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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/7/2006 11:31:00 PM   
chainedupnick


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Maybe there was a miscommunication in the OP's problem?

While it is kinda harsh for anyone to start flaming people as a group, i understand at least a little bit.. i'm still learning how to behave, both as an adult and as a submissive and i've made mistakes and done and said things i've come to regret 

Probably the best way to handle people who flame is to try to get more information or offering advice (as many posters did). Flaming right back doesn't accomplish anything, except maybe tarnishing one or both parties' reputations. Course then again flaming in the first place doesn't accomplish anything either, *shrugs*

Anywho i hope the OP learns how to trust people and finds someone he's compatible with.

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/8/2006 5:42:56 AM   
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John Steed had his Emma Peel - you, as a Dom, are about as steel as new born kitten. Grow up and find a sub that is a doormat, that seems to be what you really want. 

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 1:03:54 AM   
CERCKL


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quote:

Why am I talking like Donald Rumsfeld? Damned if I know.



Let out your inner elder statesman...that's right, just let him out...there, now don't you feel better?

LMFAO

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 1:07:59 AM   
CERCKL


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quote:

Yes my panties are soo wet for him too YUMMY!...oh wait!...panties are only wet due to incontinence from laughter after reading his rant!!...never mind.......Tempting



That is too funny, than you for not letting me read your post when I was drinking coffee.


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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 1:29:27 AM   
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ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Yes my panties are soo wet for him too YUMMY!...oh wait!...panties are only wet due to incontinence from laughter after reading his rant!!...never mind.......Tempting


Um... those weren’t your panties. Your panties are still hanging on my ceiling fan.

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 7:39:25 AM   
zebra


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He'd get some points -- not too many, but some -- if he came back and dealt with the results of his rant. As a sub, I have to say that the kind of weaknesses he's displaying say a lot about why a sub wouldn't want to attach to him in any way.

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 9:26:29 AM   
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I never know what to make of these threads, other than perhaps we should ask the moderators to make a board specifically for them.
 
About two weeks ago I saw one of these rants and tried sending some information offline about the local groups in Houston. I even offered, if he didn't want to talk with a girl, to have a local guy friend contact him. I mean, give me a break ... you have to actually intentionally set out to avoid it ... to not be able to find someone to kink with, in the Houston area.
 
What I got back was a a bunch of excuses on why none of that would work, and that he would just stick to his dehumanized puppy girls. Alrightly then ...

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 9:42:14 AM   
TigerLily23


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Ouch!!! I am honest with my Master...if I were less than honest, or relationship wouldn't work.  But I must say, he provides me with a non-threatening environment in which I can be completely honest with him (especially since that is what he expects of me...from me) without fear of reprisal...but if this were not the case, and my honesty was a source of 'misguided' punishment, perhaps, I too, would be less than honest.

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 12:24:41 PM   
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You've got to understand that this is a website where not all people can be screened on whether they are real or not, so their will be liars, some who are children, some who are adults.  To group us all into a little pack called "lying child-like subs" would be just wrong, and well, that what you have done.  Which, makes you more of the child, correct?  Grow up and get used to the fact that your outlet to finding someone is the internet, and your grabbing into a mixed bag of lies and unreal people and honest and real people.  Shit happens, don't come whining to us when you can't handle it.  You're not our Dominate, so don't expect us to give 2 shits for you... escpecially when you show such lack of respect for us.  

< Message edited by slavegirl18666 -- 5/9/2006 12:26:07 PM >


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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 8:18:44 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CERCKL

quote:

Yes my panties are soo wet for him too YUMMY!...oh wait!...panties are only wet due to incontinence from laughter after reading his rant!!...never mind.......Tempting



That is too funny, than you for not letting me read your post when I was drinking coffee.


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..DANG..I really wanted to know what turkish coffee felt like coming out of my favorite assholes nose!...humm..my my.that sounded a wee bit kinky!...Tempting

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/9/2006 8:22:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld

quote:

ORIGINAL: TemptingNviceSub

Yes my panties are soo wet for him too YUMMY!...oh wait!...panties are only wet due to incontinence from laughter after reading his rant!!...never mind.......Tempting


Um... those weren’t your panties. Your panties are still hanging on my ceiling fan.
...Grin....welll...sorry I had to borrow a pair of yours!..will return asap...and BTW ummmmm...little red hearts??egads!....Tempting

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/10/2006 12:42:38 AM   
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some people can't handle complete, unabridged honesty. they respond in several ways. Lashing out in anger, shutting down/falling silent, retort sarcastically or simply cry.

you be the judge from the various responses to the variety of OPs in different threads. most of the time, i find that most lash out in anger before placing someone on ignore.


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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/10/2006 10:39:40 PM   
Leslave


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I adsmt my spelljng is hokrible , bht , if yho cjn rsad thfs i wjll be honpst ..
I am ahyays fjr tje unger dhg , bjt yhu shr , I chdt imijine ahyoge bdang undar...

Got this from a study posted in New York Times I do believe . If the first and last letter matches then we are able to decipher the word.....
Also, a study that is as old as the hills clearly state intelligence has little to do with spelling.....

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/10/2006 11:45:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: JohnSteed1967

Is there such thing as an Honest sub? is there any sub anywhere in the world that can act like a responsible adult?


Before looking through the rest of the posts, I have to say that the question smells like sour grapes to me.

And for every post that sounds like this from a "Dom," I've seen just as many, if not more from subs asking the exact same question about Doms.

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/10/2006 11:50:24 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OTKkindaGirl

um..... let me try....

h-o-n-e-s-t-y ...... nope, no typos.... what was the other word....hmmm
c-o-m-m-i-t  :::lookin at ass in mirror::: m-e-n-t!!!!  it's so hard reading backwards!! 



<<<<< volunteers to read Hope's commitment to her anytime she needs it.

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/10/2006 11:57:17 PM   
HarryVanWinkle


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveMomma




lol  i agree we are all liars  


Ain't it the truth?

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RE: Honesty and the submissive - 5/13/2006 8:19:22 AM   
zebra


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He never did come back here to deal with the fallout, did he? What a guy. No wonder subs are lining up to lie to him....

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