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waitin4Mrright -> what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 5:27:23 PM)

is it the amount of time they havein the lifestyle? Is it the postion they take with the subs and slaves they are with? It seems like everyone has their own thoughts about what a true "MASTER" "DOM" is...[sm=axe.gif]




StrongSpirit -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 6:22:04 PM)

What makes someone a true master?

The arrogance to think that only their one specific kink is 'real' - and the willingness to tell everyone.

What makes someone a master I respect? Years of experience combined with enough modesty to learn from anyone - even a novice.




littlewonder -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 6:23:07 PM)

being with a true sub/slave of course




OsideGirl -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 7:03:23 PM)

A certificate from the "True Master University" of course. 




LillyBoPeep -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 7:09:07 PM)

reading and digesting every bit of information at submissivewomensecrets.com =p

haha

on a serious note, discussions of "twueness" generally put people off. there is no one definition of "true" -- someone who is fake to you could be the most real thing in the world to another person. what's important is to find someone who you can really believe in, honestly.




SailingBum -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 7:24:31 PM)

last time i checked I'm true checks pulse

BadOne




DarkSteven -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 8:23:51 PM)

Good character.  Holding true to his word.  Being big enough to care for himself and for another.

Technical expertise in whips, bondage, etc. doesn't hurt.




Nanako -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 8:27:19 PM)

1. Common sense
2. Being dominant to some degree
3. Not caring what others tell him a true master should be




tazzygirl -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 8:49:56 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: waitin4Mrright

is it the amount of time they havein the lifestyle? Is it the postion they take with the subs and slaves they are with? It seems like everyone has their own thoughts about what a true "MASTER" "DOM" is...



What is a true Master

What is a true submissive

What is a true slave

To be honest, a couple decides between them what is true... and says to hell with the rest of the world.




thishereboi -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 9:28:02 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: waitin4Mrright
Question:
is it the amount of time they havein the lifestyle? Is it the postion they take with the subs and slaves they are with?

Answer:
It seems like everyone has their own thoughts about what a true "MASTER" "DOM" is...[sm=axe.gif]





BurntKitty -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 9:38:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

A certificate from the "True Master University" of course. 


Located in the sekret Yurpeen houses, too.



quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Technical expertise in whips, bondage, etc. doesn't hurt.


Well, not when you're holding said whip. But speaking as one who enjoys being on the receiving end of the whip, it's 'sposed to hurt.
[sm=crop.gif]




maybemaybenot -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 10:41:12 PM)

FR:

Beats the snot out of me.... Heck I haven't seen a true master round these parts since Hector was a pup.

mbmbn




myotherself -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 10:46:06 PM)

(For my purposes) he has to have the same name and appearance and attitude as MY Master.

All you others are fakes [8D]

Seriously though, he or she has to have the attributes that make THEIR partner believe that they are a Master.




BKSir -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 10:46:09 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep

reading and digesting every bit of information at submissivewomensecrets.com =p

haha

on a serious note, discussions of "twueness" generally put people off. there is no one definition of "true" -- someone who is fake to you could be the most real thing in the world to another person. what's important is to find someone who you can really believe in, honestly.




Actually, with how the OP phrased her question, I kind of like this thread. I was originally coming here to look upon the horror before bed, but now I think I'll have to keep an eye on this one. The way it was asked leads to some interesting philosophical debate and introspection I believe. For the moment though, too tired to type out my thoughts, and have to be in to work 4 hours early for some god awful meeting...




waitin4Mrright -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 11:15:33 PM)

I was asking this question to see the different opinions that people would give.. I really don't know the answer to this question but to me if I can find someone I'm truly wanting to be with I will slowly submit to him and his needs.. I dont fully submit until I have the love and desire to submit.. I just don't do that with anyone or everyone.. I think my submitting to the man is my gift and showing him how much i love him and want to be with him... Regardless of the amount of training or the amount of knowledge he has a "DOM" or "MASTER"... [sm=waves.gif]




IronBear -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 11:20:39 PM)

Besides what Dark Steven said, I would add all those things which are the mark of a MAN: Honour, Integrity, Courage, Honesty, Strength of character, A man who will draw the line in the sand for what he believes and defend it to the death if needs be. He has compassion, He is not afraid to admit his mistakes and learn by them. He is willing to and desires to learn as he knows no one person knows all there is to know about Kink and BDSM. He is willing to teach, mentor and encourage those who are new in this lifestyle. He doesn't crusade against those with whom he disagrees. He is happy to stand aside and say this is not my kink.




62704 -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/16/2011 11:25:38 PM)

He makes the decisions. He has convinced someone to let him make the decisions.

The rest is individual.




phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/17/2011 12:18:26 AM)

someone whos mastered themselves, calm, his dominance is part of him and he doesn't have to force it, honesty, there is more but this for starters




GreedyTop -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/17/2011 12:24:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: waitin4Mrright

I was asking this question to see the different opinions that people would give.. I really don't know the answer to this question but to me if I can find someone I'm truly wanting to be with I will slowly submit to him and his needs.. I dont fully submit until I have the love and desire to submit.. I just don't do that with anyone or everyone.. I think my submitting to the man is my gift and showing him how much i love him and want to be with him... Regardless of the amount of training or the amount of knowledge he has a "DOM" or "MASTER"... [sm=waves.gif]


I think this is the perfect answer :)




BlackTigerDragon -> RE: what makes someone a true master? (2/17/2011 2:15:30 AM)

M/maybe I/its T/the A/ability T/to T/talk L/like T/this ?/?




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