leadership527
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ORIGINAL: RLMK Is the desire to "let go" and really "enjoy" a sub natural? Is it abusive? (I've slipped a couple times, and grabbed/bit much too hard - left some pretty significant bruises.) OK, I consider myself pretty vanilla. But even so, to me sex is a "let go" sort of endeavor. Lots of vanilla folks would be able to laugh about the random scrapes, bites, bruises, and whatnot. I like "letting go" with Carol too, and if one or the other of us has some battle damage tomorrow morning then we tend to combine groaning with laughing about it. Again, we are pretty vanilla... no SM, no bondage, no none of that stuff. But even so, I've got permanent scars from sex. I haven't spent much time worrying about whether they make me deviant in some fashion. I think you'd do better off to ask the bruise-ee about this. But there is nothing inherently abusive, evil, or even abnormal about excessive physicality during sex.
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~Jeff I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael
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