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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 3:04:49 AM   
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LonDom61 is interesting in how clear his hate comes across.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 3:52:59 AM   
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actually yes it is a choice. There are many times I am isolated because I simply don't want to be around anyone at all. I go for months at a time making that choice. I have quite a few friends and family. They call and I tell them no I don't want to hang out right now, maybe another time. It's a choice.

All of life is a choice. Get used to it. I'd say you are the one in denial. If you want friends get out there and make friends.


You are making a common enough error where you believe what is true for you is true for everyone.

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ya know I'd say I pity you but I don't. Instead I think you just need therapy but boys like you never seek therapy until they're involuntarily committed. You sound like a guy I know who is committed about every other month.

For the life of me why they keep letting him go is beyond me. I'm thinking it won't be too long for you.


You do pity me. Given what you wrote suggests the possibility that you may be wondering if I was the guy you know. I am not. I do not fit his description.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 3:59:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

The evil that comes as a result of choosing good is an indirect consequence. It happens because evil exists. Evil is a dichotomy. It makes what is good evil and what is evil good. We nonetheless have to find our way through this twisted forest.



There's two types of evil, internal (affecting one's relationship with oneself) and external (affecting relationships between people) and both can be seen to be polar in nature.

Internal evil is symbolized by Ahriman, the positive qualities of such evil being a denial of one's spirituality, a preoccupation with the material, physical, carnal, with obtaining gratification, over-indulgence, sloth, laziness, delusions, self-deception, and wilful ignorance. Negative qualities of such evil include the pursuit of learning and the development of one's intellect, developing one's interest in living, culture, people, technology, developing one's spirituality, and acquiring wisdom and insight.

External evil, that affecting relationships between people, is symbolized by Lucifer, and the positive qualities include delusions of divinity, piousness, arrogance, deceit, dishonesty, hypocrisy, inhumanity, cruelty, bigotry, hatred, incitement of fear and hatred, enmity, aggression and violence. Negative Lucifer qualities include humility, kindness, spirituality, creativity, courage, empathy, compassion, acceptance of others, tolerance, friendship and unconditional love.

Life is the coming together of the spiritual or metaphysical and the physical or natural. Christ, who can be taken to be the central figure of religious thinking understood that living existence can draw people towards both positive poles of evil and his message - advocating individuality and non-conformity in all spiritual and moral thinking - carried a special significance for human evolution which was embraced and adopted by almost all religions.

You see if you take the negative qualities of Ahriman evil, namely the pursuit of learning and the development of one's intellect, developing one's interest in living, culture, people, technology, developing one's spirituality, and acquiring wisdom and insight, and then add the negative Lucifer qualities, namely humility, kindness, spirituality, creativity, courage, empathy, compassion, acceptance of others, tolerance, friendship and unconditional love, you should arrive at the core message of the Gospel, Christ's teachings, and also the basic, fundamental teachings of most other religions.

Furthermore you will gain a basic understanding and insight into human morality. This is basic, so basic you can find such qualities found and expressed in the thoughts, words and actions of almost anyone you come across.

This isn't any battle with dark forces, no personification of Christ, Buddha, or any other figure. No special wisdom or insight has been shared here. I have seen here nothing but narcissism, nothing but a lonely male dom clinging to the past and trying to make it all about him, all the time, and in desperate need of attention.

That attention is here, together with whatever else which can be wished for. But first one needs to step down from that pedestal, overcome one's issues with other people, and make a better attempt at making one's own individual reality something relative to that of other people.

You can find a basic dichotomy in anything you care to think about, and that what is evil, and that what is good, depends on nothing other than your own individual perception.

Rather than trying to force one's own moral and spiritual values on other people (and no, this is not a church) wouldn't it be much better to embrace the same moral and spiritual values yourself and express them through your speech, behaviour and actions, and leave other people to work it out for themselves?




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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 4:33:52 AM   
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One thing is for sure, for a guy out looking for a piece of ass, by however unusual means, this thread seems to be quite trafficked.


I wouldn't worry about the traffic given the herd mentality. You are terrified by the prospect that I might get somewhere. So long as I'm under attack courage would be needed to approach me. Few have courage. The assaults would have to be quashed. Most are furthermore totally into themselves and so they can't see past themselves. As getting a piece of ass is concerned, I don't anticipate that this thread will get me anywhere.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 5:08:20 AM   
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Zoroastrianism is not Christianity though they share some aspects in common. What you wrote is a superficial understanding of the moral universe. It denies the existence of the hall of mirrors.

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... wouldn't it be much better to embrace the same moral and spiritual values yourself and express them through your speech, behaviour and actions, and leave other people to work it out for themselves?


I have a special dispensation from God. I may act in ways that are seemingly contradictory without there being any contradiction. It is not for anyone to work it out for themselves since the problem is too great for mortal man to solve, the grace of God is needed. You cannot do it on your own.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 5:15:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero


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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone.[/font][/size]

The answer is carbon freezing. Anyone who's ever seen The Empire Strikes Back knows this.



HA!

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 5:25:53 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

All this thread made Me think of was that old quote.  "If you can't be a good example, you'll just have to serve as a horrible warning."  



well said

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 5:50:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

What I find interesting about the BDSM community is they seem to regard the status of Dom as a privilege and not a state of being; consequently, males are not born Dom. They are born submissive and become dominant because they are successful at it.

I was born a Dominant male. Whatever suffering I have known in this life was made Holy by the Almighty God. He didn't have to, but He did. I am a Holy Man. Lump it.


