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deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:16:47 AM

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I am having trouble deep throating my Master and wondered if anyone has some advice or tips on how to do it as it is something that He really enjoys and I want to be able to please Him

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:24:42 AM

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Try this page. Though for me having him in a chair with his legs spread and me between them makes it easiest.

http://www.rahoorkhuit.net/library/yoga/tantra/techniques/deep_throat_made_easy.html

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:57:43 AM

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thanks i tried that page but it wasn't really much help

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:57:57 AM

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great link, Old Hen! ^_^

i learned how to flex my throat muscles thanks to woodwind playing and singing. if you can think of dropping your draw and then pushing down the back of your tongue, you can start to feel the muscles sort of opening up. it makes it a little easier.
angle matters, too -- many penises are more ovoid, and so it's easier to deal with them straight on rather than trying to do it sideways.
for some, hanging your head over the side of the bed works well, too, because it makes the curve of the throat and possible curve of a penis a bit more compatible.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 8:42:18 AM

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I think the porn industry has driven the idea of throat fucking as their most popular way to crank out movies of new talent.. and although the quality is very good in the sex scenes. the acting is really low quality low budget. any 18 year old they grabbed from the valley to make a porn movie.. POV style.. and although any of these actresses could be taught proper technique they just are not.. and it comes to the consumer as a video byproduct..

Men are more sensative to tongue movements on the top of their cock.. then the deepthroating or gagging on their cock.. If you want to try at first just mastering the tongue roll on top and use your both hands to encase the majority of the shaft of cock for a two handed massage of shaft while concentrating on head of cock. its a very enjoyable technique.. A actress that does this fairly good is.. Aurora Snow. She has done other films where she did throat gagging scenes but also has a few better quality scenes if you look around net for them.

Another much older talent.. Little Oral Annie.. used her tongue to deep throat. by bringing her tongue out of her mouth to take her partner down easier.
www.cherrytv.com/video/deep-throat-techniques (Indy and Katelyn make some good points.. in their little short video. although its just gals talking about it.)
they are basicly talking about Little Oral annie's technique when they are chatting about tongue movements.

Bobbi Bliss another deep throat actress who takes really large cocks and makes them disappear.. I don't know where she puts it all but she does pull it off without gagging.
I think bobbi's secret is that she gets the cock so sloopy wet that it goes down easier.

Ideepthroat.com - Heather - has a number of instructional videos on how to.. and her guy is very well endowed. the interesting and good part about heather. is you can email her from her website.

Mimicing the porn stars who have bad habits (Brandon Irons movies typically have younger porn stars getting throat fucked ) can be a bad idea for novice.. find a few actresses with better techniques to watch..

already been said but the head over the edge of bed and inverted blowjob is probably a easier positioning.. bj without the 69 because its easier to focus on.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 8:49:34 AM

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swallowing lots helps as does the angle. another thing that can help is cloraseptic throat spray it has a numbing aget that can hel. practicing with a dildo will help make it more comfortable as you can control it. as a male a deep throat is not as stimulating as good toung stimolation to the underside of the head as it is the most sensitine spot. i hope this helps you

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 8:50:07 AM

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Various things to try if DT.. isn't working out for you..

Blowing Hot and Cold. Go down on the penis shaft as far as you can with your lips firmly wrapped around it. Open your mouth as wide as you can and suck in as much air as your lungs will hold. While sucking in air, let your open mouth travel up to the penis’s head. Your upstroke motion should end at the head of his penis just as your lungs fill with air. Then, with your mouth still open, let out the air in your lungs slowly through your mouth as your opened mouth travels back down the shaft. This technique cools the penis on the upstroke and warms the penis with your hot breath on the down stroke.

Humming. Suck your man’s penis into your throat, and, while it is deep in, start to hum. It doesn’t matter what you hum. If you find it hard to do with the penis all the way in, start humming as it comes out of your throat, or puff out your cheeks slightly so you can breathe. The vibrations of your tongue, throat, and tonsils when you hum will drive him crazy.

