Ishtarr -> RE: Does Your Vagina Eat Dick? (4/1/2011 1:09:18 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer 'If a man's entering a woman in the missionary position, or she's bent over, is this male-dominant sex?' would be 'Yes. Only if she's on top could it be female-dominant'. See, I'm generally sexually much more interested in dominant men, but I have been known to switch and have my sadistic side come out, and I feel absolutely opposite to that. I will rarely or never fuck a sub while being on top, because I don't feel especially in control when I'm on top. If anything, I feel like I'm servicing him much more than I'm taking him, because generally speaking the angles and sensations don't work as much for me when I'm on top, and I'm doing all the work, while he's just laying there and enjoying himself. Missionary and doggy are my favorite positions and I feel much more in control in them, especially missionary. In missionary, I have full control over the angle, and positions that his cock massages my cervix, and totally control over his speed by means of my hips and hands. I love to dig my nails into his ass and edge force him to go faster and harder. Or to relentlessly fuck me in a highspeed mode, hitting JUST the right spot, not being allowed to change speed or position, until his legs literally collapse from under him and he lays totally exhausted and helpless while I get "even" with him for stopping without permission. In doggy, it's just a matter of reaching backwards and grabbing his balls, digging my nails in some soft spots and making him torture himself by fucking me at my pace while he hurts himself because of the position of my hand, with every stroke. Again, it gives me total control over the position and angle and allows me to determine the exact sensation I want to achieve. As much as I like being taken by a dominant man, one of the things that frustrate me immensely about them is that they move around too much and ALWAYS seem to shift position at just the wrong time. The reason I feel so much in control with a submissive male, even when he's on top, is because I can control his movement and keep him in the spot *I* want for however long I want. I don't really think of my vagina as "powerful" necessarily, but then again, I don't really think of penises as powerful either. To me, feeling of dominance and control all stem from control over motion, and body parts really don't have anything to do with that. Ishtar
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