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PeonForHer -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (2/21/2011 5:09:48 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Wheldrake
I guess a body part can be powerful in either a passive way or an active way. Passive power involves engendering desire, and even worship, in others. Active power involves moving, exerting pressure (however subtle and delicate) on another person's body, and causing sensations. This is a bit like the distinction between "soft power" and "hard power" in geopolitics, come to think of it.
I don't think many straight men would dispute that a vagina can be passively powerful. Most of us love vaginas and will go to considerable lengths to gain access to them. Vaginas, in a very real sense, can motivate us and control our actions. And that's power.
Vaginas can also be actively powerful. I've (fortunately) never had my dick eaten by a vagina, but it's been engulfed and ridden on occasion. The woman used her vagina to set the pace, give me sensations and of course take her own pleasure, while I lay back and let her vagina have its way with me apart from the occasional gentlemanly counterthrust. And that's power too.
When a woman lies back or bends over to be penetrated, I would say that the penis rather than the vagina is being actively powerful. If she happens to be giving orders and dictating the terms of the interaction, however, the active power of the penis is being pressed into the service of a far higher power, her dominant mind.
Yep, yep . . . and yep. I think the last para clinches it (no pun intended): I should think that the knee-jerk reaction to the question 'If a man's entering a woman in the missionary position, or she's bent over, is this male-dominant sex?' would be 'Yes. Only if she's on top could it be female-dominant'. But the true answer would be: "It depends: whose mind is dominating?".
Wow. Jeez. If she were demanding that I do it on top or behind her, and if she were in control of the 'how much' and the 'for how long'. . . then of course her vagina's using my cock.
And that's immensely horny. I've never actually thought of entering a dominant woman from behind before with the mindset of one serving. But you can be sure I'll be thinking of it now. Heh.
Lockit: your view is vindicated. The mind is the more powerful organ. [;)]
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