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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 9:35:53 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


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And this, my boy, is why you don't shit where you eat.

That worldly advice aside, here's how I'd fix it if I were you. (Warning, opinions below!)

1: Don't be a dick, be social with the girl but don't invite her out anymore. If she offers an apology, accept it, but make it clear you're no longer interested. Don't go around being rude or resentful. Be polite, and focus on your work. You should have been doing that to begin with.

2: Call your ex, apologize to her. Don't ask for her to come back. Don't accept if she offers. Just let her know that while things didn't work out, you wish her all the best. If you don't actually wish her all the best, you're a jive turkey and should get over yourself.

3: Remind yourself, twice a week, when you see this co-worker, that you brought this on yourself, and should be grateful it hasn't turned out worse.

You should be humiliated by what -you- did. Not what she did.






This.

OP........grow the fuck up and quit living up to your screen name.

I hope the next guy your ex dates is more mature and less whiny.

This again.

OP, you didn't get played.  You threw somebody over for 'the grass is greener' concept.  In turn a smaller version (no real emotional/relationship investment) happened to you.  It wasn't quite what you deserved, as yours was minimal.  Maybe you'll at least get a small taste of what you did to your girlfriend over this experience. 

It is My sincere hope that your ex-girlfriend finds someone who is more dedicated to her than you were.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 9:46:34 AM   
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Like a Van Halen solo!

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 9:54:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		slaveloser...thanks for posting this, it did me good to learn there are still guys like you out in the world...I wish there were more like you. Guys like you are the reason why ugly old fuckers like me can still score with the hotties.




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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 9:56:55 AM   
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slaveloser...thanks for posting this, it did me good to learn there are still guys like you out in the world...I wish there were more like you. Guys like you are the reason why ugly old fuckers like me can still score with the hotties.





There is only one thing I can say to this....



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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 10:37:08 AM   
NocturnalStalker


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Status: offline 		So you got rejected for being boring?

At least you didn't have a greater interest in her best friend and ended up...

Oh look, a bird.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 11:51:31 AM   
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This one time a woman tried to play me...

I ate her liver.

The end.



But did she bring the Chianti?



Some may call me unrefined for it, but unlike Dr. Lecter I actually prefer a fresh liver with Merlot room temperature and poured into a human skull.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 9:21:08 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Ah diddums. There there now. You poor boy.

You can be so comforting.  Does your sympathy come with a cup of tea?


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 10:39:10 PM   
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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 10:49:10 PM   
MalcolmNathaniel


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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

So you got rejected for being boring?

At least you didn't have a greater interest in her best friend and ended up...

Oh look, a bird.



What you said was insensitive, derogatory and....ooh is that something shiny?

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 10:51:16 PM   
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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 11:10:01 PM   
MrRodgers


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Status: offline 		Kinkroids, look at his handle (screenname)...seems quite accurate.

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/12/2011 11:24:17 PM   
NocturnalStalker


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ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

So you got rejected for being boring?

At least you didn't have a greater interest in her best friend and ended up...

Oh look, a bird.



What you said was insensitive, derogatory and....ooh is that something shiny?



By the way I still want that damn duel.

And I will risk the moderation again if I must have it, by God.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/13/2011 5:26:51 AM   
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AWWWWW poor baby....cmere and let me put my boot in your ass for being a whiney BITCH

BadOne


sighs that SB is such a sweet talker


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/13/2011 5:50:44 AM   
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Ah diddums. There there now. You poor boy.

You can be so comforting.  Does your sympathy come with a cup of tea?



Of course. Tea and beer for the adults. Pacifiers for the jessies such as this one.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/13/2011 7:41:00 AM   
rick1283


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*waves shiny stuff around*


Shiny?

SHINY!

~Tackles for the shiny~



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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/13/2011 7:43:28 AM   
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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/13/2011 7:43:57 AM   
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Ah diddums. There there now. You poor boy.

You can be so comforting.  Does your sympathy come with a cup of tea?



What a question

Considering this gorgeous one is residing within the UK

Yanno....tea was the reason why she came to the UK in the first place

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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/13/2011 10:19:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		OP, you didn't get played because you never had a chance to begin with. She thought she was meeting a friend, not a possible love interest. And friends are happy when their friends find possible love. This was an entirely imaginary relationship on your part. She would be shocked and horrified if you told her you had thrown over your gf for her.

Be grateful she doesn't know because now you can continue to be office friends and not have any difficulties working together.


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/15/2011 10:53:47 AM   
tiggerspoohbear


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Status: offline 		As the great Mick Jagger and Keith Richards wrote in a classic song:


I saw her today at the reception
A glass of wine in her hand
I knew she would meet her connection
At her feet was her footloose man

No, you can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometime you find
You get what you need

We went down to the demonstration
To get your fair share of abuse
Singing, "We're gonna vent our frustration
If we don't we're gonna blow a 50-amp fuse"

You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes well you just might find
You get what you need

I went down to the Chelsea drugstore
To get your prescription filled
I was standing in line with Mr. Jimmy
And man, did he look pretty ill
We decided that we would have a soda
My favorite flavor, cherry red
I sung my song to Mr. Jimmy
Yeah, and he said one word to me, and that was "dead"
I said to him

You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You get what you need

You get what you need--yeah, oh baby

I saw her today at the reception
In her glass was a bleeding man
She was practiced at the art of deception
Well I could tell by her blood-stained hands

You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You just might find
You get what you need

You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
You can't always get what you want
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You just might find
You get what you need

And there it is, a lesson in humility and how not to act like a behindular person (translated to assholeishness). 


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RE: I got played so badly.. - 3/15/2011 12:05:02 PM   
servantforuse


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Status: offline 		There is a God and you should be thanking him. This happened to you before you started spending a lot of time on her, and more importantly a lot of money. I would thank her when I saw her next.

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