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RE: Can a submissive be trained to be dominant? - 1/10/2011 6:29:45 AM

RCdc

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And I pity anyone who has a partner who is unable to recognize and respect someone's authentic self. But instead demands they become imitations of someone else.

Ah... but you have no idea what I 'feel'... I was intentional with that.

Wow Des... you do patronizing and pity now? You stepping up the ladder run from intentionally misreprestenting peoples words now?
As long as it's out there, you know, it's all cool.

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RE: Can a submissive be trained to be dominant? - 1/10/2011 9:09:47 PM

DarkSteven

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Like I said, I feel for anyone who has a partner who doesn't and won't inspire a person to be anything they put their mind into being.

A Master limiting their s-type because their s-type doesn't like it or thinks that are unable to achieve, is poor management.

Huh? Part of life is choosing options. As a Dom, it's my responsibility to channel my sub into her path. I will choose based upon many things. Obviously, I won't choose for her a path she cannot win at, but implying that she should take a path just because it's there is odd.

She'll develop based on what I need, what I feel would be good for her, and what I think is realistic.

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