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RE: My crush - 2/20/2011 9:12:10 PM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: Kaliko


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ORIGINAL: MercTech

Remember... if the interest is mutual, it isn't a crush. <grin>

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Really? I guess I thought that's exactly what a crush is...a one way, unknown to anyone other than the sufferer, longing.


Crikes. What's the point of having a crush unless you act on it? Or maybe I just suffer from poor impulse control...
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RE: My crush - 2/20/2011 11:06:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		No, you're not the only one! I crush stupendously on this guy, but he doesn't post that often. Anyway, he doesn't know me, and I'm not a poly. I even have found my dream boy already, you know? it's just that I always crush on people. But yes, I so know what you mean.

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RE: My crush - 2/21/2011 3:49:59 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think there are a lot of reasons people do not act on a crush. The number one is obvious incompatibility. I am poly but if a woman has loudly exclaimed she isn't and never could be.....why bother? If a woman hates being around men.....I live with one so why bother? If a woman has children and isn't local.........kids have a baby daddy making logistics an issue.............why bother? If she lives thousands of miles away and cannot/will not relocate for ANY reason........why bother? If a woman is primarily kink oriented and I am primarily power exchange/service oriented...........why bother? If a woman enjoys an active night life, big city fun, getting involved in a local BDSM community........why bother? If she is hugely allergic to furry creatures, I have too many....but why bother?

I may be one arrogant, I think I am awesome, bossy bitch, but just because I think someone is awesome and the idea of having a thing thing with them gives me the tinglies............I am not so arrogant to assume. being with me is going to be enough for them over the long haul, if we don't fit in some pretty basic ways.

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RE: My crush - 2/21/2011 4:10:54 AM   
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RE: My crush - 2/21/2011 6:17:22 AM   
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RE: My crush - 2/23/2011 1:02:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I think there are a lot of reasons people do not act on a crush. The number one is obvious incompatibility. I am poly but if a woman has loudly exclaimed she isn't and never could be.....why bother? If a woman hates being around men.....I live with one so why bother? If a woman has children and isn't local.........kids have a baby daddy making logistics an issue.............why bother? If she lives thousands of miles away and cannot/will not relocate for ANY reason........why bother? If a woman is primarily kink oriented and I am primarily power exchange/service oriented...........why bother? If a woman enjoys an active night life, big city fun, getting involved in a local BDSM community........why bother? If she is hugely allergic to furry creatures, I have too many....but why bother?

I may be one arrogant, I think I am awesome, bossy bitch, but just because I think someone is awesome and the idea of having a thing thing with them gives me the tinglies............I am not so arrogant to assume. being with me is going to be enough for them over the long haul, if we don't fit in some pretty basic ways.



Pretty much what LT said (apart from the bossy bitch bit).

I think of "crush" as having two interpretations - one is an overwhelming, often immature, open desire for someone; the other is a strong but secret desire. I have the second sort of crush for a few girls here but I do nothing, mainly for the LT reasons.

Of course I have the first sort of crush for a stack of CM girls; but none of them seems to want to sleep with me. It's a cruel world.











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RE: My crush - 2/23/2011 4:20:56 AM   
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RE: My crush - 2/23/2011 10:19:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sundowner
... none of them seems to want to sleep with me. It's a cruel world.

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

<---has a crush on Sundowner but there is a pond between us




You are so one of the girls on whom I have a secret crush (in spite of your height deformity). Does your comment suggest that the world is not actually cruel?




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RE: My crush - 2/23/2011 11:17:55 AM   
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RE: My crush - 2/23/2011 1:51:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

<---has a crush on Sundowner but there is a pond between us


*Eyes his odd lil avatar suspiciously*

Yep, tha pond is a big problem.
SLURP!


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RE: My crush - 2/23/2011 10:59:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

I've come to the realization this past year that I do believe I'm poly. :) So, I've updated my profile as such and I can't help but secretly wish that 2 or 3 men from the boards would respond.

They don't live near me, so they wouldn't fit what I'm looking for anyway, but...I am enjoying the fantasy. Am I the only one with a crush on someone on the boards?


Due to the fact of my being monogamous, and due to the fact of my being deeply involved with a submissive lady these days, I am not of the same mind set as before, when I was not involved. However, to this day there is a certain lady who infrequently contributes on the message boards, one who I hold great respect for and fond memories of.

There is another lady who frequents the message boards whom at one time did gain my attention, to the degree that I begin to think of her quite often, and was more than interested in becoming acquainted with her. Although geographical distance hindered our meeting. I did not inform her of my thoughts of her. I chose to remain quiet instead. I do not define my interest as a crush per se. Instead I determine my interest to have been of a different nature, one that successfully gained my all too frequent career focused attention.

The lady I am involved with now flirted with me for a period of time, only to one day gain my attention through sheer persistence. Indeed, she claimed to have had a crush for a long period of time, right in my presence I might add. Interesting how certain people attract to one another, unknowingly at times.

I suppose I am rather unassuming when related to crushes. I must say, a crush reminds me of years past in school days, prior to my university days. I have not thought of myself as crushing on a lady. I have though been rather smitten a time or two, as I am currently with a certain special lady in my daily Life, unexpectedly so.

Take Care!

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RE: My crush - 2/24/2011 1:48:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

<---has a crush on Sundowner but there is a pond between us

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

*cries*




Yes. Holly was referring metaphorically to the Atlantic Ocean, a wide and desolate obstacle and very wet in places.

You, dearest toad, inhabit ponds. Sometimes a stagnant gaseous pool, more often a sunlit oasis of peaceful calm set charmingly in a glade amongst the trees. But even so it is difficult to bring oneself to kiss a toad when it is demonstrably of evil intent and when it keeps croaking that it hates you. 














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RE: My crush - 2/24/2011 4:56:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I hope you're a little less hairy. ;-)



While my pelt is arranged in a generally more pleasing manner for human preferences, not by much.  i'm not from light-haired, fine-haired stock like they show in those beauty magazines. Instead, i am nice to cuddle with on chilly nights.


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RE: My crush - 2/24/2011 5:05:09 PM   
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While my pelt is arranged in a generally more pleasing manner for human preferences, not by much.  i'm not from light-haired, fine-haired stock like they show in those beauty magazines. Instead, i am nice to cuddle with on chilly nights.



Funny that you should mention that... it's kinda chilly tonight.

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RE: My crush - 2/24/2011 5:10:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KMsAngel

do you think we can safely say the creepystalker/vc crush is well and truly over?


That's not a crush, that's a relationship, damnit! That's my SO you're talking about!

It is NOT over. No sirreee. She's too awesome to give up just because of some basement issues.

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RE: My crush - 3/14/2011 7:53:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		Just stopping in to say hello to my crush!


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RE: My crush - 3/14/2011 8:00:36 AM   
Jennislut


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RE: My crush - 3/14/2011 8:26:25 AM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		Yeah, I have a forum crush. But I don't do anything about it, she's way out of my league...hi Pam.

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RE: My crush - 3/14/2011 1:03:03 PM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: poise

Just stopping in to say hello to my crush!


I've got a crush on whoever that is in your avatar pic :)

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RE: My crush - 3/14/2011 1:07:46 PM   
poise


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ORIGINAL: RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: poise

Just stopping in to say hello to my crush!


I've got a crush on whoever that is in your avatar pic :)

Coincidentally, I have always had this thing for those instruments you have on display.
good to see you posting more...hopefully you are cured?

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