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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 3:46:41 AM

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I was asking this question to see the different opinions that people would give.. I really don't know the answer to this question but to me if I can find someone I'm truly wanting to be with I will slowly submit to him and his needs.. I dont fully submit until I have the love and desire to submit.. I just don't do that with anyone or everyone.. I think my submitting to the man is my gift and showing him how much i love him and want to be with him... Regardless of the amount of training or the amount of knowledge he has a "DOM" or "MASTER"...

I think this is the perfect answer :)

i agree ^_^

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 7:15:57 AM

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 9:37:49 AM

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Do you mean I didn't have to send in my $49.99 for a super secret domly dome decoder ring?

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 9:41:31 AM

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49.99? a bargain, at twice the price!!

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 11:48:53 AM

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It seems like everyone has their own thoughts about what a true "MASTER" "DOM" is...

correct

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 11:56:28 AM

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I think in time you will find your own definition of what makes a 'great' master for you. I do know that years in any lifestyle doesn't give them a Master's Degree. Some are still little boys pounding on their chest..I am Master:)

For me it is when a person is not domineering, and having to prove to the world they are this or that. There is an aura around them, that does not need to draw attention to themselves. They are happy with who they are and have learned to master their own life. In my opinion, the same would hold for a Female Dom.

For me, i am just trying to 'master' being a submissive....or be the best i can be.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 12:23:01 PM

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Whether or not you're compatible with him.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 1:03:47 PM

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I'm sure by now I'm the 900th person to say this but, "there is no such thing." I am a "true master" for Carol because I'm the kind of guy she loves, respects and submits to. I would not be a "true master" to a gorean kajira for any number of reasons.

Lesson 1: Get rid of the word "true"
Lesson 2: Get rid of the word "master" and all the other BDSM labels.

Right about then you'll be starting to figure things out. It sadly took me 2.5 years to get there.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 2:12:59 PM

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if she thinks he's a true master, he's a true master

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 2:17:33 PM

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Honour, Integrity, Courage, Honesty, Strength of character, who will draw the line in the sand for what they believe and defend it to the death if need be. has compassion, is not afraid to admit mistakes and learn by them, desires to learn as they know no one person knows all there is to know, willing to teach, mentor and encourage.
Yup, all this, plus I make strong men shiver, kneel and call me Master.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 2:43:58 PM

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I can't believe y'all have already forgotten the leather, chrome, and domly chair!

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 2:46:45 PM

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I can't believe y'all have already forgotten the leather, chrome, and domly chair!

*palms face* Man! HOW could I have forgotten THAT?

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 2:58:55 PM

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Lesson 1: Get rid of the word "true"
Lesson 2: Get rid of the word "master" and all the other BDSM labels.

Right about then you'll be starting to figure things out. It sadly took me 2.5 years to get there.

It took me a little bit longer..k..maybe more than a little bit. But I got it now!:)

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 7:20:38 PM

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Besides what Dark Steven said, I would add all those things which are the mark of a MAN: Honour, Integrity, Courage, Honesty, Strength of character, A man who will draw the line in the sand for what he believes and defend it to the death if needs be. He has compassion, He is not afraid to admit his mistakes and learn by them. He is willing to and desires to learn as he knows no one person knows all there is to know about Kink and BDSM. He is willing to teach, mentor and encourage those who are new in this lifestyle. He doesn't crusade against those with whom he disagrees. He is happy to stand aside and say this is not my kink.

This is my view of what a master should be and if it's true to form I'm proud to say I'm on my way. I am new to this and very willing to learn from all. I've made many mistakes mainly not embracing the honor of being a Dom and realizing I had subs in my past. I'm now ready to take the responsibility head on and the next sub/slave that I encounter will be with a more confident man. Thanks for your post.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 7:25:45 PM

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it's been said over and over now but honestly the labels and all have to go. a relationship always has a Dominant and a submissive and how long it lasts could possibly see a switch in roles. It's 2011 if my calendar is correct and a relationship needs boundaries set and both must respect and trust each other! there's no hand book that says one must be a certain way to be a man or woman. what i think of your relationship doesn't matter at all it's if you are happy with it

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 7:51:29 PM

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REAL TRUE Masters have a certificate from the 'REAL TRUE MASTER ACADEMY'. They proudly display it on all their walls.
If someone does not have this certificate, you can rest assured that they are not real, and not true.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 10:03:26 PM

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REAL TRUE Masters have a certificate from the 'REAL TRUE MASTER ACADEMY'. They proudly display it on all their walls.
If someone does not have this certificate, you can rest assured that they are not real, and not true.

Isn't that the one with a short quiz and five dollar fee?

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 10:45:44 PM

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It helps if you have a snarky avatar too.

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RE: what makes someone a true master? - 2/17/2011 10:49:41 PM