Traveling Figure 8. After you have become accustomed to taking his penis deep into your throat, try this action. With your lips firmly wrapped around the shaft, very slowly go down to the base. Your nose should be buried in, or at least touching, the pubic hairs at the base of the penis. Next, with your nose, trace a figure 8 as if the “8″ were lying on its side, making your figure 8 motion about 3-4 inches long. Slowly travel up the shaft of the penis to the head while doing the figure eight motion. Keep doing this motion while your lips firmly travel up and down the shaft.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 11:23:14 AM

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in reply to zero69u2 I wish to be able to deep throat my Master not find an alternative

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 12:19:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: oxsub70

thanks i tried that page but it wasn't really much help

OP, there are bunches of old threads that talk of technique, have websites on how to, etc if you would just go to the SEARCH button in the top right of the page and type in deepthraot, throatfucking, etc in the topic line.................

good luck...lots of advice there.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 1:39:44 PM

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he needs to get a firmer grip on your head, problem solved

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 6:06:44 PM

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I submissive I was helping asked me something similar. I suggested Sucrets, which numb the throat, but not make that odd burny feeling that chloroseptic can cause to the penis/

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 6:16:58 PM

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Stop breathing. Who said subs were allowed to breathe?

lol jokin

try relaxin' more.

I found that if I didn't 'enjoy' the person or their man-meat, I tensed up. If I did, I can cock-gobble like no tomorrow (even if he is huge).

Maybe you don't enjoy his cock?..or ya not used to it yet? Not accusin', just a theory.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 6:38:00 PM

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for some, hanging your head over the side of the bed works well, too, because it makes the curve of the throat and possible curve of a penis a bit more compatible.

This worked best for me in the beginning. As i started trusting the man, and my own ability, it was easier to work it deeper while kneeling between his legs.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 6:40:20 PM

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i actually had throat surgery and i must say it comes in handy sometimes.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 6:43:33 PM

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i actually had throat surgery and i must say it comes in handy sometimes.

If that's not dedication to a cause, I don't know what is.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:17:59 PM

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I find two things work:

a. being really into the guy
b. having him grab my hair and forcibly shove it down my throat

Usually works wonders.

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:20:26 PM

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While it's great that you want to do this for your Master and are looking for new things to try and make it possible, not all women (or men) can deep throat.

I'm one that physically can't, regardless of technique, trust, etc, unless the D in question is into receiving Roman showers

. A former D of mine was completely convinced that every woman could do this if she really wanted to, and I came away from each of his attempts to 'teach' me feeling like crap for not being able to do what he wanted... not to mention sick to my stomach from the gagging. I have known other subs who simply can't deep throat, and many of them, like me, used to beat themselves up over it because they thought they just weren't trying hard enough or doing it 'right'.

That said, my point is not to discourage you from trying, merely to say that there's nothing wrong with you if it turns out that you can't.
Good luck!

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:24:20 PM

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I find two things work:

a. being really into the guy
b. having him grab my hair and forcibly shove it down my throat

Usually works wonders.

Halleluiah!

You went there, and on behalf of doms everywhere, I'm damn glad you did :)

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:28:48 PM

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A former D of mine was completely convinced that every woman could do this if she really wanted to, and I came away from each of his attempts to 'teach' me feeling like crap for not being able to do what he wanted

That said, my point is not to discourage you from trying, merely to say that there's nothing wrong with you if it turns out that you can't.

Fair point.

I also think it's actually not that big a deal. I mean, don't get me wrong, Halleluiah and all that, but it's not a big enough deal that I would ever stop seeing someone I liked coz they couldn't, or keep seeing someone I didn't, just coz they could.

Non-swallowing, however, is a deal breaker. In a world gone mad, can we all at least agree on that?

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RE: deep throat - 1/22/2011 7:33:21 PM

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Non-swallowing, however, is a deal breaker. In a world gone mad, can we all at least agree on that?

It is unladylike to spit... unless told to, anyway

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