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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 10:53:12 AM   
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we have a budding romance between tazzy and icarys


I think she may be sweet on me.



Stop thinking. Its not what you are good at.

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 10:57:26 AM   
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Stop thinking. Its not what you are good at.

I thought you were gone?

I'm not sure how we'll make it through the day tazzy without you guiding us all. Please do come back soon!


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 11:00:14 AM   
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Ah, once again you misunderstand the written english language.

lol

And im sure you do need guidance... lots of it in fact.

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 11:23:46 AM   
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Ah, once again you misunderstand the written english language.

lol

And im sure you do need guidance... lots of it in fact.

Please do come and help me. I would most assuredly benefit from someone like you showing me how to get by..I mean I'm not sure how I've managed running a business as long as I have, eating, conversing, dating and a whole host of other things that you no doubt do better than anyone else..I mean if you would so share your multitude of information..I'm sure I and the rest of the world would benefit greatly.

I understand you fine..I see that you have a problem when someone pushes you in a corner and these diversionary tactics are your defense. That and the trying your best to save face by telling people "I don't do homework" and bailing out when you're at your wits end and feel like a little mud is or will be on that face if you stay.

I'm just somebody who's been blessed with an eye for such things. I should place that on the "Thank you" thread because I am grateful for it.


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 11:39:57 AM   
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Someone not necessarily understanding possibilities, such as transmitting diseases is not something I would equal with ignorance.


Greetings Phoenixpower,

The gentlemen is unaware of the ramifications of his behavior and is therefore ignorant of the alternatives he can undertake to prevent self harm. I don't know what you gleaned from that statement since the definition of the word is in line with its use in the sentence.


still doesn't mean ignorance to me. Unaware I agree, ignorance is IMO a way too strong word for his situation.
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Apart from that it wasn't stated that he sleeps arount, does it? Yes, it was mentioned that he doesn't understand health impacts, but that itself does not equal fucking around.



Once again it would appear your comment is not in reference to my previous response. I have not suggested that the individual is promiscuous at all. And although he's living in a residential environment it isn't uncommon for residents to engage.



Having worked in residential environments for over 10 years I am pretty well aware of the fact htat the residents do engage, and thank goodness they do. Hence why I see the judges response as way out of the window as my focus always was and will be to support the vulnerable adult in his position. I know how some of the folks I worked with would be devastated if anyone would dare to imply to forbid to them to do so. As it was said before by someone else who are we to take away basic instincts. If I would be working with him, from the little bit of facts we do know, I would support Alan to appeal against that decision.

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Well said, reminds me on a previous doctor who ignored my immense pain caused due to having fibromyalgia, with dismissing it that the pain would be weight related which quite frankly, wasn't the case, as I know now thanks to a different doctor


I'm glad to hear you've found a good physician. The weight was not the cause of your pain but a contributing factor because Fibromyaligia episodes typically limit mobility and the excess weight is taxing on the joints. I had pain in all twenty-one positions along with a severe case of CFS but I've been in remission for years. Losing weight eliminated most symptoms and a change in diet got rid of the rest. I hope you're in better health. It can be a debilitating disease to deal with.

Namaste,

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Nice try but you are wrong. Fibromyalgia causes many and very different symptoms to different people and believe it or not my joints are perfectly fine. I have my symptoms since I was about 10 years old, despite a very healthy diet (and I am grateful that parents as well as greatparents cooked very healthy meals with a lot of fruits and vegetables stemming from their own gardens). I was slim until I was 20 years old as I did sports 4-6 evenings per week, I just havent had a name for it as for me it was normal to be in pain about 300 days per year and only needed the GP about it in the last years, as the symptoms worsened massively in the last 3 years due to lack of sleep (due to working like mad over here to try to cover my costs despite studying) and way too much stress in my life with juggling uni, placement and work demands. And therefore as going to bed became a nightmare due to the pain which I could not explain, was the only reason I went to the GP.

The pain worsened as my muscles turned stiff during the night, causing my whole body to turn stiff as I did not manage anymore to "switch off". Now that uni is over I am able to improve it again, but quite frankly it had nothing to do with my joints which I had explained that incompetent doc with highlighting the pain in my upper arms as well. Apart from that knowing what the condition is also enabled me to avoid factors which trigger it, such as bothering to argue with someone who is keen on arguing when s/he iisnt worth it and to ensure I am wrapped up warm enough outside as cold itself triggers it already.

So quite frankly that GPs assessment was way off the border, as a size 16 which I was at that time is a few kg too much but not extreme over the limit, which would have justified his view, so it was quite frankly bullshit. And despite weight it doesn't justify him not even looking for the reasons which causes it as simply weight alone doesn't reduce the symptoms with fibromyalgia, at least not in my case.

Last but not least fms can limit mobililty, however some people are taken more over from this condition than others and I think that if you get it at an older age then you are at higher risk to get depressed from it and reduce your mobility further with avoiding it then when you simply are used to the pain from a kids age onwards, as kids do handle it differently than adults; I always used to nikname phantom pain (meaning that I would have a phantom in my body moving around with always causing pain at other parts of the body. Apart from that I don't call it episode as I never really have rest from it unless I take medication.

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 11:44:10 AM   
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This is only one of the things that bothers me about the case.

A psychiatrist involved in the case even tried to prevent the man being given sex education, on the grounds that it would leave him "confused."
Read more: http://www.montrealgazette.com/life/with+judge+rules/4231131/story.html#ixzz1DUDgT56G

They seem all too willing to do what they think is necessary without actually trying anything else.

It makes me wonder what angle a psychiatrist would have for not wanting to at least try this avenue before writing the guy off.



Well said, from Icarys

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 11:46:40 AM   
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Well said, from Icarys

I'm not sure I understand that!

Jokes aside..Thanks!


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 11:54:21 AM   
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this is another long thread about something that has little information to discuss

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:02:54 PM   
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this is another long thread about something that has little information to discuss

Assuredly, yet most of the topics on this board are that way and hell most of life is that way. There are definitely telling tidbits in the little we have. Well, that's if the report is accurate as well.

How's the lady?

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:04:02 PM   
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lady?

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:06:18 PM   
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lady?

The one in the picture. It is a female, no? I could have sworn I've seen you refer to your pet as a Domme?


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:12:06 PM   
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my Domme Miss Cillie goose

I have to go get more grapes shortly

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:15:35 PM   
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my Domme Miss Cillie goose

I have to go get more grapes shortly

If you wouldn't mind giving her one for me..It would be appreciated. She's very pretty.


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:24:26 PM   
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If you wouldn't mind giving her one for me..</snip>



Oh my....

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:26:05 PM   
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Oh my....




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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:27:36 PM   
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my Domme Miss Cillie goose

I have to go get more grapes shortly

If you wouldn't mind giving her one for me..It would be appreciated. She's very pretty.



sorry, I don't share my domme


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:27:55 PM   
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Oh my....





What? I'm a sluttypervette. So sue me...

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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:43:19 PM   
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What? I'm a sluttypervette. So sue me...

I suppose you all can't be entirely as wholesome as I am. I forgive you though!


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 12:44:28 PM   
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sorry, I don't share my domme

I can appreciate that.


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RE: Illegal to consent to sex? - 2/9/2011 1:13:26 PM   
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What? I'm a sluttypervette. So sue me...

I suppose you all can't be entirely as wholesome as I am. I forgive you though!



I bow to your wholesomeness, as always.


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