*removes the gloves* As a full fledged Priestess in the Old Ways, I feel it is my duty to inform you that you are suffering major MAJOR MAJOR delusions of grandeur claiming familiarity with the Old Ways, and lumping that religion in with Christianity. HOW DARE YOU.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 6:06:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

I am officially in lurve with LonDom61.  In that pure Virgin-Mary-sort-of-way (and we all know what a ho Mary was... "no, momma, no man has ever touched me in the... promised land").

Sigh.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 7:07:13 AM   
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I have a special dispensation from God. I may act in ways that are seemingly contradictory without there being any contradiction. It is not for anyone to work it out for themselves since the problem is too great for mortal man to solve


"I have a special dispensation from God, Your Honor...and you'd understand that if you weren't so pathetically mortal."

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 8:32:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

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actually yes it is a choice. There are many times I am isolated because I simply don't want to be around anyone at all. I go for months at a time making that choice. I have quite a few friends and family. They call and I tell them no I don't want to hang out right now, maybe another time. It's a choice.

All of life is a choice. Get used to it. I'd say you are the one in denial. If you want friends get out there and make friends.


You are making a common enough error where you believe what is true for you is true for everyone.

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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

ya know I'd say I pity you but I don't. Instead I think you just need therapy but boys like you never seek therapy until they're involuntarily committed. You sound like a guy I know who is committed about every other month.

For the life of me why they keep letting him go is beyond me. I'm thinking it won't be too long for you.


You do pity me. Given what you wrote suggests the possibility that you may be wondering if I was the guy you know. I am not. I do not fit his description.


Life is a choice dear...all of it is. It seems you like to play the victim all way too often..."but judge it's not my fault. I had no choice".

And no I wasn't wondering if you are my friend. I said you act just like him and pity is the last thing on earth I'd feel for you. You're not worth that much energy. I save pity for those who are worth it.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 8:39:51 AM   
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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 8:45:01 AM   
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I have a special dispensation from God. I may act in ways that are seemingly contradictory without there being any contradiction. It is not for anyone to work it out for themselves since the problem is too great for mortal man to solve


"I have a special dispensation from God, Your Honor...and you'd understand that if you weren't so pathetically mortal."


Your Honor, I would like to call the ghost that never lies as my next witness... oh, and I am the only once that can hear him.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 8:50:20 AM   
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I haven't bothered to post because the op is so delusional. But when I first joined bondage.com over eight years ago, the op was on there spouting the same stupidities and still whining that no girl would get near him. He is a perfect example of the definition of insanity, doing the same thing over and over again while expecting a different results.

I have a teenaged son, and we know how mule headed they are, and he learns a lot faster that he needs to change to get where he wants to be.


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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 9:01:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I haven't bothered to post because the op is so delusional. But when I first joined bondage.com over eight years ago, the op was on there spouting the same stupidities and still whining that no girl would get near him.



omg - thank you so much Des! I've been wracking my brains for days trying to figure out why this shit seems so familiar!



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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 9:32:08 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I haven't bothered to post because the op is so delusional. But when I first joined bondage.com over eight years ago, the op was on there spouting the same stupidities and still whining that no girl would get near him.



omg - thank you so much Des! I've been wracking my brains for days trying to figure out why this shit seems so familiar!




Further reason why preserving yourself isn't always a good idea. Not to toss Darwinism into the mix, the successful organism isn't the strongest or most intelligent, but the one most able to adapt.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 11:49:49 AM   
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"You are terrified by the prospect that I might get somewhere."

LOL. You can say that again. I've corresponded with Robert Pinkerton. (a handle on a message board and a few other things, doubtful his real name)

He was quite loquacious, and used more wherfores and to wits etc., and didn't shroud his opinions in any supposed spirituality. The correspondence was engaging enough, but to think that more people would be born to write like you or he is actually very threatening. If this contingent of society were allowed to reproduce and grow, we would all have to read thirty six hours a day to become proficient in using a can opener.

Direct and to the point is what makes it. In the words of a character in the movie "Putney Swope" - "A hard johnson has no conscience". They rest is fluff. Window dressing. The people I know who do the best in attracting partners are blunt. I mean in a bar walk right up to the sweetness and say something like " Wanna fuck ? ". Not buy her a drink, all this shit. I realize that this is more of a shotgun approach, but it does seem to work.

Now for an actual relationship, bluntness at the beginning can pay off. What do you like to eat - can she cook it ? You want her to be trustworthy ? - well is she ? What's more is she intelligent enough to be trusted ? Do you require a Christian or would you prefer a heated debate ? Smoking or non smoking ? With all your words people still have no idea what you want or have to offer.

The esoteric composition of statements can be as toxic to true communication as illiteracy. Things are bad enough, we don't need another tower of Babel incident.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 2:03:16 PM   
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Not to toss Darwinism into the mix, the successful organism isn't the strongest or most intelligent, but the one most able to adapt.


The word preserve is related to the word preservation; hence, your comment is silly.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 2:13:10 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM

The word preserve is related to the word preservation; hence, your comment is silly.



Well then, let's go back to the beginning, shall we?


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Let me begin by saying that I am a straight Dominant male. I am also one of the most extraordinary individuals who have ever lived. Yet, I am without a soul mate. Few men could ever claim to be my equal. Yet, I know what it is to be lonely and I have been abused by women. What I am saying is that if you are unloved, I too know what it is to be unloved.

The topic of this thread is how to preserve you for that special someone.


Translation:  The sky is blue, the clouds are white, the air smells clean.  The topic of this thread is yellow shoes.

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RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself - 3/6/2011 2:17:24 PM   
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In reply to DesFIP. My profile doesn't date back that far.

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