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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 8:18:34 AM   
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my Domme Miss Cillie Goos demands grapes


I haz grapes..  Miss Cillie is adorable :)


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my Domme Miss Cillie Goos demands grapes


I haz grapes..  Miss Cillie is adorable :)


get your own Domme Goose, I don't share


What? I cant offer tribute?  Especially since gooses scare me?? sheesh....

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 9:07:30 AM   
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... which in turn reminds me of the old one about Eddie Waring entering an Eddie Waring sound-alike competition ... ... and coming 5th. PS: The above won't make any sense to anyone who isn't a) British and b) over the age of 40, and even then it's not that funny. So why the fuck I bothered I have no idea. I think I'm feeling a little better :)


I'm not British and have never heard of Eddie Waring, but it was still funny!

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 9:09:28 AM   
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get your own Domme Goose, I don't share


Selfish!

Here's my Dom. I wish he would stop making demands at 4 AM.






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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 9:12:33 AM   
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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 9:19:24 AM   
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I'm not British and have never heard of Eddie Waring


A sports commentator from the 60s and 70s with a peculiar vocal style, oft-imitated, never surpassed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYXsroqcVqA

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 10:14:14 AM   
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That seems to be the myth that gets spread so freely around here.

"Yes please, take all my money. I really get off on bankruptcy."



I've run across a few, unsolicited. Our culture equates money with power - it's not THAT surprising.

Of course, the supply of "tribute Dommes" far exceeds demand, but that's not especially surprising either.


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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 10:20:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		The sad part about this is that while it may be true that 99.9999999999% of all the female domme profiles over on the other side are pro-dommes, I would not know that and I never will. I sit here on these boards and I talk to lots of fine women who are very clearly seeking to build or enhance relationships rather than businesses. If I was a male sub, why would it matter to me that there's a large segment of the profiles which aren't applicable to me? I only need the one which is.

And, how is this any different than my problem as a male dom? I mean seriously, do we presume that just because someone is female and ticked off the "Slave" box that they are somehow compatible with me? Just from a dynamic perspective and before we even get into any of hugely complex interpersonal chemistry questions, I'd guess that no more than 2:100 would be compatible with me.

But... you know.... despite both those things, it is apparently fun to whine about this... along with it's counterpart whine... why are there no true male subs?

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 10:28:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		For male subs it poses a major problem. First of all, it makes it that much more difficult to find what you are truly looking for, but more importantly, I can only speak from speculation here, but I would sincerely doubt both the authenticity and sincerity of the person I was with if they demand payment. That is provided if I were looking for something more than just sexual gratification of course.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 10:40:00 AM   
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I am not saying there arent any genuine Domme's and mistress' on here, you know who you are, but the scammers outweigh the Dommes thats for sure. It just annoys me that the moderators don't do anything about it.


Greetings,

Let me see if I understand your perspective. You're angry because a few individuals knowingly market themselves as professionals requiring compensation from interested parties. Which allows them to scam newcomers that are unaware that they needn't pay for such? Where were these supposed people raised, in a bush? At what point were they being victimized? Prior to or after their donation? If you're not referencing people with a documented problem with monetary self control, I'd chalk it up to a desire for instant gratification that negatively impacted their wallets.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 10:45:20 AM   
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For male subs it poses a major problem. First of all, it makes it that much more difficult to find what you are truly looking for, but more importantly, I can only speak from speculation here, but I would sincerely doubt both the authenticity and sincerity of the person I was with if they demand payment. That is provided if I were looking for something more than just sexual gratification of course

Please tell me that was a fast reply and not actually a reply to my post which you obviously didn't read.

And, whether or not you read my post, you still need to rethink your position on the one, true way. I personally would assume that someone who demanded payment authentically and sincerely wanted payment. My only question is whether that's something I want.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 10:57:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes it was a response to your post, and I read your post just fine. Arguing from a male sub perspective who is in search of a relationship with a dominant female, the pay-for-play arrangement is speculative, and if said sub is searching for something more than a mere purchased session, but an actual arrangement, having to wade through page after page after page of woman whose primary objective is $, not an arrangement, it would be frustrating. I'm not saying whining about it is a good thing, just that I understand the frustration. I was immediately surprised by the number of "Pro Dom" profiles I found on the site.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 11:05:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SubmissiveSam88

. It just annoys me that the moderators don't do anything about it.

Sorry, just a rant here, had to get it out of me. f**life seems more true, join that.


OUCH! Crap like this twists my panties straight up to an eleven!

Sam, do you realize that the mods are unpaid volunteers? That they give of their time, put up with being put down, argued with, verbally abused and occasionally downright hated so folks like you can come on here and make the post you just did.

If you prefer another site, why are you posting or keeping a profile here?

The prodommes have as much right to be here as you do. They do not hide who they are or what they do. They often provide a service that many use to satisfy their desires in a manner that suits them.

Collarme provides a special place on these forums just so professionals, both dominant and submissive, along with craftsmen and artists can advertise their wares. If you have no desire to view these wares, don't look.

Just because it is not for you does not mean they have no right to pursue their vision of happiness.

I say GOOD JOB and THANK YOU to the mods.

And to the various pros I say good luck in your endeavors

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 11:12:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Then can you perhaps explain why that's any different than my situation? Freakin people. Man.... ALL those damned women marking off that slave box without bothering to check with me first and ensure that they met MY personal expectations of what a slave is. What is WITH people nowadays?

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 11:20:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't realize you were knee deep in people offering to be your slave if you pay them? :D That's the difference here. Not expectations, but what there is to work with. I don't think the OP is complaining about the lack of chemistry or interpersonal dynamics. Chemistry isn't an issue when one party is demanding financial contribution before even considering participation. The point of the OP's complaint is that there are far too many Pro Dom's as opposed to those seeking an arrangement that isn't predicated upon a financial transaction. Again, I'm not saying his point is justified, just that I understand the complaint.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 11:22:35 AM   
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But... you know.... despite both those things, it is apparently fun to whine about this... along with it's counterpart whine... why are there no true male subs?


