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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 2:34:25 AM   
TheRaptorJesus


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Status: offline 		This one time a woman tried to play me...

I ate her liver.

The end.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 2:37:51 AM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: slaveloser69

anyway, i thought i was into this girl, so we made plans to chill for 2 weekends ago. i left my gf (not just for her but she was a reason) i thought i had a REAL connection w/ her.

.. and to think i have to see this girl at work on monday and tuesday..


At first I laughed when I read your post.

Then I thought about it.

Then I laughed even more. It was great, thanks.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 2:55:33 AM   
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Yup.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 4:49:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: slaveloser69

Not really BSM related but wanted to share my feelings. i was SOO played by this girl. I work with this girl twice a week, and we were really hitting it off. We were flirting a lot, and she gave me a lot of signs she was into me. i.e. "your so nice, your gf must love you" (not knowing If I had a gf or not just trying to find out if i did)... or "wow your great, do you have any brothers" (as in do i have any single brothers)..

anyway, i thought i was into this girl, so we made plans to chill for 2 weekends ago. i left my gf (not just for her but she was a reason) i thought i had a REAL connection w/ her.We finallyagree to meet at the bar tonight, and i don't really hear from her all day, so i call her. she doesnt answer and calls me back like an hour later and says shell txt me when shes at the bars. she never txts me so i txt her by like 12:30, she writes me back like 15 mins later telling me where she is.. finally we meet up, dance a bit and thinks seem OKAY, but she and her friend go out for a ciggaret outside (im with my friend waiting).. they come back, and me and my friend go w/ them outside and these guys try to talk to her and her friend.. and then the guys see they are with us and appolgoize, but the girl continues to talk to them, and brings them over.. so the 2 girls we are with are talking to these 2 guys while we just stand back.. after a few minutes we leave.. it was so insulting, so humilaiting (and not in a good sexual waY).. ive never been so embarrased and humiliated.. and to think i have to see this girl at work on monday and tuesday..


There are a few possibilities that actually don't involve her being as cold hearted as you think.
I think you read her wrong.
She may just be a flirtatious person and you saw more than was there.
Getting together to chill, to hang out, is not the same as going on a date... and perhaps when you were with her you were too intense in your affections and first she found a buffer in those 2 guys and then any excuse to bail on you, or quite possibly she just did not see it the same way, that this was a "date".

I misread, I thought she left.
No, you did.
That was your choice to do so.
You could have still opted to hang out...as you were just getting together to chill.


So, unless you made a scene when you left, I think you just go back to being a co-worker.
If you made a scene when you left, then you suck it up and go back to being a co-worker.


Either way, you had too much invested for just chillin' with a co-worker, flirtatious or not.
I still stand by this.

I can see how being ditched could feel like that, but her lack of availability and non-return of texts was a pretty good hint that she did not feel the same way you did.

As for the rest, yup, follow Selectivelight's advice and make wiser choices next time.

edit: upon my clarity

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 4:58:16 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheRaptorJesus

This one time a woman tried to play me...

I ate her liver.

The end.



But did she bring the Chianti?


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 5:04:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		For God's sake, dude, someone who's into drama and whining like you are should NEVER date people from work. Had you hooked up with the wench, you'd be driving your whole workplace nuts. SelectiveLight is right.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 5:09:09 AM   
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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 5:13:05 AM   
Buzzzz


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quote:

And this, my boy, is why you don't shit where you eat.

That worldly advice aside, here's how I'd fix it if I were you. (Warning, opinions below!)

1: Don't be a dick, be social with the girl but don't invite her out anymore. If she offers an apology, accept it, but make it clear you're no longer interested. Don't go around being rude or resentful. Be polite, and focus on your work. You should have been doing that to begin with.

2: Call your ex, apologize to her. Don't ask for her to come back. Don't accept if she offers. Just let her know that while things didn't work out, you wish her all the best. If you don't actually wish her all the best, you're a jive turkey and should get over yourself.

3: Remind yourself, twice a week, when you see this co-worker, that you brought this on yourself, and should be grateful it hasn't turned out worse.

You should be humiliated by what -you- did. Not what she did.


ezactly. very well said.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 5:20:33 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveloser69

Not really BSM related but wanted to share my feelings. i was SOO played by this girl. I work with this girl twice a week, and we were really hitting it off. We were flirting a lot, and she gave me a lot of signs she was into me. i.e. "your so nice, your gf must love you" (not knowing If I had a gf or not just trying to find out if i did)... or "wow your great, do you have any brothers" (as in do i have any single brothers)..

anyway, i thought i was into this girl, so we made plans to chill for 2 weekends ago. i left my gf (not just for her but she was a reason) i thought i had a REAL connection w/ her.We finallyagree to meet at the bar tonight, and i don't really hear from her all day, so i call her. she doesnt answer and calls me back like an hour later and says shell txt me when shes at the bars. she never txts me so i txt her by like 12:30, she writes me back like 15 mins later telling me where she is.. finally we meet up, dance a bit and thinks seem OKAY, but she and her friend go out for a ciggaret outside (im with my friend waiting).. they come back, and me and my friend go w/ them outside and these guys try to talk to her and her friend.. and then the guys see they are with us and appolgoize, but the girl continues to talk to them, and brings them over.. so the 2 girls we are with are talking to these 2 guys while we just stand back.. after a few minutes we leave.. it was so insulting, so humilaiting (and not in a good sexual waY).. ive never been so embarrased and humiliated.. and to think i have to see this girl at work on monday and tuesday..


