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LadyPact -> RE: Why are sub dudes such pussies? (1/30/2011 3:38:01 PM)
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ORIGINAL: StuntmanMike
So you are proclaiming your sub man to be a pussy? Am I reading this statement right? The thread was originally asking a question about why sub men seem to be such pussies. Here you are saying (and I quote) "one of those submissive men happens to be owned by me." Are you saying, then, that your man is a pussy?
No, that's actually why I'm here. The original literally said, "But there's something about sub dudes that makes them whiny pussies and I want to know what it is." It didn't say most and it didn't say just on the internet. That leaves lumping all sub men together.
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But it doesn't mean he didn't, either.
I'll let the OP tend to that. Only he knows his motivations.
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You could indeed do the same thing. But a secure person would reply "No. I am an asshole, but I'm not prejudiced." And then the matter is resolved. I would not, however, come back with an irrational reaction, attacking your question as a direct insult to my character.
Well, at least I do know where you stand now. Be proud in your assholery. Good move.
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Ok. But how many numerous threads have you seen where a self-proclaimed sub male comes here to grovel and beg and then complain that he can't find a domme? I've seen TONS. And I see it in chat rooms a lot. Come to think of it, I've even been to parties where a sub male slinked his way up to a pair of seemingly dominant women and asked if they needed a footstool. Two people he'd never met before and his opener was "do you need a footstool?"
Since you don't know Me well, I'll give you some background. I have very little concern for what people whine about on the internet. I think the chat room gig is a waste of time unless a person is using it to make arrangements for real life.
The footstool thing wouldn't bother Me in the least. When I go to the club, I go to play and that means several hours on My feet in boots. You're darn right I'll put My feet up on somebody if they offer to be My footstool. It's way easier on the arches.
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Everyone's experiences are different. Perhaps the OP has just seen way too many of the groveling types. How are we to know? My point is, he did *not* come here and say "LadyPact's sub man is a pussy." So therefore, you are being offended by what you read into the question he asked.
Which part of Me asking for clarification earlier in this thread is difficult for you?
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In the times when I have been in a relationship, sometimes my girl and I would chat online simultaneously. If someone directly attacked her, I'd stick up for her. If they didn't say anything directly about her, I'd simply let it go. Hell, often times when someone try and insult her, she did a handy job of putting them in their place without my assistance. Sometimes I'd get a private message saying "Your girl is poorly trained and isn't a real submissive." I'd just smile and say "Oh, she's only like that with jackass trolls who try and act self-important with her. I've never had that problem....must just be you." And then I'd click the lovely ignore button and be done with it. All the while she and I would laugh our asses off.
If My boy was on the thread, your comparison might have meaning. He's not. I am.
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There are many reasons in this world to get riled up if we are looking to be riled up. We don't have to invent them ourselves.
There's another part to this, too, that hasn't quite been explored. The OP has clarified his original post to say that he notices this behavior in sub males not in dynamics. This leads to another question. The fact is that sub males who are owned today, at some point were not. They are still the same sub men, just a different status. I wonder how that works out in the mind of the OP.
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