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Mavis -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/8/2006 8:53:16 AM)
i will say for a nilla partner, i agree, i've told gal friends "marry a man for good sex, you can get mental stimulation in the workplace." If you're monogomous, going outside for the sex part is not part of the game plan, so cover what you need most at the house first. Or go poly and cover what you will where you will. But if it's nilla sex you're looking for, even nilla sex with a kink, BDSM site is the wrong place. If you just want kinky S&M + sex, don't look for Dommes or Doms, look for "Female Top" or "Male Top", which implies play-action, NOT service. Domme , Dom, Master, Mistress all imply some level of service and mental power exchange beyond physical realm. Your problem is you've been barking up the wrong tree, applying for service jobs when you don't have the skills or interest in those jobs.

MightyAphrodite -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/8/2006 11:34:12 AM)
I am so sorry for you nick,I think your not understading what many have tried to share with you,instead you keep repeating the same information..have you bothered to read male submissives adds or male slaves adds on here? many have no interest in sex,do you know this? infact, many want to be chastised(another fetish) do you intend to call these males names,who have a very opposite need than what yours is?? As another person mentioned,you are a bottom,thats clear,so your in need of a top,which is a 'play' dynamic,not an on going continuous Ds relationship,which is fine,just stop knocking others kinks ,once you graduate to being a kinkster who respects all forms of this lifestyle,even if its not what your into,then maybe you will attract what you need,until then,you will just be a horny boy who thinks bdsm = sex,it costs nothing to learn from your elders my friend

TedEbear -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/9/2006 5:28:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MightyAphrodite -----clipped----- submissives adds or male slaves adds on here? many have no interest in sex,do you know this? infact, many want to be chastised(another fetish) -----clipped----- Excuse me, I think you missed the part in this thread about where all men know that if they tell the trueth about what hey are actually after, they loose. quote: MichMasochist wrote: These lessons are: 1) Lie about what you're really after. If you use honesty you loose automatically. And as his last line puts it: quote: So we "sit up", roll over, and play dead. Just to give the woman a bone. :P Honey child all men lie. Didn't your moma ever tell you that?

ExistentialSteel -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/9/2006 6:01:25 PM)
Michael, I mean this as a compliment, you are an interesting example of someone who believes in female superiority. I find your views worthy of study. This question of men vs women in sexual desire and control is a good one. Since, I'm 50 now, looking back, I will tell you that the desire/control aspect changes considerably at about age 35. Men, all of a sudden, are in control. Be prepared.

MichMasochist -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 4:53:24 PM)
Getting one? If I was desperate enought to settle for one of the 40 - 400 club. That is over 40 years old and, or, over 400 hundred. The under thirties and under crowd always wants tribute because their pro. And I wasn't looking for a (insert noun here) in leather.

kisshou -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 7:19:57 PM)
what does 'go toss off' mean? this was way back in the beginning of the thread

akisha -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 7:43:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 then again, some men just don't get it about women, men think it's all about sex...period. (well, sex and televised sports...LOL) Ummm actually this sounds good to me too g and i'm definately female

