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meatcleaver -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/8/2006 1:50:01 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MichMasochist
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ORIGINAL: DigitBox
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ORIGINAL: naughtynick
Men are more genuine when it comes to sex, women like to play cat and mouse and stuff the men around for it. Sometimes I wish I was gay.
Erm... I know of plenty of guys who will play (as in coerce) a woman to get her to say yes to sleeping with them. How is that more genuine? Actually I was hit on by lots of gay guys in my teens and twenties, who would use sleazy round about tactics to try and get me to have sex with them. Or even just to get my phone number.
I'm pretty sure the gay Doms would have you doing their house work too. Or at the very least you would be polishing their leather boots and tidying up the dungeon. It's not just a female Domme thing, it's in the culture of BDSM that subs perform tasks to please the Dom/me.
Not everyone does it, but I know it's been a requirement for me when I was with a Dom. And I've offered it to a Dom I was interested in so that he knew that I would be willing to work for my pleasure.
Reads to me like they were treating you like a "bitch". (According to a gay co-worker)
Men are more "genuine" when it comes to sexual intent.
The first thing every man learns when courting a woman, or the "bitch", is that it's all about playing the game, her game, to get the grand prize.
These lessons are:
1) Lie about what you're really after. If you use honesty you loose automatically.
2) Lie about what you think. Tell her what she wants to hear.
3) Lie about what your plans for the future are. "Oh I'm going pre-med." Kerching!!!! Home run.
4) Lie about what it is that you really like about her. "Oh I love the way think and we have so much in common." Translation, I really like those melons and the way your tight ass swings. ;)
So we "sit up", roll over, and play dead. Just to give the woman a bone. :P
This is so so true. Most women, when they are attracted to a man and want nothing but a fuck from him, the man knows damn well that if he doesn't pretend she means heaven and earth to him, he'll blow it. For the most part they seem to want to fool themselves as much as the bloke. They just seem to think if they fuck a bloke for nothing but pleasure they will be selling themselves too cheaply. Hence men aren't honest in their intentions by default. If you are honest the prize will be denied to you.
For the most part, the prize isn't worth the effort but hey, we men are ruled by our dicks. I've only ever come across one woman in my life that has from the beginning shunned the romantic crap. Just look at the profiles on CM. 'This is spiritual', 'I want intimacy', 'I am special and demand to be treated that way', 'I know what I'm worth', 'I will be all to that special domm'. They want a fuck but have to fool themsleves into thinking they are above just getting down and dirty.
People will be getting bored of my bete noir but she was so fucking high maintenance in the 'intimacy' and 'I'm special' stakes and 'I will surprise the special dom with what I'm capable of'. In the end she proved, that when her pussy throbs she wanted a cock. She didn't want someone who cared for her, she just couldn't face up to the fact she wanted a good fuck, she had to have men putting her on a pedestal first and play her game so she could enjoy making them dance to her tune before they got the grand prize. She knew damn well how much I thought about her because of the sacrifices I made but I refused to dance to her tune and sit up and beg and unconditionally adore the bitch because there was other things in my life that at times had to take priority over her.
Now I'm back to reality and I'll play the game as far as it suits me but I've learnt my lesson and will never ever again believe in the crap most women want to hear.
And d'yer know something, the game works!
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