LanceHughes
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Y'ALL, and I mean ALL, missed an important one - - - care and cleaning of toy-bag! Had a sub that loved to lay out the items for a scene. He had some medical training and explained it was like laying out the Drs. instruments for an operation or examination. We did NO medical play, this just helped him get into head space. Also gave me non-verbal clues as to his interests. And totally wonderful to not fumble with "I wonder where the xyz is." Of course, he laid out stuff he knew I liked, and if I told him, "I want to see LMNO out there," it happened. We might use 5 or 6 items out of 20 laid out. And then, after after-care, he was still floating slightly and used "Clean-up this area, boy." to center himself and finish his return to this reality. WHOOEEeee (Excuse me, please. I have to go and take care of something personal that, um ........er, just came up.)
< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 12/22/2010 8:01:38 AM >
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"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes "Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong 10 fluffy points 50 nz points Member: VAA's posse
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