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slaveloser69 -> I got played so badly.. (3/11/2011 11:43:04 PM)
Not really BSM related but wanted to share my feelings. i was SOO played by this girl. I work with this girl twice a week, and we were really hitting it off. We were flirting a lot, and she gave me a lot of signs she was into me. i.e. "your so nice, your gf must love you" (not knowing If I had a gf or not just trying to find out if i did)... or "wow your great, do you have any brothers" (as in do i have any single brothers).. anyway, i thought i was into this girl, so we made plans to chill for 2 weekends ago. i left my gf (not just for her but she was a reason) i thought i had a REAL connection w/ her.We finallyagree to meet at the bar tonight, and i don't really hear from her all day, so i call her. she doesnt answer and calls me back like an hour later and says shell txt me when shes at the bars. she never txts me so i txt her by like 12:30, she writes me back like 15 mins later telling me where she is.. finally we meet up, dance a bit and thinks seem OKAY, but she and her friend go out for a ciggaret outside (im with my friend waiting).. they come back, and me and my friend go w/ them outside and these guys try to talk to her and her friend.. and then the guys see they are with us and appolgoize, but the girl continues to talk to them, and brings them over.. so the 2 girls we are with are talking to these 2 guys while we just stand back.. after a few minutes we leave.. it was so insulting, so humilaiting (and not in a good sexual waY).. ive never been so embarrased and humiliated.. and to think i have to see this girl at work on monday and tuesday..

GreedyTop -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/11/2011 11:56:11 PM)
was there a question in there?

slaveloser69 -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:00:07 AM)
well noo.. but thats messed up right?? i feel horrible

stellauk -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:07:25 AM)
Ah diddums. There there now. You poor boy.

Jennislut -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:14:44 AM)
youre bitching to complete strangers on the interneyt because a girl you were out for drinks with talked to another guy? dude you have some serious jealousy issues

lazarus1983 -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:24:31 AM)
You think you've got it bad, GreedyTop stole my heart and ran away with it. The worst part is? She doesn't even realize it.

GreedyTop -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:26:31 AM)
blink was it the fact that I am also an RAH fan? grin

Kirata -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:26:52 AM)
Maybe she knew (or found out) that you had a girlfriend and figured you were a piece of shit. edited to add: In reply to the OP K.

lazarus1983 -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:27:14 AM)
Mayyyyyyyyybe. Among other things. :)

GreedyTop -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:27:52 AM)
yay! grin

myotherself -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:29:38 AM)
pfffftttt...get a room you two! [:D] See OP? THAT'S how it's done!

GreedyTop -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:31:23 AM)
tacklefondles da Bunny

lazarus1983 -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:36:45 AM)
And when I finally got it back from her, she'd broken it in a million pieces. But that's not even the worst part! I vacuumed up all the pieces by mistake. Broke the damn thing too. But the real kicker is, it's not even covered in my warranty! Oreck man, you sonofabitch. So anyway, OP, the best advice I can give you is to get yourself a Dirt Devil. It practically pays for itself!

GreedyTop -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:38:35 AM)
snerk

Termyn8or -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:43:45 AM)
First of all you don't let anyone fuck you around like that. She doesn't answer the phone you just go where you go. Too late, YOU come to ME. If I read this right it is not a D/s meeting right ? On something like that you might get fucked around but not in regular circumstances. First message : "Hey where you at ? You got my number, I'd like to hook up tonight". Second message : " I am at ____________ stop on down, we're having a good time. Wish you were here". And then you never dial that number again until she calls. Got it get it good. T^T

SailingBum -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 12:54:41 AM)
AWWWWW poor baby....cmere and let me put my boot in your ass for being a whiney BITCH BadOne

Selectivelight -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 1:52:38 AM)
And this, my boy, is why you don't shit where you eat. That worldly advice aside, here's how I'd fix it if I were you. (Warning, opinions below!) 1: Don't be a dick, be social with the girl but don't invite her out anymore. If she offers an apology, accept it, but make it clear you're no longer interested. Don't go around being rude or resentful. Be polite, and focus on your work. You should have been doing that to begin with. 2: Call your ex, apologize to her. Don't ask for her to come back. Don't accept if she offers. Just let her know that while things didn't work out, you wish her all the best. If you don't actually wish her all the best, you're a jive turkey and should get over yourself. 3: Remind yourself, twice a week, when you see this co-worker, that you brought this on yourself, and should be grateful it hasn't turned out worse. You should be humiliated by what -you- did. Not what she did.

kissheels -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 1:55:13 AM)
BoooHooooo!!!!!

Hippiekinkster -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 2:03:58 AM)
I'm conflicted. On the one hand, I'm thinking the OP should complete the M2F transition. OTOH, It would be horrible to inflict such a pussy on the world.

BonesFromAsh -> RE: I got played so badly.. (3/12/2011 2:10:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Selectivelight And this, my boy, is why you don't shit where you eat. Quoted for truth! quote: ORIGINAL: slaveloser69 i left my gf (not just for her but she was a reason) i thought i had a REAL connection w/ her. You get what you give. This is what happens when you assume things like a "REAL connection" with a co-worker who appears to have a silver tongue.

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