yourMissTress -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 7:53:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kisshou what does 'go toss off' mean? this was way back in the beginning of the thread. Courtesy of Wikipedia.... an allied irish (ireland) a date with palmela handerson archibold reillying it audition the finger puppets bang one off, bang one out bash the bishop bat 'bating away beat off beat your beef beat the meat, beat one's meat bono is a giant douche burp the worm chafe the yard (dated - this term is used in early colonial-era Puritan legal documents) choke the chicken (US) chuff (UK) clean the cheese off the George Foreman Grill consult Professor Hans Jerkov coping with being a male crank one off/out crying yourself to sleep dating Miss Michigan deploying the troops do a number three do the five finger shuffle double clicking the mouse entertain oneself fap, fapping feeding the ducks fifty flick fun firing off knuckle children fist your mister five knuckle shuffle flog the dolphin flog the log (Australian) fly solo fucking Palm and her five sisters full knuckle shuffle going to town on yourself ('Friends SE10 Outakes') gurk ham shank this is rhyming slang for wank, see below. hand to gland combat hand job hand relief hand-to-gland combat have a date with Mrs. Michigan (Michigan's Lower Peninsula resembles a hand) have a GARY (Lineker) have a hand shandy have a mastie have a pull have a talk with James Lipton have a wank (British) hob your knob impregnate ya' belly-button interrogate the suspect (US) jack off (US) Jeremy Shank,Arthur Rank (rhymes with wank)(Brit.) jerk off (US) jerkin' the Gherkin jostling the elder keep my sausage hostage killing a kitten killing Tony Danza knock one (right) off Leo's one-inch-punch let poor Willy know he's still wanted mbate (pronounced Em-Bate) milking the cock milking the lizard mutilate your mutton Operation Spunk Sock paint the house paw off play with oneself playing the skin flute pleasure oneself pleasure the sphincter play pocket pool / pocket billards (UK) polish the pole/rocket/trumpet/rifle/pewter/one-eyed gopher pop your weasel pounding your pud pud whacker pull oneself, pull oneself off pull your pork pull your pud pulling a jered pump the Primus punch the clown putting the kleenex kids through college pwn the noob (Internet) rattlesnake shake (Fleetwood Mac song) result of seeing little miss 11 rope the rat (US) roughing the suspect rub one off rub one ogre rub one out rub the head of the vicar (UK) run off a batch self-pollution service yourself shake hands with Benjamin Franklin shake hands with the cyclops shaking hands with the one eyed milk man shake hands with the unemployed shaking white coconuts from the veiny tree shoot some knuckle babies shoot off a load shooting aliens slapping the ham snap a batch (off) snap a tune sneedle my deedle spank (it) spank the monkey spank your frank spiel das sache spend time with Jill, {refering to the back of the right hand) squeeze the lever squeezing the eclair stay in with Patsy Palmer and her five sisters, or Rosy Palm and her five daughters stroke the chook stroke the spaff-stick strumming the one string banjo take care of oneself taking your monkey for a walk taking Captain Picard up to warp speed tame the beast tangsturbate tickle the todger tommy tanking toss the caber toss off, toss oneself off thank the maker throttling the joystick ("US") tickle the trout tug tug the trouser meat wank, wank off (British) wax the dolphin wax the turtle whack off whack your dia whackin' the funny wangsturbate wanker wango tango waxing one's carrot whip the weasel whipping up a batch white water wristing wrestle the one-eyed monster yabadabadoo yank the chain Bustin Horizontals Choke the Smurf

allspicey -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 8:21:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick Someone who would get aroused in taking advantage over me in that certain way. Thats what gets me off. Okay, I was trying to wade through this whole thread before replying but this I had to say something to (and while I do have sympathy to an extent for nick, this has been the funniest board I've read in a while). nick, as you say, women can have sex at the snap of a finger. Women can have pretty much any kind of sex they want if they put a little effort out. Hence, like anything you can have whenever you want, you become picky about it. Now you want a woman who gets off on getting you off. You're looking in the wrong pile, mate! What you should be doing is looking at the submissive women! Now before you go off at me about your kink, let me say this. Most of your kink seems to be physically oriented, to get you off. I know many a submissive who wields a mean flogger and I know a number of dominants that like pain play. They get off on it. They simply tell their submissives to do what they want! Domina's are domina's because they like to be in control. They may not get off on it sexually (do you get off on jumping out of airplanes sexually or for the thrill of it?) but they do get a big power rush. The more you fight them over control, the more they will gleefully deny you what you want. Even tops tend to often play non sexually. BDSM isn't the best place to get casual sex. In fact, in my experience it's one of the worst places because most people here are more interested in their kink (whatever that might be) than sex. Female submissives are much more likely to be into sexual activities with their dominants than Femdoms are with their boys. Again, it's a power thing. You say Femdoms treat their pussies like gold. Of course they do! They are into POWER. The power to give and the power to deny. The boys that serve them are also into power. The power to receive or not, depending on her whims. Are they spoiled? OMG what a silly question! ALL dominants are spoiled. Do you think I get sex just because I want it? Do you think I can NOT have sex just because I don't want to? Sexual control is power. Dominants know this. Femdoms really know this, and yes, they DO enjoy depriving a male submissive of his erotic pleasure. Usually both get off on it or a boy simply doesn't serve that kind of domme. Master has a boy now that is asking for training and Master has said there will be no sex because he's not into boys. This boy says he accepts that and he is happy enough to learn the OTHER parts of the BDSM lifestyle. Under those conditions Master is open to working with him. But it is the boy's choice if he wants to serve under those conditions. If he follows through with it, Master will see to it that he learns skills that may help him attract another dominant, male or female. It is always your choice whether you want to serve a Femdom as she wants. But don't expect her to serve YOU. Tisn't in the nature of the beast. If you're a good boy she might reward you. But if she's a no sex domme you better find that out before bothering to go further because she isn't likely to change that no matter how well you serve her. spicey

