about bad days too.

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RE: Need payback - 12/19/2010 9:02:35 PM   
AquaticSub


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Sooo we have to top from the bottom and lie to get laid now?


Be well,
tyrasia


For the record tho, i am with Little Wonder on this, and the other thread about bad days too.


*laughs* What, we have to judge other people's intentions in their relationships and sling around "topping from the bottom" when someone is making a light-hearted post instead of just saying "That wouldn't work for me and mine"?

Frankly, that sort of thing is exactly the sort of thing my owner encourages because it amuses him. Granted, that specific thing no because of the sacredness of sleep in our house but things along that line amuse the hell out of him. Including but not limited to the "But I want sex NOW Master!!!" dance. 

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RE: Need payback - 12/19/2010 10:22:40 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: tyrasia


quote:

Wake him up by "accident". You know, naked breasts against his back, breathing on his neck, spooning him and kind of wriggling around a little. That way he can't be mad and you get laid. . When he does wake up, feign sleep. It works..I hear..


Sooo we have to top from the bottom and lie to get laid now?


Be well,
tyrasia


For the record tho, i am with Little Wonder on this, and the other thread about bad days too.


Well that wasn't very nice. Can't wait for Aynne to see this.
Should I point out that you're in Loiusianna and your owner is in the UK?
I can gaurantee that Aynne's relationship is just a tad more 24/7 than yours.

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RE: Need payback - 12/19/2010 10:32:12 PM   
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Clearly you don't know the first thing about the MAN in Aynne's life.  That hot hunk of yumminess... hell, he'd slap her ass awake and take her to all kinds of pleasant places.  (Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong Aynne - ha ha ha as if....)

Some men actually enjoy a feisty broad in their bed (thank g*d!).

Celeste - LOVE the story.  Thanks for the fun and silliness!  I know exactly what you mean.  And it's fun to poke fun at times at the ones we adore. 

best,
sunshine

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RE: Need payback - 12/20/2010 4:36:02 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		He actually enjoys times like this when I wake him up in the middle of the night whining that he's been playing with me in his sleep and he has to do something about it because I can't sleep. I just couldn't face doing it to him when he had just fallen asleep. Lately he's been sleeping horribly.

I also find it terribly amusing that the online sub is telling all of us poor, benighted types who actually live with our man and have for years what is twue.




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