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stellauk -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/7/2011 2:43:09 PM)
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
You are denying that life is mysterious.
I've highlighted this because I feel we're starting off somewhere on common ground. But it's for you to find the will and the courage to read through this posting and address in your own words and thoughts all what is written here.
It's the universal principle of time and space. The present and past is reality, that what can be known, and the future is possibility.
You, like everyone else, are relative to both time and space in the Universe. As each day passes, death is accelerating towards you. There's no way of knowing what will happen at death. No way of finding out.
Thing is however, that all what we believe, Christianity, Buddhism, islam, whatever, it won't mean a hill of beans because I doubt it will be anything like the reality.
But we are here in the here and now, today, you are part of this world, you are among people, and like it or not you have to live on these terms.
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
None of you seem to understand what truth is.
I think in sixteen pages of this thread we have worked out what the truth is, and the truth is is that you are a very lonely man troubled or plagued by demons in your head.
This is the situation isn't it? These demons in your head? These are the thoughts and voices which are communicating to you that you need to preserve yourself when it's pride, that you are chosen when you are actually being pious, and they are giving you your delusions of divinity.
And further...
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
Truth is something you can rely on. You cannot rely on assertions such as this. They are often false. They are only sometimes true. That it is sometimes true doesn't make it true.
You see? These are your words, written by you, coming from your mind.
But actually I don't believe this is actually you, it's the demons, and it's those demons which are driving people away from you, keeping you in your isolation and misery, keeping you in your pain, keeping you in your fears, keeping you in your pride...
..keeping you in the evil which has somehow taken over your mind and soul.
You are trapped within, lonely, frightened, insecure, scared.
There's a French proverb - 'It is easier to lie to others than to stop deceiving yourself.'
And so you have to make up stories and make false claims. Is this not evil? And what is evil, if not good that is twisted and contorted because it feels denied, wronged, denied justice..?
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
The assaults on me have been superficial. Look see, the man with gold, he is wise! So if you are a man with a bitch, surely he is wise too. Your views are materialistic and wishfully so. The primary means by which many of you get sex is by lowering your standards.
See what I mean? You are so focussed on the wrongdoings of others, what you perceive and judge others to be doing wrong, and you see yourself as a victim of all this wrongdoing.
It's those demons again. See how the demons are lying to you? Falsely building you up?
My friend you are not holy, you are not powerful, you haven't even managed to conquer the demons in your head for so many years.
I think you first need to concentrate on saving yourself, saving your own soul and mind, before you think about saving anyone else or anything else.
How many years has this been? And you know the thing is, you remember those years. And another thing is, you are getting older, and closer to death, and there will come a point when you are close to death you can no longer continue living. And you will lie there, and these memories will be coming back to you, every day, every week, every month and every year.
So many opportunities to save yourself, and yet you continued to listen to the demons and believe what they tell you. How much longer? How many more years?
But let me ask you a question. Do you want to be the man with the gold? Do you want to be accepted? Do you want to be loved? I mean really loved, for who you really are?
You are a weak man, vulnerable, and you are hurting. Do you want this to change?
I believe you do. I have faith in you, I really do. Why? You have started to develop your profile.
You have a good mind, I'm sure that within you there is a heart and that you are a good man. I honestly believe that you are worthy of love and being loved.
What's more I also feel that if I reach out and extend my hand to help you, others will too. There are a lot of good people on this website, people who are good, people who are kind, people who are strong, people who are very very supportive.
I believe in such people, just as I believe in you.
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
There is little point in me lowering my standards because even then I wouldn't get it. It is easy to demonstrate that materialism is a dead-end. I do not feel inclined to explain it to all of you. It is in fact obvious. It will never give us what we really want or deserve.
This is where your problem lies. There is no standard. Can you not go back through the pages of this thread and see how people are consistently ridiculing you and seeing you for the fool you are presenting yourself to be?
It all comes back to those demons. It's those demons who are telling you to preserve yourself, not to lower your standards, to save yourself because you are holy, you are the Chosen One.
And every time you are listening to those voices, you are holding yourself back from all that what you need, want and deserve.
I have lived a lot in my life, I have met a great many people in my life, some good, some bad, some wicked, some very kind, but you know, all of them were human, and none were resistant enough to defend themselves against unconditional love.
You are no different. You feel the need to be loved, because isn't this is what it's all about at the end of the day? Nobody loves you, you are alone. Right?
Okay, so tell me, do your demons love you? Do these demons make you happy? Does their love replace the love of a good woman? Ah but you see, you love your demons, and you love them even though they keep you from everything you need, everything you desire, even though they have total control of your mind and soul.
And you know what? All you need to do is to let go of that pride, admit that what you have been saying is wrong, swallow your pride and POOF!!! No more demons. Gone. Forever.
You will have saved yourself.
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ORIGINAL: BenevolentM
I am very different from all of you. Who knows, maybe I'm a star child here to assist mankind. It's a lonely job, but someone has got to do it.
Yes you are very different from everyone here. I don't think anyone has given as much of an audience to the demons in their mind as you have. Star child? Yeah right. And when someone challenges that and sees through it, what are you going to become? A Klingon? A Martian?
Elvis Presley perhaps?
I just see you for what you are and represent, a lonely, sad, bitter, weak man who's clinging to the past too much, who has a few delusions.
But you know through all of this, and all of your words I see a man who is intelligent, kind, spiritual, and one if he can just dispel those demons and regain control of his mind and soul might just be able to take on the world and win the heart of his beloved.
So what is it going to be?
More denial, more delusions, and more 'playing Jesus/Buddha' mindgames and more time spent leading a miserable, lonely, unfulfilling existence?
Or are you going to let go of the pride, the delusions, the arrogance, and come back into the real world, become a part of our community, and find the friendship, support, and love that deep down you know you really need?
What is it going to be? Can you save yourself?
i'm not attacking you, but pointing out what I perceive to be the truth. I'm not prepared to dismiss you, but to show compassion and friendship.
Can you do this for yourself? Can you?
We'll see.
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