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 8:32:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MichMasochist Getting one? If I was desperate enought to settle for one of the 40 - 400 club. That is over 40 years old and, or, over 400 hundred. The under thirties and under crowd always wants tribute because their pro. And I wasn't looking for a (insert noun here) in leather In trying to demean women who are over fourty and of whatever weight you are also implying to me, but I could be wrong in interpreting, that those women are the only ones who would possibly be interested in a "winner" like yourself (I wonder what the ladies here would say); you are also clearly saying you lack the money and or the charm to attract a lady under 40. M

Kirei -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/10/2006 8:44:08 PM)
You know it goes the same way for any cute TS. I know I can get any guy I want with a little effort if I want them, so I really don't go after them on-line. Now women who are willing to admit they like pre-op TS's now that is pretty rare. Koneko

Calandra -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 1:05:38 AM)
naughtynick, I'm not trying to be combative here, but you apparently have no idea what My typical day is like... I have two sub/slaves in my home. One (the female) works from 8-5 M-F. The male works part time, and does lawn, home, and auto maintenance. Now "I" do the majority of the housework, and my beloveds pitch in when necessary. We work as a family, period. What I find amusing about this thread is this: I get five to ten emails a day from male sub/slaves who want to be domestics, or sissy maids. For a large number of the male submissive population, their kink IS housework. I must admit, when time for spring cleaning comes around, I have been known to make use of their services, but not remotely because I "need" to. I find it rather exhausting sometimes to stand there and give step by step instructions, when I could do it in half the time and "right the first time". LOL I realize it's frustrating to be a male sub on a site like this. There are so many aspects to BDSM, so many fetishes, so many agendas and goals. But to discredit someone else's reasons for this lifestyle OR for this site is simply rude. I truly hope that you didn't mean to sound rude when you posted this thread, and I look forward to dialogue with you in the future if you wish it. Lady Kathryn Athens Ga.

becca333 -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 1:13:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick Most women are all talk and no action. BDSM seems to be more about the man doing house work for them than the sexual side of things. What a waste of space. Sweetie, you offer to do my housework for me, and I'll consider switching.

Kedikat -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 1:46:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Wulfchyld Um… this is a fetish site not a sex site. So what you need to look at is the fetishes in the profile. If sexual fetishes are listed… bingo! You might get some action. What is it with this separation of fetish and sex? Fetish does not exclude sex. It does not implicitly include it either. I personally enjoy practicing many " fetish " activities while My cock or other body portions may be in some orifice of My partner. They do combine quite nicely. It can also give you a very direct and intimate connection to the physical reactions of your mate as you " fetish " upon them. Who the hell thinks they are the fetish/sex God that made this rule? And why follow it?

Arquistador -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 1:57:51 AM)
There is freedom and there are rules If outside the box is what you set your heart on There are wise men and there are fools And outside their box a bigger carton

naughtynick -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 2:02:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: becca333 quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick Most women are all talk and no action. BDSM seems to be more about the man doing house work for them than the sexual side of things. What a waste of space. Sweetie, you offer to do my housework for me, and I'll consider switching. lol, no thanks. I would only do house work for money, not for sex. If 200 bucks is on the table, I may consider.

becca333 -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 2:53:03 AM)
If I'm paying $200, I want more than the vacuuming done.

Kedikat -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 2:54:09 AM)
It just isn't coming to sex often enough.....

naughtynick -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 2:54:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: becca333 If I'm paying $200, I want more than the vacuuming done. I am charging by the day here. One day = 200 bucks. I also accept credit cards.

becca333 -> RE: When it comes to sex (5/11/2006 3:13:06 AM)
There isn't a vacuum cleaner big enough.

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