If I got all my information from reading these boards, I'd think that people looking for femdom/malesub relationship only whine about how they can't find one, and people looking for maledom/femsub relationships only grab the nearest orientation-appropriate person of the opposite gender, and then angst because they aren't compatible.

When I worked in customer service, I used to read a few websites where people posted about crazy customer demands, weirdness, and drama. Along with the funny stuff, I always noticed a subset of people who whined because they were expected to do their jobs. I think that most of what you're seeing is sort of like this - people who haven't quite grasped that finding and maintaining a relationship takes effort.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 11:26:01 AM   
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Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't realize you were knee deep in people offering to be your slave if you pay them? :D That's the difference here. Not expectations, but what there is to work with. I don't think the OP is complaining about the lack of chemistry or interpersonal dynamics. Chemistry isn't an issue when one party is demanding financial contribution before even considering participation. The point of the OP's complaint is that there are far too many Pro Dom's as opposed to those seeking an arrangement that isn't predicated upon a financial transaction. Again, I'm not saying his point is justified, just that I understand the complaint.


The problem is not an excess of Pros, however. (There really aren't all that many, if you only count those who have been online in the past month or so.) The problem is that there simply aren't all that many dominant women on here looking for "an arrangement," particularly not of the type you want. And whining about the presence of Pros won't bring you more non-Pros.


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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 12:22:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's simple really. Not a tribute just wages.

You want a Domme ? Pick me up a Neosteel shemale chastity belt (tools) and some fake boobs (option 01). I will Doom, err I mean Domme you for the unbelievably low rate of $35 per hour. I'll even shave. (my beard and mustache ONLY)

I have no shame when it comes to money. Four hour minimum please.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 12:34:55 PM   
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Ok, I am fairly new to the scene, for a start off, I prefer to meet people in real life, like at a MUNCH etc, but I feel sorry for all of the subs that actually browse for mistress' and Domme's. What the fuck is a tribute!!?? since when have subs had to pay to get humiliated online by someone who is just trying to rinse some cash off them. I was browsing the profiles, as you do, and its almost all Domme's ASKING for money or gifts. WTF! ok, I am all for pleasing a woman, but paying them, when you probably wont even meet them?! Go and get involved in your local scene, where everyone is genuine and its FREE! I am not talking about booking a session with a dominatrix here, thats a different story, fair game, but to con a gullible young sub out of there hard earned cash is an absolute sham. I don't even think that half the people are really the person in the pic anyhow. I am not saying there arent any genuine Domme's and mistress' on here, you know who you are, but the scammers outweigh the Dommes thats for sure. It just annoys me that the moderators don't do anything about it.

Sorry, just a rant here, had to get it out of me. f**life seems more true, join that.

woo hold your horses. I don't ask for tribute. I'm real....so they vamp me and suck the living energy out of me. So now I thinking of charging for that.....


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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 12:36:02 PM   
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Chemistry isn't an issue when one party is demanding financial contribution before even considering participation.


It's not a demand, it's a request which can be refused. Alternatively, one can offer to donate the $25 or so that is requested to a dominants favorite charity and see what the reaction to the offer might be. If a pro is using the excuse that they won't participate until someone proves they are real and they believe $ put where the mouth is proves that, then a donation might very well be acceptable proof and the parties can explore further. If a donation is not acceptable, then chalk it up to incompatible and move along.

I understand how frustrating it can be to go through profile after profile seeking Mz. Right, but you only have to do it once per profile. If someone is asking for something and you are not comfortable with it, simply hide their profile from your view and you will never have to even think of their existance again and you can continue your search while continually narrowing the field of choices until you are down to a manageable level.

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The point of the OP's complaint is that there are far too many Pro Dom's as opposed to those seeking an arrangement that isn't predicated upon a financial transaction.


*Far too many* is subjective. What is too many? What is the proper ratio of pro to non pro? How do you suggest that ratio be shifted to a number more suitable to the submissive mindset and why should a pro dom care about someone who isn't going to give her the tribute she requests anyway?

See the problem with tilting at windmills? Threads are archived so the OP's words will now be available to any dominant who cares to read them and right off the bat can put forth the image of someone who is a bit to dramatic and thereby too much trouble even for non pro's to want to bother with so that the old cliche cutting off your nose to spite your face comes to my mind.

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RE: Are They fucking joking or something? - 2/19/2011 12:54:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: discreethusband

Oh, I'm sorry, I didn't realize you were knee deep in people offering to be your slave if you pay them? :D That's the difference here. Not expectations, but what there is to work with. I don't think the OP is complaining about the lack of chemistry or interpersonal dynamics. Chemistry isn't an issue when one party is demanding financial contribution before even considering participation. The point of the OP's complaint is that there are far too many Pro Dom's as opposed to those seeking an arrangement that isn't predicated upon a financial transaction. Again, I'm not saying his point is justified, just that I understand the complaint.


The problem is not an excess of Pros, however. (There really aren't all that many, if you only count those who have been online in the past month or so.) The problem is that there simply aren't all that many dominant women on here looking for "an arrangement," particularly not of the type you want. And whining about the presence of Pros won't bring you more non-Pros.



strangedesire, if you can figure out discreethusband's desired arrangement, you're doing better than me.  His profile says he's a Dom looking for a sub woman to cheat with, but his posts here seem to indicate that he's a sub looking for a Dominant woman.

Either way, he's not going to be able to offer himself fully in a relationship because that woman will always come way after his wife.


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