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Termyn8or -> RE: A Guide for Dominant Men: How to Preserve Yourself (3/2/2011 6:42:54 PM)
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Seem to regard eh ? I try not to be too critical, but I must callem as I seeum.
It seems that you have static on both the transmitting and recieving end of the stick here. It is a priveledge to be in a relatioship with anyone, and when it is not you go or send them away. I wonder what you do for a living, one possibility is televangelist, but I am not putting my foot into that one.
You came into this forum with a demeanor that is like that of one applying for a job. What job I don't know. But blowing one's own horn in that fashion is is indicative of salesmanship. That can only mean a few things.
At the root of all those things is a need for acceptance, but you don't seem to enbrace the egalitarian nature of this forum. What everyone does when they get home is different. You are seeking a more universal acceptance, and on a higher level than others. You have not used the word "mutual" to my knowledge, you have not expressed that love is, and anything that is not mutual is not love, and in that case all you can hope for is infatuation. A fine way to go if you can pull it off.
However what you don't realize, even if you are somehow exhalted and held in the highest of esteem by a mate, it wears off. If you are so great, they learn. Perhaps they do not become equal, but don't bet against it. We are all born with a certain mental capacity and I think that CMers are a bit above the norm. However this varies by specie, the particular specie might be salesmanship, at which which you surely do not excel. At least in this paradigm. What is it that makes you holy ?
And what is it that makes you think that others aren't ? You own words express that, because if you thought that everyone was holy, you would not bother to mention it. The only logical conclusion is then that your opinion is that you are indeed "holier than thou". To what other conclusion can a sane, logical and intelligent person come ? You tell me. What words could you possibly come up with that do not express the holier than thou attitude given all that's been said ? You have painted yourself into a corner in a way.
Now comes the question of what it is that makes you so special, so superior ? You're not too bad at the English language, but I see nothing exceptional. How about some of your accomplishments ? Without hubris, I can claim to be one of the best at what I do, and that is supported by others, employer and ex employers. I can literally get away with almost anything. I have not been fired since about 1986, but have resigned many times. I am always welcome back, and I have the references to prove it.
I have my own house, which my Father and I paid for, It was not obtained by some flimflam mortgage bullshit and I am as proud of that as I am my status in my field. I am also proud of things I have obtained without paying for them. I am also proud of the fact that all my friends, if they bring new people to me, they tell them not to get on my bad side. Is this a threat because I have the capacity to look my own family members in the eye and blow their head off ? Not completely, a big part of that is that they know that I am good person to know, to have on your side. I am proud of that.
I am secure in my Manhood, my personhood and my will. I am content with my morality which I do consider superior to that of most, and I am proud of that. as well as the fact that I can usually make my point and convince others that I am right, or at least not wrong.
So big boy, what do you have going for yourself ? I don't want to hear if Daddy left you alot of money, or you are one of the best scumbag politicians. I want something real. What do you have going for youreself ? What do you offer a potentuial mate other than an inferior position which will eventually make them hate you ? You probably already know it will happen unless you are a virgin. (45% chance IMO)
You write somewhat like Robert Pinkerton. I have corresponded with him and he does have an aire of superiority. The difference is that he is subtle about it. Here's a guy who is impotent and yet has attracted two mates of very high quality, and the first one didn't leave him, she died. His Women put up with some shit to be with him. Anytime they left the house they were required to wear a chastity belt, and I don't mean some hundred buck piece of shit. I mean the real McCoy. But he also insisted that they carry a gun, and made sure that they were trained in it's usage.
I have some writings of his, but they are no longer searchable on the net because the forum is now gone. His superiority was demonstrated by the importance he gave to the safety of his Woman. He also had alot of views with which I agree, like individualism and the like.
What have you ? Tell us a little about yourself. What made you this way ? In what exact ways are you holier or better than the average ? Rather than poking fun. this is the question that needs to be answered. Perhaps in doing so you will grow, and maybe explain yourself a bit, so that your position does not seem so adversarial to the "common" people.
You have the floor.
T^T
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