You made the bed, now you get to lie in it.

Grins. Personally, I think she wanted a man who can properly use English, but that's just me.


Finally:
so the 2 girls we are with are talking to these 2 guys while we just stand back.. after a few minutes we leave
Really? You just stood back, didn't say or do shit, maybe muttered a thing or two, while some cats just ballsed up and moved in on your action?
Sucka! Sounds like you deserved what ya got.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 5:27:48 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Selectivelight

And this, my boy, is why you don't shit where you eat.

That worldly advice aside, here's how I'd fix it if I were you. (Warning, opinions below!)

1: Don't be a dick, be social with the girl but don't invite her out anymore. If she offers an apology, accept it, but make it clear you're no longer interested. Don't go around being rude or resentful. Be polite, and focus on your work. You should have been doing that to begin with.

2: Call your ex, apologize to her. Don't ask for her to come back. Don't accept if she offers. Just let her know that while things didn't work out, you wish her all the best. If you don't actually wish her all the best, you're a jive turkey and should get over yourself.

3: Remind yourself, twice a week, when you see this co-worker, that you brought this on yourself, and should be grateful it hasn't turned out worse.

You should be humiliated by what -you- did. Not what she did.






This.

OP........grow the fuck up and quit living up to your screen name.

I hope the next guy your ex dates is more mature and less whiny.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 6:15:39 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Selectivelight

You should be humiliated by what -you- did. Not what she did.




Some of 'em must just love the humiliation


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 6:18:43 AM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

Some of 'em must just love the humiliation


I suspect that was the reason for the original posting in the first place.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:12:59 AM   
stellauk


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:13:54 AM   
needlesandpins


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Buzzzz

quote:

And this, my boy, is why you don't shit where you eat.

That worldly advice aside, here's how I'd fix it if I were you. (Warning, opinions below!)

1: Don't be a dick, be social with the girl but don't invite her out anymore. If she offers an apology, accept it, but make it clear you're no longer interested. Don't go around being rude or resentful. Be polite, and focus on your work. You should have been doing that to begin with.

2: Call your ex, apologize to her. Don't ask for her to come back. Don't accept if she offers. Just let her know that while things didn't work out, you wish her all the best. If you don't actually wish her all the best, you're a jive turkey and should get over yourself.

3: Remind yourself, twice a week, when you see this co-worker, that you brought this on yourself, and should be grateful it hasn't turned out worse.

You should be humiliated by what -you- did. Not what she did.


ezactly. very well said.


i agree with the above i'm affraid.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:16:48 AM   
littlewonder


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:25:22 AM   
FukinTroll


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ORIGINAL: lazarus1983

And when I finally got it back from her, she'd broken it in a million pieces.

But that's not even the worst part! I vacuumed up all the pieces by mistake. Broke the damn thing too.

But the real kicker is, it's not even covered in my warranty! Oreck man, you sonofabitch.

So anyway, OP, the best advice I can give you is to get yourself a Dirt Devil. It practically pays for itself!


Dude, we know you are full of crap now. She is holding a broom, is a flying monkey, and is fukin HHHHHOOOOOTTTTTT to boot. You should have seen it coming, but we know for a fact she uses the pictured broom to sweep the tiny little pieces into the sewer drain... hence the backed up septic tank.

In conclusion... your accusations are suspect... unless she just felt it more fitting to go all hammer happy on your heart.

YMMV
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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:34:04 AM   
Tantriqu


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Status: offline 		Ditto on the don't date where you work. And ya know, hot vanillas can be real dicks. Why? Because they think they can.

And if you've never done this yourself to a female, i.e., didn't return her call or show up precisely when you promised you would, congratulations!
Otherwise you can never, ever complain about this again, and you'll never, ever do this to a date again. Because that would make you a ginormous hypocrite.

[BTW, unless you're born in the year before 1970, your username gives you negative streetcred, dude].


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:34:31 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheRaptorJesus

This one time a woman tried to play me...

I ate her liver.

The end.



With some fava beans and a nice chianti?






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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:42:40 AM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty


quote:

ORIGINAL: TheRaptorJesus

This one time a woman tried to play me...

I ate her liver.

The end.



But did she bring the Chianti?



Damn, you beat me to it.

I have to start learning to read the whole thread before I post.

< Message edited by rulemylife -- 3/12/2011 7:43:08 AM >

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 7:43:15 AM   
flcouple2009


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Wait..............I know what it is. 

It's the ex gf laughing. 

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