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FukinTroll -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/6/2011 6:46:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
Since we are all on topic I thought some of you might be willing to offer help with my profile. How to win over those gorgeous babes apart from providing a photo. With all these penny's I'll have to do something to spruce things up. Few females take interest in a man's profile though. At least that is my impression. So I don't know if there would be a point. Maybe what I really need help with is that infamous form letter that I have yet to write.
Look man, there is little anyone can do to help you. You are so out of touch with reality it is fukin spooky! But, I will give it a go... for what it is worth.
To have a relationship you have to be able to relate. Every thread you make or participate in is inundated with out of touch comments and concepts.
Yes, it may be good that you think you have a poetic gift, but only so much of that shit can be endured before people hang themselves or you... you are the likely subject.
I am very popular here cuz I understand that you cannot have a relationship without the ability to relate. I have a descent relationship with A LOT of people on this site, cuz I relate to them and actually nurture a relationship with them. We live hundreds or thousands of miles a part, but this medium gives me the tools to be invested in them. I do have interests in their day to day, I am invested in their relationships because I want them to be happy and/or get their happy.
So many people on this side are absolutely real people with real lives and your abstract ideas and concepts have no ability to relate to what is going on with them and you are going to have that problem over and over again, because you refuse to pull your head out of your ass and get grounded in the real world, where there are real problems, i.e. medical problems-- send prayers, relationship problems-- send your phone number, kiddo problems-- send support and advice.
It is the same thing on the other side. You want a good girl in your life, you are going to have to show the girls that you are, in fact, from this planet. That you can be responsible for your life and theirs without the need for SHOCK TREATMENT.
I can wade through all the crap you write and what it boils down to is you want a connection. The only way to get that connection is to relate to be people, build a relationship... or pray the rapture hits you quick.
You need to step out of this pseudo-cerebral fiction of yourself and become a person.
YMMV
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